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confession (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 days ago by TheCoolerMia to c/femcelmemes
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[-] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 45 points 2 days ago

If your banned I'm definitely banned. I'm a dude I just like the memes

[-] rockerface@lemm.ee 10 points 2 days ago
[-] Soulg@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago

Same bro some good shit here

[-] DesolateMood@lemm.ee 140 points 3 days ago

Girlies I must confess I'm not a real femcel

I'm a man

[-] BananaOnionJuice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 81 points 3 days ago

Okay confession time.

I'm three racoons in a trenchcoat

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[-] Zorsith 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Oh yeah? Well im a crow piloting a meatsuit! CAW, MOTHERFUCKERS!

๐Ÿฆโ€โฌ›

๐Ÿค–CAW!

[-] DarkDiamondK@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago

I must also confess I'm a man, I just like these memes

[-] introvertcatto 34 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

So you are government robot?

I was joking here, but as long as you are not one of those incels who just straight up hate on all women and men and call them stupid names, and just enjoy shitposting and memes you are good.

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[-] socsa@piefed.social 17 points 3 days ago

I just think FEMCEL MEMES are pretty neat

[-] Randelung@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

Move to the US, problem solved.

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[-] RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 days ago
[-] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

No shame there. Mules are hard working.

[-] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

It's ok you can change that

[-] TotallynotJessica 63 points 3 days ago

I usually put on a brave face here, but I must admit that I'm still a lil sad that I've never experienced a relationship; less for the sex and more for the connection. I don't truly know if anyone I've met in person has ever been into me (except for the person who gave me unwanted massages, but that isn't the same) >_<

Heavier stuffI've never liked the idea of meeting people or doing things just for relationships. I'm not proactive in any way, as almost all of it feels desperate and scary. I don't like interacting with ulterior motives, and I get so uncomfortable when it comes time to flirt. On top of that socializing is so tiring, and I'm just not motivated enough to do more than the minimum. It's hard work, so it doesn't get done because I suck at doing things that I'm not motivated to do.

Being wanted online is something, but I still yearn more substantial experience. While I have learned to handle the shame, I can't help my feelings of loneliness. I can't fully fill that hole with family, friends, or online community. I'd probably want it again just as much if I did have it in the past, but at least I wouldn't be as scared. At least I'd understand more than unrequited feelings

[-] hildegarde 4 points 2 days ago

This whole time I just assumed you were lonely depression posting ironically. Your brave face is effective.

<3 take care I wish you the best <3

[-] TotallynotJessica 3 points 2 days ago

It mostly is ironic. I'm in a good place overall, but I still have these moments. The "brave face" is more about me being bold and not a shy lil bean >~<

plus...this is probably related to hormone cycles. Thanks e!

[-] moonlight@fedia.io 13 points 2 days ago

:( I really feel this. I'm so horribly lonely and touch starved, but it's so scary and uncomfortable to try to "put myself out there" and it feels so awkward and wrong to actively flirt with / pursue someone.

I don't know how old you are, but I've been out of school for a few years and it feels like I've missed my opportunity of finding a relationship when I was surrounded by people. Now I can barely leave the house, and even if I did actually meet someone I don't see how people my age who have been in 5+ relationships would even be interested.

Also I've at least been in a "relationship" when I was a kid, and just having a fuzzy memory of what it's like to cuddle and kiss someone makes it feel worse to be alone. So I don't think having something in the past always helps.

Anyway I hope you find love some day.

[-] TotallynotJessica 4 points 2 days ago

I hope you do too โค

[-] Aurora_TheFirstLight 9 points 2 days ago

Too real for my horny depressed lemmy

[-] Hoimo@ani.social 17 points 3 days ago

Oof, that hit me harder than I expected. I imagine love is one of those things that get easier once you've done it once and know how to recognize it, but right now I wouldn't know what it's like at all. I've never in my life been in a situation where I thought I could make a move. I must have missed at least one opportunity, I refuse to believe I've never even stood a chance.

Have you tried group travel? It allows you to interact with new people without any expectations. It's also very low stakes because you don't have to see any of those people again after the trip.

[-] lilith267 14 points 3 days ago

After being a semi-whore in high school and having a long term ex: the only thing that's changed for me is I no longer want people who are into me because they're also lonely. It never lasts, or ends well, or goes well once they stop feeling lonely. I've never had someone tell me I'm a bad person or I could do something better, I just wasn't what they actually want. And I have not leanred how love works in the slightest either lol

[-] TotallynotJessica 4 points 2 days ago

That's the strange part. I probably understand more about building a healthy relationship at an intellectual level. I know that you need to genuinely be good friends with someone for a relationship to last. I've seen such relationships, as well as those that didn't have it, so I'm not clueless. The hard part is reaching out

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[-] lseif@sopuli.xyz 20 points 2 days ago

i have to confess... i am a boy.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

I have to confess, I thought this com was about nanobiotech

[-] erotador 81 points 3 days ago

banned

no but really, its more of a vibe here than a rule, were all horny depressed girlies with a passion for sharing dumb memes and making each other smile, and i wouldnt want it any other way :3

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[-] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 41 points 3 days ago

Well, shit. Transfem here and my wife just pegged me last night. Do I have to unsub?

[-] pixeltree 32 points 3 days ago

Nah, as long as you appreciate the lonely+horny+sad vibe

[-] Randelung@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago

That's not even fem specific! Anyone can be a femcel!

Especially now that everyone in the US is a woman by definition.

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[-] random 2 points 1 day ago

I've had real sex, but as a man, because I'll never br a real woman ;(

[-] Ziglin@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

You can be if it's what you want!

[-] TheCoolerMia 2 points 1 day ago

"I'll never be a real woman"

- real woman :3

[-] SquishedFly 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I must confess, I'm.... Well I'm in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it's an open relationship but I'm not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it's the fucking best feeling ever!<

Edit: spelling

[-] TheCoolerMia 6 points 2 days ago

what is Aero here? :o or is it just Aro? >v<

[-] SquishedFly 6 points 2 days ago

Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)...

Yeah I meant Aromantic

[-] Kiry 2 points 1 day ago

i have only esex, does that count or am i still cel

[-] TheCoolerMia 2 points 1 day ago

well if its enough for u thats what matters :3

[-] HeckGazer@programming.dev 15 points 2 days ago

Alright brag much, sheesh

[-] kittenzrulz123 8 points 2 days ago

I must confess, im not actually a femcel im just a depressed AroAce Transfem :3

[-] TotallynotJessica 6 points 2 days ago
[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 20 points 3 days ago

Wait..... is this not a trans community?? ๐Ÿ™ƒโ“๏ธ

[-] TotallynotJessica 5 points 1 day ago

it's fairly trans, but not totally. Cisfem perspectives are welcome, as are those of feminine boys

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[-] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago

Girlies confession time. I'm not a real femcel. Turns out I'm non binary. So sorry.

[-] thoughtfuldragon 18 points 3 days ago
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[-] introvertcatto 14 points 3 days ago

You are welcome just don't be like those reddit incels who hate others mainly women. I'm also non-binary femcel. ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚

[-] pixeltree 29 points 3 days ago

Tbh having sex or not doesn't really matter to our vibe of femcel, that's more of a /r/femaledatingstrategy thing which is definitely for the best

[-] GluWu@lemm.ee 24 points 3 days ago

Pics or it didn't happen

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 29 points 3 days ago

I'll confess too, I don't belong here I just like to make people laugh and comment pretty much everywhere :P

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 18 points 3 days ago

I'd become so blind to the word femcel that I forgot it meant celibate lmao

"I don't belong here"

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