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The funniest part is I don't think of myself as femboy or trans but ads seem to think I am (and increasingly so). They also think I am a furry and they are spot on lmao... Really makes me wonder if I am living in denial ngl

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[-] EndofLife@feddit.org 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It knows you've been researching Linux distros.

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm using Nyarch of course :3

[-] vale@sh.itjust.works 35 points 2 days ago

AFAT: Assigned Female at Temu

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 7 points 1 day ago

One doesn't need to be female in any capacity to wear comfy cute clothes.

[-] TotallynotJessica 49 points 2 days ago
[-] Doge@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago
[-] TotallynotJessica 27 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm sorry fam, if this worked I'm afraid your fall was inevitable

[-] Smorty 11 points 2 days ago
[-] Doge@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

They say the higher you climb the harder you fall. So if I don't climb at all I can save energy and hurt myself less >.<

Jokes aside I personally just do not care about MY OWN gender / sex but I do support free choice of both because it should up to oneself and oneself alone. So I usually just stick to the factory standard (except if I want to trigger some ultra conservatives) but you can refer to me however you want as long as I know I am being referred to. :3

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[-] ICastFist@programming.dev 31 points 2 days ago

They also think I am a furry and they are spot on

From furry to femboy is like getting out of bed and going to the bathroom

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

sleepdrunk me: "Just five more minutes"

[-] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 28 points 2 days ago

That is the incorrect tail mounting mechanism and you know it

[-] TotallynotJessica 10 points 2 days ago
[-] Doge@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Ehehehe (>\\\<) (*extreme blushing)

[-] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 12 points 2 days ago

Stop wearing this stuff. It's too sexy and I can't stand it.

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago
[-] CameronDev@programming.dev 31 points 2 days ago

The funniest part is I think of myself as femboy or trans

My friend, you tried your hardest to deny your truth, and your subconscious still leaked through :D

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 34 points 2 days ago

I mean, my mom DID want a daughter and got two sons instead... My brother already became a twink now it's my time to shine.

[-] Enkers@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Frfr.

Me getting ads for feminine clothes on YouTube:

Principal Skinner "Am I out of touch?" meme, but the punchline is him saying: "No, it's the algorithm that's wrong."

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

My YT ads are this way to horny ai comic garbage that I suppose is directed towards 12 year olds. (Instagram is a lot closer to the truth)

[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I got ads for increasing the amount of time before I nut.

I have delayed ejaculation problems.

Also, I randomly got some industrial substance/machinery ad and went "yes, this ad is perfect for me". Now it reccomends random industrial goods, and I don't think I'll need to buy any roofing for a warehouse anytime soon, so they can suck it.

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[-] djsoren19 12 points 2 days ago

Okay but have you considered how cute you would look dressed in those kindsa outfits?

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

But what if they are too cute for me? :(

[-] djsoren19 6 points 2 days ago

Nonsense, clothes can't be too cute for you, they're clothes and lack the ability to determine any worthiness of a given wearer. The only thing you have to fear is looking so cute that other people try to give you compliments and talk to you.

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I have been exposed o.o

[-] socsa@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago

Clip on tail? Why even bother.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago

I want the set on the left.

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago

I recommend getting both since the one on the left is just thigh highs and accessories, and the one on the right is just a dress and bows. Best to get both and combine them together into one outfit.

[-] Fredthefishlord 5 points 1 day ago

I recommend not buying from temu and instead buying fabric and seizing the means of femboyification

[-] Mora@pawb.social 12 points 2 days ago

2 years ago I made a joke about this to my boyfriend as well (though it was Aliexpress who send me a mail after buying some tech stuff). This year I discovered I really like comfy socks ... and I may have ordered a skirt as well. Not worn it yet, but it is here. Slowly & steady 😂

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[-] Gladaed@feddit.org 15 points 2 days ago

You forgot the don't, or more likely your subconscious didn't.

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I'm afraid so lmao. I mean I wouldn't care about wearing a skirt as long as it suits me.

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago

Skirts are awesome, I definitely recommend trying them out. I find it funny that they are considered only for women because anyone can look awesome in them.

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 6 points 2 days ago

Nothing wrong with wearing these kinds of outfits, they are very comfortable and also adorable. I say why not try it out, you might end up liking them and it's not like it'll hurt anything.

I wouldn't recommend getting them from Temu though, in my experience from buying from Temu quality can be very hit or miss. Especially when it comes to things like clothing. Sometimes you get good stuff, sometimes you get crappy stuff that's thin and falls apart very easily. I recommend higher quality brands for clothing like that, but Temu can be okay if all you want to do is try it out to see how the look suits you.

self-promo^psst...^ ^I^ ^recommend^ ^cross-posting^ ^to^ ^!196@pawb.social^ ^since^ ^this^ ^is^ ^a^ ^furry^ ^related^ ^meme^ ^and^ ^it^ ^helps^ ^out^ ^the^ ^community^

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I don't buy from sites like Temu for quality reasons I just found the ad hilarious and scrolled through the other offers.

On a site note I'll crosspost it tomorrow (set myself a reminder) because I'll be going to bed now and I don't post before sleeping because I cannot quickly react to comments. :3

[-] fracture 2 points 1 day ago

curious what y'alls sources are for good quality femboy gear

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago

I get my thigh highs from Sockdreams (I got a few cable-knit ones from Amazon), skirts I've gotten from Amazon, a few from Etsy, and some from thrift stores. Oversized hoodies I've just gotten on Ebay.

[-] Zyratoxx@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Bro is being gaslighted by Instagram ads lmao

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago
[-] Ghyste@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago

The algorithms know you better than you know you.

[-] Doge@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I mean, my for you page looks like this:

[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Provinces_of_Turkey

Aydın (enlightened) is acceptable, Batman is not

For shame.

[-] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago
[-] Doge@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Lol, I especially like the nails :3

[-] Draconic_NEO@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

I agree, they are very cute. I probably wouldn't do it myself though since I'd be worried about them getting damaged.

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