[-] TotallynotJessica 1 points 1 hour ago
[-] TotallynotJessica 3 points 8 hours ago

It's comments like these that make me miss downvotes. I'm still fuming about this

[-] TotallynotJessica 42 points 8 hours ago

If it ain't produced by capitalism, it's "improvised" 🙄

[-] TotallynotJessica 10 points 8 hours ago

huh? who said trans girlies? This is a fairly transfem community, but this meme isn't trans specifically, just gay. It's gay femmes memeing on ourselves about what we pay attention to (cute girlies!)

There's something to be said about transfems being generally horny. A big part of it is exploring ourselves in ways we couldn't before. Queer people across the spectrum talk more freely about sexual topics because we see it as a normal part of life. Throw in many of transfems going through a second puberty as consenting adults, it's not surprising that our spaces get sexual.

[-] TotallynotJessica 1 points 8 hours ago

Talking about your own lived experience or the experience of other trans people? Amazing! Encouraging a specific person, unprompted, to question their gender? Fundamentally not a good idea.

The whole problem is your assumption that unsolicited advice is a good idea. It rarely is. When genuinely trying to help people, it's more useful be clear that you're talking about your own perspective and your own situation. This will be much better received, and it will not make normative assumptions about how others ought to act. Saying what people should do is the real problem with egging. It unnecessarily orders people to think about their gender rather than giving them the tools to do it themselves. If they are an egg, they'll use those tools when they're ready.

[-] TotallynotJessica 13 points 11 hours ago

even a bottom for learning 😔

[-] TotallynotJessica 42 points 11 hours ago

mfw you fix my cybersecurity practices 🥺👉👈

[-] TotallynotJessica 3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

It was actually from this comm! https://abstract.newgrounds.com/

Edit: I found it here, not wlw memes

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[-] TotallynotJessica 5 points 1 day ago

you can make custom characters from preset options by different artists. you get to make a cute avatar uwu

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by TotallynotJessica to c/femcelmemes

There’s No Freaking Way I’ll be Your Lover! Unless…

Just a reminder that you don't need to hate past you, even if she makes you sad

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egg👩‍🎨irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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This is just my personal experience and not a universal statement in any way

[-] TotallynotJessica 17 points 2 days ago

It's such a pain to just want something and not having any control over it. I tried to be nonbinary at first because it was more in line with how I viewed gender as meaningless and silly, but I just wasn't happy as an enby. I really am a girl, not because it's logical or easy, but because it just is. Might as well have fun :3

[-] TotallynotJessica 43 points 3 days ago

While there's nothing inherently wrong with this meme, it doesn't fit the vibe. This is definitely a relatable experience for femcels and women in general, but it's not framed from the femcel perspective. There aren't even any feminine people in it.

I'm gonna leave it up because the message is valid, but I'm locking the post and pinning this comment. Make sure the memes here are from a femcel perspective, or I'll be sad 3:

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when you in dress 👉👈 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago by TotallynotJessica to c/femcelmemes

Source: Uso no Tsukenai Otoshi Goro

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what's a few more? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by TotallynotJessica to c/yurimemes

Sorry, but I'm Not into Yuri

I mean, we all know seducing girls is just a strategic decision that has no bearing on sexuality, right?

It's really your fault for not following proper etiquette! [NSFW]

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Even If It Was Just Once, I Regret It

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deep✂️desires (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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sponsor rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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egg🏷irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 weeks ago by TotallynotJessica to c/egg_irl

Shavepost to maintain the balance 🗿—>🪒

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submitted 2 weeks ago by TotallynotJessica to c/yurimemes

Please Bully Me, Miss Villainess!

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submitted 2 weeks ago by TotallynotJessica to c/femcelmemes

There’s No Freaking Way I’ll be Your Lover! Unless…

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