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First and foremost, this is a community to support, love, and provide resources for trans people. Anything that puts that in jeopardy will be removed.

This isn't to say cis people aren't welcome on here, but that most posts and discussions were made with primarily trans people in mind. It's okay to ask respectful, good-faith questions and to be genuinely curious about trans people. To be a good ally, you must listen with open ears and be willing to accept it when you're wrong. Remember that you are a guest here, and as such be respectful and kind towards the trans people whose home this is.

What this community is not:

  1. This is not a place to be a transmedicalist and gatekeep being trans. Trying to divide up the trans community to be against each other is a way to weaken us as a whole.

  2. This is not a place to "debate" being trans or trans people. Our existence and right to be ourselves is a given.

  3. This is not a place to be a TERF. You are not welcome here and will be permabanned for spouting TERF rhetoric.

  4. This is not a place to be a jerk and spread negativity. Don't say mean things or insult others, trans or not.

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submitted 4 days ago by Xenia to c/trans

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submitted 1 week ago by Xenia to c/trans

If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate crisis support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S via text, chat, or phone. The Trevor Project is 100% confidential and 100% free.

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Whats the consensus on what’s a good time to start? I see a lot of talk on waiting, some people jumping into it from day one, etc.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by Xenia to c/trans

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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by ckytoshi to c/trans

I'm exhausted... I don't know how to break out of this.

I keep having wars inside my head. Dysphoria, imposter syndrome, and OCD that keeps telling me I'm not trans.

I feel really relived when I experience euphoria, but I want to feel like that all the time, which doesn't happen. So I end up creating an image in my head of who I want to be, I somehow manage to live as this image instead who I am right now. But I also can't keep that image alive 24/7 without feeling like my head is gonna explode. Whenever that image breaks, I feel really sad. Perfect opportunity for the negative thoughts to return, and I'm already exhausted from trying to keep that image alive that I end up disconnecting from everything.

I'm just numb, my head is so empty, but I'm sure after a few hours, everything will be a mess again. The worst thing is that even when I feel euphoric and happy, it doesn't feel "me", as if I don't have what it takes to be "him", and I don't feel like I exist at all. I just want to keep living from my head.

Sorry, nothing I wrote makes sense at all.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by florencia to c/trans

I'm in a bit of a pickle. Didn't write down or save a tidbit of information when I first saw it and I'm hoping somebody can help.

What's the name of a television show/movie about two people quarantining together, and I believe at least one starts to transition? I remember the commentator mentioned it reminded them about the first years of transitioning so I noted it mentally to look at it for accuracy.

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File:JB Pritzker Media ICE Oct 2025.jpg

Wikimedia Commons // Paul Goyette

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Governor Pritzker rounded out Pride Month by signing a trio of bills that will protect transgender people’s privacy from out-of-state attacks—most notably, by removing testosterone from the list of prescriptions required by law to be added to a government database.

“The work will continue until all Illinoisans are safe, healthy, and free to express their truest selves,” said Governor JB Pritzker in a June 28 press release.

The Illinois Prescription Monitoring Program (ILPMP) is a longstanding interstate database that enables health care providers to track the prescription of certain substances, in order to curb drug abuse. Transgender people are often prescribed testosterone for hormone replacement therapy—it is most notably associated with trans men, but it may also be prescribed to any trans person who receives gender-affirming surgery impacting their hormone production.

The bill, HB 4834, also preemptively banned adding certain drugs to the program in the future—such as estrogen or mifepristone and misoprostol, a pair of medications used for at-home abortions.

EXCERPT FROM HB 4834

Policies like this “protect trans people from invasive surveillance over their health care,” Alejandra Caraballo, a Harvard law instructor and privacy expert, told Erin in the Morning. In a 2025 report she penned for this newsletter, she explained how similar systems, called Prescription Drug Monitoring Programs (PDMPs), could be exploited to carry out anti-trans attacks.

“The database enabling this crackdown was never billed as a tool for political persecution,” she wrote. “PDMPs were originally established in the 2000s to combat the opioid epidemic and ‘doctor shopping’ for narcotics. Every U.S. state and territory now maintains a PDMP—an electronic registry of controlled substance prescriptions, typically Schedules II through V, that doctors and pharmacies are required to report.”

The ubiquity of this system means it could give bad actors from other states access to someone’s personal medical records, even without a warrant from the state where this care was rendered.

The signing of the law comes as a response to increased efforts by the federal government and red states across the country to reach into trans-friendly jurisdictions to prosecute providers. However, there are currently no public reports of a transgender person or a health care provider being successfully, directly prosecuted with information from a PDMP simply for providing, receiving, or being the parent of someone receiving gender-affirming care.

Hospital systems have comparatively faced more blowback from the Trump Administration, but it’s still important to remember they, too, have managed to avoid any sort of criminal convictions simply for offering gender-affirming care.

But that hasn’t stopped the Trump Administration from antagonizing them anyway, underscoring the importance of laws like this around the country as a protective measure. For example, NYU Langone received a criminal subpoena from the Northern District of Texas, a federal court, demanding information about trans youth care. The move is widely considered to be an act of judge-shopping from the Department of Justice; this district court, though thousands of miles away from New York City, is considered among the most conservative in the country.

It has continued to hang over the heads of trans people and their doctors everywhere.

“No one should fear being monitored or tracked for receiving hormone replacement therapy prescribed by their healthcare provider,” said Illinois State Senator Adriane Johnson, a Democrat. “Protecting medical information is essential to ensuring patients feel safe seeking care, asking questions, and making personal health care decisions.”

Cisgender men and cisgender women may also be prescribed the hormone for anything from cancer treatments to menopause symptom relief. Compared to other hormones associated with gender-affirming care (such as estrogen, progesterone, or spironolactone), testosterone access is especially scrutinized because it’s also heavily associated with drug abuse among cisgender athletes.

It’s also not the only protective law Pritzker signed that day. HB 5492 expands access to hormone therapy by mandating insurance companies cover up to a six-month supply of prescription hormone therapy when a pharmacist or health care provider deems it appropriate.

“In a time when gender affirming care is under constant attack by the federal government, dispensing prescriptions in bulk will give patients from Illinois and others traveling from out of state for care the assurance that they will have access to needed medications,” Pritzker’s press release says.

There was also HB 5095. This takes existing policy by Illinois’ Secretary of State, which makes it easier for people to choose their preferred gender marker on state IDs, and codifies it into law—making it a more permanent fixture, rather than a rule that can be changed on a whim by the next gubernatorial administration.

“Across the country, lawmakers are attempting to strip rights, erase identities, and target our most vulnerable community members,” said Channyn Lynne Parker, CEO of Equality Illinois.

“But here in Illinois, we are fighting back and winning,” Parker continued. “HB5095 preserves gender markers on state IDs; HB5492 expands access to hormone therapy; and HB4834 shields our most private medical information from surveillance. These are not small victories. They are a declaration that in this state, LGBTQ+ lives matter.”

HB 4834 went into effect upon Pritzker’s signing, and agencies have until the new year to transition to compliance. The other two laws will take effect on January 1, 2027.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by tired_hexagon@lemmy.world to c/trans

I'm sorry this is going to be whiny and I'm not even sure if this is the right place. I'm not looking for pity, I just want to put it out there. Scream a bit into the void.

I always was gender-nonconforming. Learning about the existence of trans men in my twenties made me euphoric. I'm sure I would have transitioned without batting an eye if I had known as a teenager.

But then, life happened, and right when I started to grapple with the possibility of being trans, I got cancer, but survived. Then more life happened, but I found a social environment which often made me forget even having a gender. So the problem got postponed. I postponed the problem. I got around gendering myself, mostly referred to myself in an unspecific generic masculinum (I'm German, we have an annoying amount of gender in our language), using they/them (or the German 'es' (it)) whenever possible and inconspicious.

But some years ago I caught post covid and I lost that genderqueer social environment. I cling to my work (which is exhausting, but fulfilling), so I don't have the energy for more than work and doctor's appointments and survival.

Having post covid already means taxing the patience of doctors. Some don't believe you, think it's psychosomatic or you're just lazy. There are a lot of experimential remedies which help a bit for some people, but getting your physician to prescribe them to you isn't easy. I'm not sure being extra-suspicious by not being 'normal' is something I can afford.

Same at work: I'm not out. I don't want to explain. I don't have the energy to explain. It's a pretty open-minded industry, they put their pronouns in their zoom usernames and everything. I don't put my pronouns in my username, because I don't want to explain. I look like a right-wing reactionary. They would have no problem with me being trans, but it would not only mean having to explain, but also being out in 'the real world'. More people asking more questions. Some of them to offend.

So I just try to not have anything to do with it. But often, language forces me to decide. Being a woman is easier, has less social costs, is less dangerous.

I have to accept that right now (and for the foreseeable future) there are other battles to be fought. But I'm not even an ally, I ride my cis priviledge like an electrical wheelchair.

I just referred to myself in an email in the female form. I decided that this is how I will carry on. I'm kind of sad about it, it's like giving up.

Anyway, thanks for reading. I just needed a place to whine.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by Xenia to c/trans

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/trans

I’ve been slowly coming out to people for a while, but always like one person at a time. But now that I’ve been on HRT for a while (and my boobs are starting to get noticeable) I want to get this all over with and just be out to everyone.

So the other day, I texted my friend who organizes a group that we’re part of, and she was so supportive! And then I put a message in the Discord server for the group and everyone was so kind and supportive and just welcomed me with no hesitation!!! 🥰 It really made my whole week

Now it’s just the hard ones left (work and family), but at least I know I have my communities of support if I need them ❤️

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submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by randamumaki to c/trans

KRO-NRCV Pointer found out that there's an online misinformation campaign by someone who claims they have a transgender child themselves and are against all of it.

Their reasons are just rightwing christian religious dogma, suggesting that "we are created men or women at birth and that can't be changed".

This man decided he was so upset about it that he used artificial intelligence to create thirty-eight (!!) different websites to try and push people away from seeking professional help if they feel like they might be transgender.

Of course he did this under a pseudonym, registering all of these sites under a foundation that doesn't actually exist or is not registered anywhere.

This is the kind of hateful insanity we know from the "Gender Critical" misinformation campaigns going around the UK, US, and elsewhere.

Article is in Dutch and my browser has been prevented from making an archive link due to google's captcha bs.

I would like to know how to fight against something like this given the responsible party has not revealed themselves publicly.

I'm sure there's no way to force this person to reveal themselves and the local laws might not look kindly upon trying to reveal their proper name publicly.

Would there be grounds to report these sites to the site hosts?

Edit: English-language article available on NL Times: Nearly 40 Dutch websites being used to spread disinformation about transgender people.

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submitted 4 weeks ago by BonkTheAnnoyed to c/trans

cross-posted from: https://piefed.blahaj.zone/c/asktransgender/p/856250/was-the-gcs-provider-wiki-from-reddit-preserved-or-moved-somewhere

Back in the day that Wiki was an amazing resource with descriptions, names, providers, and ratings, and I think stories for all kinds of gender confirmation surgery > > I deleted my account years ago before even moving to piefed or Lemmy or whatever it was back then. > > Is it still around? Is it accessible somewhere without id verification or any of the other bullshit that Reddit is doing now?

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submitted 1 month ago by florencia to c/trans

California said it will set up a safety net to protect transgender youth if the federal government won’t. A state budget just signed by Gov. Gavin Newsom includes $26 million in one-time funding to protect access to healthcare for trans youth, according to LAist. Another $30 million was budgeted to cover funding gaps for providers after the Trump administration cut funding to the state’s Medi-Cal program and other revenue sources.

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submitted 1 month ago by Xenia to c/trans

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submitted 1 month ago by Xenia to c/trans

If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate crisis support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S via text, chat, or phone. The Trevor Project is 100% confidential and 100% free.

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/

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submitted 1 month ago by compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/trans

This is something I’ve noticed a lot among well-intentioned people who aren’t trans themselves. When talking about a trans person, especially in the context of talking about them before and after transitioning, they’ll use they/them instead of she/her or he/him, as the trans person in question goes by.

It always kind of rubs me the wrong way, because like, unless they want to go by they/them, it’s still misgendering, right?

But I also always kinda feel awkward correcting the speaker on someone else’s behalf, because maybe they do go by she/they or they/he, and I just don’t know. But it feels way more common that it’s someone who doesn’t feel comfortable using she/her for a trans woman, for example.

I don’t know. Am I overthinking this? How do y’all handle situations like that?

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submitted 1 month ago by Xenia to c/trans

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https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/

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submitted 1 month ago by Catoblepas to c/trans

Today, Mayor Mamdani announced $15 million to go directly to providers of gender-affirming care for transgender youth—the most concrete action his administration has taken since EITM began reporting on the gaps between his campaign promises and the trans young people who placed their hope in them. The announcement includes three initiatives: a direct care access fund for providers serving trans youth, a call and text line connecting families to care, and research funding. It also comes amid a sustained campaign by the Trump administration to shut down gender-affirming care for youth and some adults nationwide through funding threats and baseless criminal investigations of institutions providing that care—and once operationalized, could provide a significant lifeline for youth who need care in the city.

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submitted 1 month ago by PurpleFanatic@quokk.au to c/trans

I'm a butch transbian. I've been thinking a lot lately about my butch identity, and how my experiences with butchness overlaps and maybe differs in some areas to my non-transfemme butch siblings. For example:

  • We've likely grown up with very different bodies and genitals, and that has impacted our relationship to our butchness
  • Our struggle with presenting butch in a way that doesn't get us misgendered or give us dysphoria
  • Dealing with the pressure from outside transfemme circles and inside to present more feminine
  • Feeling like a fraud in lesbian spaces, because I feel like I'm dressing like a "man", despite knowing that butch identity is a whole separate thing.
  • Fearing exclusion from cis lesbians, what if they think im a cis dude creeping around?
  • The lack of representation for butchness in transfemmininty
  • How do other butch transfemmes feel about femminine clothing?
  • How do we feel about compliments? Beautiful vs handsome?
  • Feeling tension between wanting to present more feminine in some ways to "escape" the masculinity I was imprisoned by growing up.

I would love to hear about any thoughts and experiences you've got.

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submitted 1 month ago by slurrpuffed@lemmy.cafe to c/trans

reasons i may be trans (ftm)

  • i kind of want to become a guy
  • i fantasised once about my mother telling me how i’ve grown up into such a cute boy
  • i sometimes fantasise about injecting t into myself
  • i look into the mirror and i almost see a guy (maybe im just delusional 😭)

reasons i may not be trans

  • im not dysphoric, im fine being a girl
  • i could just be deluding myself???
  • i would want to present femininely anyways, forgive me but my ideal self would be a femboy…
  • i would really hate facial hair on myself

now that i’ve written all that out, the chance of me being trans doesnt seem to be zero… though it kind of sucks because i wont be able to experiment with my gender presentation trans or not (e.g cant cut my hair or stuff like that due to circumstances) so i guess ill be stuck as a girl anyways haha

sorry for the incoherent rant

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https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/

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Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

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[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

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[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

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