How is your mental state lately?

Yayyy!!! Our relationship is back to normal!!!

i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.

how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭

I’m good. Today I woke up and I felt depressed, but I think I’m better now. All in all, I’d say I’m an 8/10. How are you all??

My fiancé David seems to have an “I can fix him” mindset with his friend Sean. David is always making excuses of Sean’s toxic behavior towards him and stuff.

Sean clearly does not like him. Sean is always ranting and blowing up at David. He never wants to talk to David or hang out with him. He makes David really sad but David wants to keep his promise to always be Sean’s friend and thinks he can fix Sean or something.

I appreciate that David is trying not to talk to Sean anymore. I’ve just been worried about him that his friendship with him is one-sided and not the best, but I can’t control him and I don’t want to at all.

I just don’t know what to do. Kind suggestions, please?

Sean left a rant saying: (shortened, paraphrased) HOW DARE YOU JOIN THE MILITARY WITHOUT MY PERMISSION

I’M IN SO MUCH PAIN. I HAVE NO FRIENDS AND NO ONE TO TALK TO AND YOU HAVE FRIENDS AND A FIANCÉE AND YOU DONT LIKE ME OR EVER PAY ATTENTION TO ME AT ALL

I’VE TRIED SO HARD JUST TO BE YOUR FRIEND BUT YOU DON’T APPRECIATE ME ENOUGH. YOU’RE SO UNGRATEFUL OMG YOU SUCK.

YOU ALWAYS SAY YOUR LIFE SUCKS, YOU NEVER THINK ABOUT MINE?? IM MISERABLE!!!

i have really bad attachment issues to my fiancée. it sometimes feels like I can’t live without her.

I’m quick to assume that others are bad people who hate me, especially if they leave for a little bit or use a certain tone with me. I’m very sensitive to that.

i would have pretty bad “attachments” when i was a high schooler, and I’d go from thinking they were super great to thinking they were terrible friends.

i wish i wasn’t like this. it’s been better now, i’m just wondering if there’s others like me who think like this.

You are loved and cared for here 💓

sleep well 🌙

It says “religion” but I put a name as “Logan” and now I will just use it to seek advice and stuff. I will stop trying to force my religion onto people. I have a lot to learn but I will learn as much as I can.

Sometimes, when I reassure my girlfriend, I’ll say when someone is an asshole, “maybe he just X”, like “maybe he just had a bad day” or “maybe he’s not mean, he’s just upset” or “your dad has to take care of the family, so when he’s mean to you or mom, he’s stressed since he cares”.

Am I being rude for this?? Kind advice please. Or when her online friend said “IM GONNA KILL EVERYONE” I told her it was a joke and she shouldn’t say anything because it was probably him joking.

(I don’t mean to make a whole saga of my life, I just wanted to talk about this.)

My (24F) sister Lena (14F), for anyone who hasn’t seen my previous posts, has a boyfriend named Dominic (16M).

Dominic has dealt with his ex James (16FtM). Dominic keeps calling James by his deadname because he doesn’t like James. He eventually blocked James and rarely mentions him.

“I will properly name and gender people who don’t abuse me”.

I wouldn’t say Dominic has zero empathy, but it’s definitely not a strong suit of his. Dominic, I hate to say this, kind of reacts to gender the way a 65-year-old dad with little experience on transgender would react if his kid was trans or something.

Dominic tries to understand, in other words, but doesn’t. I want to educate him, but I feel rude doing so, even though I will correct him sometimes. He will say stuff like “Sara is a trans girl, so she is actually a boy but now she is a girl.” I can tell that he tries to understand, just not with people he hates like James. But he does try to understand with most people like “Sara” in the example.

He has a good heart. He’s really a good kid, he just fails to empathize or understand sometimes.

I posted about my religion before, but I want that to be my account for my own hobbies and stuff and this for religion and my girlfriend.

She and I are in a Long Distance Relationship, where she is a few years older than me. Neither of us went to college.

I’m Christian and she is also agnostic. We have some similarities and differences. I messed up and said that she’d go to Hell if she killed herself, but I apologized to her. She was mad, but she says she forgives me and still loves me.

I decided I wouldn’t say that again, but I have my beliefs and she has hers. How can we make this work? I also believe that God is the one and only God and that my girlfriend will die in Hell instead of live forever in Heaven if she doesn’t believe him.

She does, though, since she doesn’t know for sure (agnostic theism). I just don’t want her to suffer, please help!

and i don’t mean weirdos as in creeps who objectify people for example, i mean those people who kind of stand out.

most of the time, the bullied people tend to be really nice. a lot of them happen to be autistic, i’ve noticed, as someone with autism + adhd. (obviously that’s not always the case)

🌟 be kind 🌟

• rico 🤑