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how to have fun (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 hours ago by dandelion to c/femcelmemes
[-] dandelion 1 points 4 hours ago

my brain wants to interpret this through the conspiracy theory lens, that the pro-police people think the lizard people running the world hate the thin-blue-line or something.

But given the context I think my interpretation is wrong, and I've never seen the calvin pissing cartoon used to express victimization, it's always communicating hatred of something.

[-] dandelion 4 points 4 hours ago

good morning ☺️

[-] dandelion 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Link to the actual article published in Molecular Psychiatry: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41380-024-02872-3

Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) include harms that affect children indirectly through their living environments (e.g., parental conflict, substance abuse, or mental illness) or directly (abuse and neglect). The direct harms are commonly described as childhood maltreatment exposure (CME). CME is highly prevalent, as shown by a recent systematic review and meta-analysis that reported a pooled prevalence of ca. 23% in Europe and the U.S. for adults who reported at least one ACE [1]. Worldwide, as many as 12% of adults report a history of childhood sexual abuse, 23% of childhood physical abuse, and 36% of emotional abuse [2]. ACEs have numerous adverse consequences for later health, via a range of hormonal, metabolic, and immunological pathways [3], especially for mental health outcomes [2, 4]. In addition to affecting health later in life [5], accumulating evidence indicates that paternal ACEs /CME may also affect the health of the next generation [6,7,8,9,10].

Here, we report that CME [Childhood Maltreatment Exposure] is associated with specific epigenetic signatures in sperm. We identified differential expression of numerous sncRNAs and 3 genomic regions with hypomethylation in the high TADS [Trauma and Distress Scale] score group.

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Intergenerational transmission of well-being, health and disease is an important research topic with many implications for health care and societies. It has been postulated that a key component of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences), CME is the single most important preventable risk factor for future mental health [1, 4, 37, 38]. CME has also been shown to have effects on health outcomes even when genetic confounding is taken into account [63]

[-] dandelion 2 points 5 hours ago

I feel like it can never be said enough: you are awesome, thank you for being so awesome. ❤️

[-] dandelion 2 points 17 hours ago

I studied German for several years, and it was ironically useful when I was in Guatemala - another traveler sometimes needed help bridging the gap with her spotty English and I was able to help. Though, Spanish would have been much more useful in that country, learning languages can be really useful in unexpected moments.

[-] dandelion 22 points 1 day ago

Links to the two executive orders:

Coverage from Erin in the Morning, more on the military ban than the healthcare EO: https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/the-chilling-line-trump-just-crossed

Maybe a pedantic distinction, but executive orders are not bills or laws, they only reach as far as the executive branch has power.

This is relevant because he is writing many illegal executive orders, e.g. trying to end birthright citizenship despite being encoded in the Constitution. Likewise, banning trans healthcare for minors across the U.S. is something only Congress can do, and most of the things in this EO are attempting to defund or otherwise attack that healthcare rather than outright ban it like a law would.

It does seem like an obvious consequence is that Medicare and Medicaid won't cover gender affirming care for minors (Sec. 5, part i), and he is going to try to use existing laws to try to bring prosecute people in shield states for providing that care, even if he fails in court it will do damage by scaring providers into voluntarily refusing care to avoid being involved in lawsuits.

Also it does look like this trans healthcare EO is trying to recreate the UK's Cass Review, (Sec. 3, part ii):

within 90 days of the date of this order, the Secretary of Health and Human Services (HHS) shall publish a review of the existing literature on best practices for promoting the health of children who assert gender dysphoria, rapid-onset gender dysphoria, or other identity-based confusion.

By appointing loyalists across organizations he can force authorities on health to support anti-trans views on that are not supported by the evidence. Not unlike how he appointed anti-environmentalists to the head of the EPA in his first term, and suddenly the EPA was taking positions that were contrary to the role of the organization, like rolling back regulations on the coal industry.

Trump is just going to try shit, but that doesn't mean it will work out for him in the end.

[-] dandelion 6 points 3 days ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Workshops

refer to areas of work provided for the unemployed by the French Second Republic after the Revolution of 1848. The political crisis which resulted in the abdication of Louis Philippe caused an industrial crisis adding to the general agricultural and commercial distress which had prevailed throughout 1847. It rendered the problem of unemployment in Paris acute.

basically the government trying to solve unemployment by employing people for the sake of employing them

[-] dandelion 4 points 3 days ago

so busy, omg 😭

[-] dandelion 7 points 3 days ago

yeah, it's telling that the logic is always that the gay person will become (more) straight, but they don't really want to consider the reverse (that a straight person could "become" gay by their logic). It's a clear example of "heteronormativity" - the assumption that heterosexuality is conventional, normal, good, desirable, etc. and same-sex attraction is unnatural, abnormal, subversive, or otherwise bad.

[-] dandelion 17 points 5 days ago

And for additional context, femcel communities often have lots of trans women in them, probably something about trans people being stigmatized, perceived as ugly, etc. - we are seen as losers, have difficulty finding sexual partners, generally struggle with mental health, and so are natural candidates for identifying with femcels.

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bed rotting (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by dandelion to c/femcelmemes
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enchiladas (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by dandelion to c/homecooks@vegantheoryclub.org

"beef" topped, filling is more "beef" and refried beans.

cheez is made with carrot, potato, cashews, nutritional yeast, white miso, and Sherry vinegar

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well rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by dandelion to c/onehundredninetysix
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🎶 Cherry Lips 💃 (www.youtube.com)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by dandelion to c/mtf

This is a fun, high-energy song that was important to me as an egg, and finds new significance in transition. I didn't realize it was a trans-related song until much later:

Shirley Manson wrote the lyrics based loosely around two novels she had just read, Sarah, which was about a transgender prostitute,[8] and The Heart Is Deceitful Above All Things, written by author Laura Albert under the pseudonym of JT LeRoy.

"I wanted to write an ode to transgender spirit, inspired by my interactions with this peculiar but emotionally generous creature I knew online as JT"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cherry_Lips

Anyone else have songs that were significant to them as eggs, or are otherwise trans-related?

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ruleifesting (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 week ago by dandelion to c/196

fuck, I really need to stop going to this community - I don't have enough content to keep posting 😭

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submitted 1 week ago by dandelion to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I'm getting phone calls from my health insurance company, first from a "registered nurse" with no information in the voicemail other than a call-back number (seems like it could be a scam, but I need to verify the number, so far people are saying the number is legit), and now I have a second phone call where the voicemail mentions they are calling from the insurance company's "concierge program".

Mostly I want to know if I can ignore these calls without consequence, or if I have to return them, and if so what should I expect?

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rulesend, rulesday (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 weeks ago by dandelion to c/196

I accidentally clicked on /c/196 and now I have to post, uh - here's something Wednesday related

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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by dandelion to c/trans

Maybe this is really silly or useless, but I was having another one of those moments looking in the mirror, analyzing my face and unable to see myself, but I discovered if I blur my vision slightly and let my field of vision become a bit more "big picture", my brain correctly genders me. Maybe this is true for others?

Sometimes I recognize how arbitrary my perception of gender is (with myself and others), and maybe it's just pragmatic to mess with your own perception when feeling down about how you look and not being able to see yourself.

I feel a bit insecure sharing this, it feels like an anti-tip to me, like saying, "are you feeling ugly? close your eyes!" - but I only share it because I actually did feel some happiness from it and it interrupted a moment of dysphoric obsessing. Can't be that bad to have a coping mechanism to do that, right?

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submitted 2 weeks ago by dandelion to c/femcelmemes

Learned of Macy Rodman from s01e01 of Fantasmas, her voice tripped my trans radar.

Her musical and artistic style is a bit rough around the edges for my tastes, but I thought this song was too on the nose not to share 😄

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by dandelion to c/femcelmemes

does a book count as a meme? 🤔

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submitted 2 months ago by dandelion to c/homecooks@vegantheoryclub.org

Delicious dipped in gravy and served with cranberry relish or something tart to offset the richness.

Insides have: roast, stuffing, mashed potatoes.

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