It is okay. We don't want to delete it, we'll reply instead with details once we have given it a listen, if possible. Thanks for sharing.
I don't think you're being very fair here.
Yeah, that's uh, fair. We guess a better way to put it is more than any other way of relating it is supposed to be that way, other relationship types are not inherently set up that way nor have that as an inherent guideline, is that okay?
Hi there, thanks for sharing. Did you see the community description? Is this song/collection sexual or non sexual? Can you describe the song or collection as well?
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We don't agree with that definition of Relationship Anarchy completely.
Hi, we're relationship anarchists and instead for us it's more about not basing our relationships on what society thinks they should be. We can have labels but they're not automatic and don't necessarily mean much, what matters more is what we agree upon those labels mean, ignoring what society etc defines them as.
We also don't agree with hierarchy at all in relationships, this means that friends are not less or more important than partners and vice versa, and one partner is not more important than another. Instead we tend to go for temporary priorities but nobody is overall more important than anybody else.
It can work for either those who are polyamorous or monogamous as well as long as the comitment of no hierarchy and not basing your relationships on predefined ideas of what they should be or look like.
On the polyamory side it tends not to fit with hierarchical polyamory (hopefully obviously), so it's more towards the solo polyamory or non hierarchical polyamory end.
We tend not to go for the relationship escalator, nor pushing each other into things etc, instead it is very consensual, unlike other relationship types, everything is discussed and consented to, and if it isn't it doesn't happen.
There's a manifesto written by Andie Nordgren who popularised it: https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy
There's also this site: https://relationship-anarchy.com/ and the youtube channel AnRel (Anarcho Relating) that explains all this more in depth.
But yes, the labels thing isn't really much to do with it. Instead it's more about defining our own relationships as we want to, not how others want us to.
We imagined Spy from TF2 saying this, good times.
https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Apollo_15_feather_and_hammer_drop.ogv
Without the m as the browser will decide for itself if it needs the mobile version.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
Without the m as the browser will decide for itself if it needs the mobile version.
Without the m as the browser will decide for itself if it needs the mobile version.
Image description: A meme template featuring Marie Kondo. In the top left Marie Kondo is saying "This one sparks joy" with a blank black square to the right of that for something to be input. On the bottom she is saying "This does not spark joy" with another blank black square for something to be input.
Edit: Here, we got you a higher quality version 🙂
Where are the safety shears?