This is amazing thank you!!!!! You make it sound soo easy, hopefully I’ll be good at some point.

But this is sooo exciting already I shall try it as soon as I worked up some courage to buy supplies and all that :3

I hope you get one that’s great for you too! I was really fortunate to hit a therapist that works so well with and for me right of the bat, without hassle. I heard a few too many stories of ppl. Having to swap their therapist a couple of times before they found the right one and at least so far I think she has been amazing!

Edit: also I am happy to hear you like the coat! Hopefully it fits me well :)

Thanks, that is a great basis for me to start looking into it! Much appreciated.

Excellent suggestion.

Thanks! Yes I was very tempted to buy the purple one as well but my financially more responsible wife told me to choose one.. I apologise that I may have fed your addiction so I strongly recommend do not click on other products on the side or you will be left wanting for more. I still have about 40 items on my wishlist there :X

The session was great, we made good progress but it is really hard to do each topic justice in just 45 min at a time. There is such sooooo much I want and need to talk about. Kinda wants me to have a second and third therapist :D distribution of labour so to speak.

I always loved the Bartimaeus books from Jonathan Stroud.

I also think if pop culture catch-up is a concern you could read Twilight and Eragon both were quite influential in my social circle at the time they were new. I have read both and I liked them too. I don’t think that they are revolutionary or the best pice of writing but they had arguably an impact.

Thanks, I have a look then at foundations and concealers.

What is the difference between the two? Do I only use one or both together?

I know! I am mad in love with it! I might just torch a place or two if it doesn’t fit me :X

Hm I don’t think there is a 100% guaranteed safe way of transportation. How does the Uni (I presume because of dormitory) handle parcels? If they hold onto them for a while you can sent it there.

I would also consider bringing maybe only the bare minimum / only those who appear to be least likely to break (fewest small things that stand out like spears, flags, long thing weapons etc.)

You can also just buy a whole army there :X would provide excellent procrastination opportunities.

Could you rent a storage box / post box where you move to and sent them there before you leave? I never used such a service though.

You could also check how the new country handles parcels. In mine they don’t sent them to your home and all parcels are always in a post-office / supermarket who handles the parcels. Allowing you to have them sent there and they hang on to the parcels for up to two weeks.

Could you also not pack them with the rest of your items, or is everything in suitcases on the plane? Like do you plan on buying all furniture or kitchen stuff there?

I have about 1400 in EU4 and have about 200 now in EU5. I like the direction of 5 and what they are doing. It is not without its flaws but the biggest issue I have is with the online resources. The EU5 wiki feels empty.

I feel people often forget how long EU4 has been out on the market and how much has changed in it over the years. I think the same happens in EU5 the basis is there now and from now on it will get consistently better.

I wish I had that bucket of magic, button or any other instant perfect fixes. Sadly I have not found it yet so in the meantime I try to get on HRT and possibly FFS depending on the effects of the former and how my therapy is going. Tomorrow is my second appointment :3

I am glad that you found more confidence and hope that this community will continue to be good for you.

I don’t know anyone else nor have I seen (consciously) any other trans person in IRL. Now I hyper focus so much on my own body and its features that I don’t think I can make any reasonably accurate assessment about mine or anyone else’s body because of my own distorted views.