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Sometimes, when I reassure my girlfriend, I’ll say when someone is an asshole, “maybe he just X”, like “maybe he just had a bad day” or “maybe he’s not mean, he’s just upset” or “your dad has to take care of the family, so when he’s mean to you or mom, he’s stressed since he cares”.

Am I being rude for this?? Kind advice please. Or when her online friend said “IM GONNA KILL EVERYONE” I told her it was a joke and she shouldn’t say anything because it was probably him joking.

sleep well 🌙

It says “religion” but I put a name as “Logan” and now I will just use it to seek advice and stuff. I will stop trying to force my religion onto people. I have a lot to learn but I will learn as much as I can.

(I don’t mean to make a whole saga of my life, I just wanted to talk about this.)

My (24F) sister Lena (14F), for anyone who hasn’t seen my previous posts, has a boyfriend named Dominic (16M).

Dominic has dealt with his ex James (16FtM). Dominic keeps calling James by his deadname because he doesn’t like James. He eventually blocked James and rarely mentions him.

“I will properly name and gender people who don’t abuse me”.

I wouldn’t say Dominic has zero empathy, but it’s definitely not a strong suit of his. Dominic, I hate to say this, kind of reacts to gender the way a 65-year-old dad with little experience on transgender would react if his kid was trans or something.

Dominic tries to understand, in other words, but doesn’t. I want to educate him, but I feel rude doing so, even though I will correct him sometimes. He will say stuff like “Sara is a trans girl, so she is actually a boy but now she is a girl.” I can tell that he tries to understand, just not with people he hates like James. But he does try to understand with most people like “Sara” in the example.

He has a good heart. He’s really a good kid, he just fails to empathize or understand sometimes.

I posted about my religion before, but I want that to be my account for my own hobbies and stuff and this for religion and my girlfriend.

She and I are in a Long Distance Relationship, where she is a few years older than me. Neither of us went to college.

I’m Christian and she is also agnostic. We have some similarities and differences. I messed up and said that she’d go to Hell if she killed herself, but I apologized to her. She was mad, but she says she forgives me and still loves me.

I decided I wouldn’t say that again, but I have my beliefs and she has hers. How can we make this work? I also believe that God is the one and only God and that my girlfriend will die in Hell instead of live forever in Heaven if she doesn’t believe him.

She does, though, since she doesn’t know for sure (agnostic theism). I just don’t want her to suffer, please help!

and i don’t mean weirdos as in creeps who objectify people for example, i mean those people who kind of stand out.

most of the time, the bullied people tend to be really nice. a lot of them happen to be autistic, i’ve noticed, as someone with autism + adhd. (obviously that’s not always the case)

🌟 be kind 🌟

• rico 🤑