Are there ways that you are able to signal queerness?

People keep assuming my partner and I are two straight women, and it's just awkward sometimes. I know my partner would like if people saw us as a visibly queer couple, so I was hoping for tips.

Usually I try to engage in "PDA" like holding hands or kissing in public, but even that doesn't seem to always work (I have done this and had a waiter still assume we're relatives rather than partners).

I've been straight as far as I can remember with some questioning, but the thought came to me. All I hang out with is straight people. My friends are straight, my fiancé is straight. But what if I'm bi and I like girls? What if I'm just "straight" because it's the norm? Women are pretty and there's a small chance I'd date one even if I'm not interested in dating women but what if that's just heteronormativity and such. How do I even know if I actually am bi but it's repressed? Or if I am straight?

i feel so cute today!!!! meow hehe 🐈‍⬛

How are you guys? 😮 🤔

they’re soo pretty i swear

Sapphic girl here, 20 and my girlfriend is 19, we’ve been dating for two years and i love her sosososo much!! I dont want anyone else 💞

@lesbians Anna Yevreinova was a Russian #lesbian author, editor and lawyer. She would be 181 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anna/_Yevreinova

@lesbians Tamara Łempicka was a Polish #lesbian artist. She would be 131 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tamara/_de/_Lempicka

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So, I was on a call with my fiancée and I started to get really tired.

I fell asleep and she whispered my name several times before saying it and having to shout it 😭 I feel so bad, she had a nightmare and wanted me to comfort her.

She felt bad about waking me, but i tell her to when she has a nightmare so I can be there for her. She says I look peaceful asleep though, so she hates doing it 😓

@lesbians Violet Trefusis was a British #lesbian author. She would be 131 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet/_Trefusis

I’ll be here later today I guess or tomorrow as I don’t use Lemmy much. My eyes are closing so I guess I’ll have a good sleep 😊

I more or less took a nap. Goodnight!! 💓 I was too excited to sleep from the marriage! Love you all lesbians! /p

So Aiko (my fiancée) and I went to a restaurant and then I proposed to her at the restaurant. She said yes!! And we ate dessert! 💍

💕 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

I had a cremoso de chocolate. Well, I’m gonna sleep for Aiko. Goodnight ❤️

I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

I think I’ll go back to sleep… 😅

@lesbians Peggy Fears was an American #lesbian actress. She would be 122 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peggy/_Fears

@lesbians Emily Faithfull was a British #lesbian printer, publisher and activist. She would be 190 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emily/_Faithfull

@lesbians Mathilde de Morny was a French #lesbian author. She would be 162 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mathilde/_de/_Morny

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I had a breakup last month and made a whole playlist of songs to cry and reminisce to, but this one is the one I play most by far. What's yours?

@lesbians Yvonne de Bray was a French #lesbian actress. She would be 136 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yvonne/_de/_Bray

@lesbians Frieda Belinfante was a Dutch lesbian conductor and Nazi resistance fighter. She would be 121 today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frieda/_Belinfante

@lesbians Lesley Gore was an American #lesbian musician and songwriter. She would be 79 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesley/_Gore

@lesbians Alice Toklas was an American #lesbian author, editor, secretary and marijuana enthusiast. She would be 148 years old today. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice/_B./_Toklas