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my boyfriend called women, specifically lesbians, boring?? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works to c/kindnesskommunityalt
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i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.

how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭

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[-] oftheair 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Have you tried asking him what he meant? Like why he finds them boring.

[-] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

he said he didn’t know why

[-] alexsystem@lemmings.world 4 points 1 month ago

my guess is that it’s because lesbians aren’t relatable to him nor attracted to him, so gay guys are “better” to him

this post was submitted on 20 Jun 2025
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