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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by ada to c/main

For those of you who don't know, the Blahaj Zone admin team runs a matrix space for gender diverse folk. Similar to lemmy, it's designed with a few "official" channels, but is otherwise a community curated space, with channels run by our members. You don't have to be a blahaj zone user to join.

If you're already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you're new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

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cross-posted from: https://pawb.social/post/22215920

Source (Via Xcancel)

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submitted 29 minutes ago by neuracnu to c/trailers

Follow Leo, a handsome sea lion pup who’s learning how to navigate life alongside his mother, Luna

https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/1452827-sea-lions-of-the-galapagos

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submitted 1 hour ago by Sunshine@lemmy.ca to c/transgender
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submitted 27 minutes ago* (last edited 27 minutes ago) by neuracnu to c/trailers

After a family tragedy, kung fu prodigy Li Fong (Ben Wang) is uprooted from his home in Beijing and forced to move to New York City with his mother. When a new friend needs his help, Li enters a karate competition – but his skills alone aren't enough. Li's kung fu teacher Mr. Han (Jackie Chan) enlists original Karate Kid Daniel LaRusso (Ralph Macchio) for help, and Li learns a new way to fight, merging their two styles into one for the ultimate martial arts showdown.

https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/1011477-karate-kid-legends

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Please rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 hours ago by CatLikeLemming to c/onehundredninetysix

AltA thumbnail of a YouTube video showing an old white man in a suit next to the words "The left wants to take away your penis". Below it is a cropped 4chan post with a sad anime girl on the left side. The right side simply says "please".

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submitted 1 hour ago by Sunshine@lemmy.ca to c/transgender
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submitted 1 hour ago by apotheotic@beehaw.org to c/trans

A person I've shared circles with and considered a friend for years, today said the quiet part out loud and spouted transphobia.

I feel like I'm experiencing years of retroactive fear for my proximity to her all at once and its incredibly overwhelming.

If anyone has any good vibes to send my way I'd be so grateful.

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submitted 1 hour ago by tunasyne to c/mtf

been taking estradiol enanthate via subq injection for the past 3 weeks, 0.15 ml every 7 days. i haven't really felt anything different tho... is it too soon to tell? im not on t blockers, mainly bc im still closeted, but i thought by now id feel some change by now

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submitted 1 hour ago by Sunshine@lemmy.ca to c/transgender
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submitted 32 minutes ago by neuracnu to c/trailers

Original title (FR): L'incidente

After being fired, Marcella, a gentle hearted mother going through separation, buys a tow truck; she gets trapped deeper and deeper in a cynical and aggressive world until a terrible opportunity shines in front of her.

https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/1181227-l-incidente

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Rule (slrpnk.net)
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submitted 4 hours ago by regdog@lemmy.world to c/onehundredninetysix
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submitted 4 hours ago by pizzarolls to c/unixsocks

I took this photo back in 2023, sadly, I've sold that netbook almost a year ago to buy the x250 I'm now using (see my other post if you're curious)

I loved this tiny thing, used it in highschool for a whole year without problems to code and basic internet tasks (VERY BASIC)

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rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 6 hours ago by Interstellar_1 to c/onehundredninetysix
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gub-gub woooooorule (lemmings.world)
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flange nipprule (sh.itjust.works)

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submitted 11 hours ago by Lojcs@lemm.ee to c/onehundredninetysix
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submitted 12 hours ago by Lojcs@lemm.ee to c/onehundredninetysix
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submitted 10 hours ago by spujb@lemmy.cafe to c/onehundredninetysix
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submitted 9 hours ago by captainjaneway@lemmy.world to c/mtf

I posted this in the wrong meme community. Reposting here.

I'm AMAB who has always felt a little uncomfortable in my own skin. I'm decently comfortable occupying my body, but I do wish it was easier/more acceptable to transition. I had a dream last night that I was at a doctor's office and I was starting HRT. It has put me in a funk all day.

To be honest, I consider myself fluid enough to continue identifying as a man to anyone but myself. I just wish I could live two lives. Or go back and make the decision to transition when I was younger. I am a stereotypical guy: hairier than not, chubbier than not, deep brow, gnarled hands, etc. I don't really think I could ever feel truly "woman enough" to feel comfortable trying out the other side of the gender spectrum. I've tried growing my hair, piercing my ears, and wearing a teeny bit of eye liner, but it just never looked right on me. I just looked a bit weird.

I'm venting here to hopefully deal with the funky vibes my dream gave me. I've never been this open with any audience: virtual or physical. So, apologies if this is coming off a bit transphobic in any way.

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submitted 10 hours ago by erotador to c/shera

transcription: catra the cool cat says: respect trans people, and consume the rich

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Community building (self.TransAdoption)
submitted 8 hours ago by ComradeRachel to c/TransAdoption

While the subreddit is decently active and has a base of dedicated followers, I still wanted to create another space not reliant on reddit. I am a big supporter of open source projects and I know many other trans peeps are too.

I still hope to create a space where people can ask questions about transitioning or find someone to message directly for help.

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rule (lemmy.zip)
submitted 16 hours ago by nebula42@lemmy.zip to c/onehundredninetysix
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Blåhaj Lemmy

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Blåhaj Lemmy

Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

We have several alternative lemmy frontends you can use. Just login with your regular blahaj login details.

We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you're already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you're new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

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Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn't the space for it.

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