[-] oftheair 1 points 21 hours ago

It's okay. At least we learned about a cool author and book!

[-] oftheair 2 points 1 day ago

Thanks for explaining!

[-] oftheair 2 points 1 day ago

eh, maybe vers

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oh gosh, we love Becky Chamber's work. This is amazing that we didn't know this one. Thanks for sharing!

Edit: Seems you might be incorrect. It was written by Annalee Newitz

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 day ago

Dominant and breedable.

[-] oftheair 6 points 1 day ago

In other news: Water makes things wet.

[-] oftheair 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Have you tried asking him what he meant? Like why he finds them boring.

[-] oftheair 6 points 1 day ago

Subvert the law, it doesn't work for us so make sure there's hormones and blockers waiting ๐Ÿ™‚.

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 day ago

Throw bricks at them.

[-] oftheair 2 points 2 days ago

Choosing Your Rope (don't get elastic rope).

Always have safety shears on hand.

If it hurts too much or even worse goes numb, stop immediately and remove it quickly (or cut through it with the safety shears if it's taking a while to get it off).

Long term though, if you can try to find some classes near you that you can go to physically, this will give you better training.

That's all we know for now, hope this helps!

[-] oftheair 17 points 2 days ago

trained to turn hormone powder into meds for human consumption

and for non-human consumption too, pretty please ๐Ÿ™‚

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submitted 1 week ago by oftheair to c/trans

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/27207610

Is there a community here that's more appropriate for trans/queer folks to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions? If not would y'all like one created?

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submitted 1 week ago by oftheair to c/mtf

Is there a community here that's more appropriate for trans/queer folks to ask and answer more personal and intimate questions? If not would y'all like one created?

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submitted 1 month ago by oftheair to c/trans

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/26381236

We have searched the internet and looked in a lot of places in it, however, we cannot find any non marketing or general information about them and since we would like to get bottom surgery, it would be very useful info to have.

So we were wondering what they are like, from hopefully people who have actually had the surgery or know somebody who has.

What are the various surgeries results, either penile inversion, ppt, or suporn etc?

Now obviously clitorises of them do not function exactly the same as endogynous ones since they do not extend all the way inside, but is there a hood that they expand out of, and what is the feeling like just in general and when touched?

Do any methods apart from ppt and the other one where they put anal tissue in have lube occur naturally? If so how does this occur?

Does the inside of any of the methods feel like endogynous vaginas over time or does it feel like flat skin or whatever no matter how much time there has been?

Does anybody have any pictures of what they look like? Not asking for anything personal or porny, just, we have never found any pictures online except for surgery pictures and thus are not sure what the various methods might look like after (without all the blood and stitches etc) and since we plan to get bottom surgery in the future knowing the various results visually would help a lot to help us decide which to go for and probably ease our anxiety.

Thanks so much for reading and hopefully answering these questions.

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What are neovaginas like? (self.transgender)
submitted 1 month ago by oftheair to c/transgender

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/26381236

We have searched the internet and looked in a lot of places in it, however, we cannot find any non marketing or general information about them and since we would like to get bottom surgery, it would be very useful info to have.

So we were wondering what they are like, from hopefully people who have actually had the surgery or know somebody who has.

What are the various surgeries results, either penile inversion, ppt, or suporn etc?

Now obviously clitorises of them do not function exactly the same as endogynous ones since they do not extend all the way inside, but is there a hood that they expand out of, and what is the feeling like just in general and when touched?

Do any methods apart from ppt and the other one where they put anal tissue in have lube occur naturally? If so how does this occur?

Does the inside of any of the methods feel like endogynous vaginas over time or does it feel like flat skin or whatever no matter how much time there has been?

Does anybody have any pictures of what they look like? Not asking for anything personal or porny, just, we have never found any pictures online except for surgery pictures and thus are not sure what the various methods might look like after (without all the blood and stitches etc) and since we plan to get bottom surgery in the future knowing the various results visually would help a lot to help us decide which to go for and probably ease our anxiety.

Thanks so much for reading and hopefully answering these questions.

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What are neovaginas like? (self.asktransgender)
submitted 1 month ago by oftheair to c/asktransgender

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/26381236

We have searched the internet and looked in a lot of places in it, however, we cannot find any non marketing or general information about them and since we would like to get bottom surgery, it would be very useful info to have.

So we were wondering what they are like, from hopefully people who have actually had the surgery or know somebody who has.

What are the various surgeries results, either penile inversion, ppt, or suporn etc?

Now obviously clitorises of them do not function exactly the same as endogynous ones since they do not extend all the way inside, but is there a hood that they expand out of, and what is the feeling like just in general and when touched?

Do any methods apart from ppt and the other one where they put anal tissue in have lube occur naturally? If so how does this occur?

Does the inside of any of the methods feel like endogynous vaginas over time or does it feel like flat skin or whatever no matter how much time there has been?

Does anybody have any pictures of what they look like? Not asking for anything personal or porny, just, we have never found any pictures online except for surgery pictures and thus are not sure what the various methods might look like after (without all the blood and stitches etc) and since we plan to get bottom surgery in the future knowing the various results visually would help a lot to help us decide which to go for and probably ease our anxiety.

Thanks so much for reading and hopefully answering these questions.

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submitted 1 month ago by oftheair to c/mtf

We have searched the internet and looked in a lot of places in it, however, we cannot find any non marketing or general information about them and since we would like to get bottom surgery, it would be very useful info to have.

So we were wondering what they are like, from hopefully people who have actually had the surgery or know somebody who has.

What are the various surgeries results, either penile inversion, ppt, or suporn etc?

Now obviously clitorises of them do not function exactly the same as endogynous ones since they do not extend all the way inside, but is there a hood that they expand out of, and what is the feeling like just in general and when touched?

Do any methods apart from ppt and the other one where they put anal tissue in have lube occur naturally? If so how does this occur?

Does the inside of any of the methods feel like endogynous vaginas over time or does it feel like flat skin or whatever no matter how much time there has been?

Does anybody have any pictures of what they look like? Not asking for anything personal or porny, just, we have never found any pictures online except for surgery pictures and thus are not sure what the various methods might look like after (without all the blood and stitches etc) and since we plan to get bottom surgery in the future knowing the various results visually would help a lot to help us decide which to go for and probably ease our anxiety.

Thanks so much for reading and hopefully answering these questions.

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submitted 3 months ago by oftheair to c/transmemes

We see a lot of posts here which are obviously referring to a specific gender or certain wants for transitioning, yet nobody seems to be using the CWs that the rules say should be used.

Why is this exactly? Should we be trying to point this out when people posting here don't? If they aren't ever used why do we have them as rules?

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Metamour Appreciation Day (self.relationshipanarchy)
submitted 3 months ago by oftheair to c/relationshipanarchy@slrpnk.net

Hi y'all, it's Metamour Appreciation day today! We hope if you have any metamours y'all are doing well.

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submitted 4 months ago by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 4 months ago by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 4 months ago by oftheair to c/aroace

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by oftheair to c/asexual

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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