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[-] laranis@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago

Attended a high school graduation where the valedictorian gave the traditional speech. I felt so bad for her... So much sacrificed for a title that will haunt her the rest of her life.

I think her GPA was like a 4.8 or something crazy. Maybe it was worth it for the scholarship? Seemed way more like a burden than an opportunity, and something that set the tone and expectation for her academic and likely professional career.

[-] ganoo_slash_linux@lemmy.world 17 points 19 hours ago

I mean... it doesn't have to be, though my experience is only from fflogs and not like a speedrun leaderboard or anything professional.

Getting rank1 means that you were the best in the world, by some metric, for some amount of time, under certain conditions and support factors. You can feel proud of it in a normal way without making it your entire identity.

Also i'm good friends with pretty much everyone who could conceivably compete for the top placements and none of us would be heartbroken to see that a new record had been achieved. I think this is a pretty common dynamic, at least in competitive fields where there is an objective measure of success (rather than something adversarial).

[-] AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago

I get the same impression from watching competitive trackmania on youtube. Sure, often someone might grind for a while to retake a record, but they'll also share in the admiration for someone who managed to do it better

I'm pretty mid at trackmania so I don't have any personal experience with that lol

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 65 points 1 day ago

Technoblade never dies.

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 46 points 1 day ago

Best sport I remember playing at school was frisbee because the teachers barely paid any attention to us and left us to do our thing as long as we looked like we were being active so we didn't even bother keeping scores. Just divided into random teams and frequently switched teams around as we played.

[-] Hathaway@lemmy.zip 12 points 22 hours ago

Disc golf is a fun way to add an objective to this.

[-] fartographer@lemmy.world 8 points 21 hours ago

The only number I care about when I play disc golf is the number of discs I bring back home

[-] Sc00ter@lemmy.zip 3 points 19 hours ago

Gotta love the days you leave with more than you came with!

I was always overly concerned with finding mine in the woods and would regularly search long enough and find other peoples lost ones

[-] fartographer@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

I once found one with a phone number on it. Got in touch with them and they told me to keep it! Thing glided like a rock...

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 19 hours ago

Heard of that a few times, could probably play it in the fields by the beach

[-] crusa187@lemmy.ml 19 points 21 hours ago

Ah yes…curse of the #1 Headband.

[-] Hoimo@ani.social 10 points 21 hours ago

Is this a motherfucking Afro Samurai reference?

[-] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 6 points 21 hours ago

God damn it, you beat me to it.

[-] piefood@feddit.online 11 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)
[-] Cevilia 8 points 1 day ago

Tell that to any pro wrestler :)

[-] NKBTN@feddit.uk 3 points 7 hours ago

A wrestler saying this and losing deliberately would probably make a pretty good angle! Or a wrestler insisting on fighting the champ in a non-title match. "I don't care about no title, all I want is to prove I can kick your ass. You can keep the gold, and youll always know it doesn't make you the best"

[-] Cevilia 1 points 7 hours ago

I doubt any promotion would go for that, it'd be devaluing their title, undercutting the whole conceit. Maybe when a title's being retired, though. Hmm...

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