[-] thoughtfuldragon 2 points 3 hours ago
[-] thoughtfuldragon 9 points 23 hours ago

The approach I've taken to break ups in the past is to list out what went well and what didn't. Ask questions like "what does this teach me about my own needs?" And just think about what I should look for in the future.

[-] thoughtfuldragon 5 points 1 day ago

Every so often I send a partner a message like "ur cute btw" or "did you know I like you?" Something small or silly like that. Also saying thank you when they do something for you. Also just occasionally asking to spend time with them "just cause I think you're neat".

Remembering what they like/dislike, what stuff they are allergic to, if they need accommodations for a disability, learning what to do/not do. Remembering what they've told you but also not extrapolating or assuming beyond that.

As others have said, romance is very contextual so asking and listening and caring are crucial. And just wanting to be around them and inviting them to be around you if they want that.

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[-] thoughtfuldragon 12 points 1 day ago

Heck I'll kneel to put the collar on. Except for fascists. We don't kneel for those.

[-] thoughtfuldragon 3 points 1 day ago

It'd be pretty great tbh.

[-] thoughtfuldragon 15 points 2 days ago

me briefly reconsidering my decision to not learn make up when I am confronted with the idea that I can use it to look like a whore.

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