[-] oftheair 2 points 2 hours ago
[-] oftheair 2 points 6 hours ago

Like what? Subject to the male gaze? No thanks.

[-] oftheair 7 points 6 hours ago

How did you know, mortal?

[-] oftheair 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

That's why people have tags and similar stuff. That enters in con non con territory and some people are into it. Others are not and should be able to stay clear from it.

Yes exactly. Stay away from any{one/many} who does not respect your consent/boundaries. We would not suggest meeting some{one/many} and diving straight into things like hypnosis with them, take it slow, discuss boundaries etc and see how well they do with other kinks/fetishes before trusting them with something like this.

[-] oftheair 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Like all kink/fetishes it can be engaged in more or less responsibly. This is why RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) exists. If you would like to know more please feel free to head over to our Kink Education and Discussion community !kink@lemmy.blahaj.zone as we wish to make people and other such creatures much safer when it comes to kink, even and especially one requiring such deep trust.

It is one of our main kinks and as such we are fairly well versed in it and its safety and how it can go wrong.

[-] oftheair 6 points 2 days ago

Ah, something we do not enjoy. Thank you for explaining!

[-] oftheair 4 points 2 days ago

Our goodnes no, that sounds terrible and unlikely to work on us. Thanks for explaining though!

[-] oftheair 6 points 3 days ago

video overstimulation?

[-] oftheair 8 points 3 days ago

Interesting, thanks!

[-] oftheair 6 points 3 days ago

That's not the definition we've found in dictionaries but thank you for providing another definition! That's very helpful 🙂

[-] oftheair 18 points 3 days ago

[Genuine] What is the etymology or source of goon? Like why is it called that?

[-] oftheair 17 points 3 days ago

[Genuine] Isn't gooning and edging the same thing?

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submitted 2 weeks ago by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by oftheair to c/aroace

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21465211

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/asexual

A wonderful video about positive asexual, aromantic and aroace representation both confirmed and somewhat confirmed also some headcanon.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by oftheair to c/aroaceagender

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21384758

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21384758

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21384758

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/ace@lemmygrad.ml

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21384758

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/aroace

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21384758

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by oftheair to c/asexual

A great video about how fandom really doesn't know how to handle asexual characters in media and likes to sexualise them regardless. There is nothing wrong with this in the sense of exploring identity etc in fan fiction inherently as long as they don't pretend that it's ever going to happen in canon or shout down asexuals who would like some characters that are canonically like them for once.

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We created TransSpecies (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/main

We created TransSpecies for all of you that don't see yoursel{f/ves} as human and would like to or are doing your best to transition to something that isn't that whether that's internally, socially, with technology or surgery (though it should be noted we don't gatekeep, exploring your identity is a-okay with us and there's no one way to be TransSpecies).

We will not be answering any questions or putting up with any remarks about us not existing or being mentally ill etc, such comments will just be reported and you will be banned from that community.

For all the rest of you, hope to see you there!

<3

!transspecies@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Introduce yoursel{f/ves} (self.transspecies)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by oftheair to c/transspecies

Hi all!

Introduce yoursel{f/ves} here.

I am a faerie most of the time, a member of the fae so my form sometimes changes.

Since we are plural the others may introduce themselves if they wish to.

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