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[-] TxzK@lemmy.zip 120 points 1 year ago

Wait is this supposed to be a trans sub? TIL

[-] Lux 102 points 1 year ago

Not trans exclusive, just a lot of trans people here (including me)

[-] yetAnotherUser@feddit.de 26 points 1 year ago

Huh, I didn't realize exclusive is an auto-antonym

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[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 11 points 1 year ago

I learned when I went back to college that autistic gay and trans people are just the people I get along best with

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[-] itslilith 87 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

disappointing, try harder next time

[-] Aggravationstation@lemmy.ml 83 points 1 year ago

I'm also cis, just love the memes.

[-] dditty@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago

Came for the memes, stayed for the inclusivity and positivity. Peace and love to all LGBTQIA+ memesters!

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 69 points 1 year ago
[-] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago

Now it's my turn to see you.

I see you.

This is me seeing you.

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[-] Ranger 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
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[-] richardisaguy@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Nice username

[-] cannibalkitteh 47 points 1 year ago

Wow, cis? I couldn't even tell!

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

They tOtALly pAsS!

[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lies, you wouldn't be here if you didn't have at least a fraction of The Gay

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 40 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's kind of funny in a way but in my life I've had at least 5 men confused by how I'm "not gay."

I don't fit any stereotype so I haven't the slightest idea what makes people think that. I even had one creep that would come into the store I worked at years ago and ask "have they converted you yet?" (Both the managers were gay.)

I've quite literally never received any attention like that from women in my life.... I wish I was gay! I'd apparently have a much easier time instead of being single for the last almost decade now lol

I understand the whole "I can't simply change who I am" but from the opposite end. I'm cis and straight, there's nothing I can "change" to no be grossed out by the idea of sleeping with another man lol I even tried watching gay porn when I was 19-20ish just to see and yeah... Nope. Not my jam, which is kinda funny since I love asses, just not man ass lol

[-] Cort@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

"have they converted you yet?"

"Do y'all still get toaster ovens for a conversation or have they updated to air fryers these days" is probably the only response I'd give.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 10 points 1 year ago

I wish I didn't have stupid social anxiety so I could actually think during conversations, I'd love to be able to have those kinds of quips lol

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[-] the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 year ago

I've quite literally never received any attention like that from women in my life...

Maybe they think you're gay

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[-] Whirling_Ashandarei@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

This is gonna sound like a #humblebrag but same. I've had drunken gay dudes thank me for existing because they found me that attractive. I know a decent amount of women find me attractive but it's nowhere near the same degree.

My wife is highly amused by it, but it's like damn, I'd be absolutely killing it if I was at all into dudes.

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[-] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I'm bi or pan or something along those lines and I don't fit stereotypes either. When I came out to people at 17, the usual reaction was disbelief then followed up by questioning (being asked how did I know?) basically people were asking how sexually active I was. So now I wear pride bracelets or necklaces to show people I am out and proud.

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[-] RealJoL@feddit.de 45 points 1 year ago

Wait a minute! This trans sub doesn't have a fire exit!

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[-] x4740N@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago
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[-] adamantris@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 1 year ago

I'm also cis but the memes are great

[-] pixeltree 34 points 1 year ago

Don't gotta be non-cis to enjoy this place! It's just a great positive space

[-] skylestia 33 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

i am too, memes are good, vibes are friendly, people are nice, happy to be here

[-] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago

I be a cis ally mining memes for the good fight

[-] celeste 27 points 1 year ago

Now put the cat ears back on!

[-] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 27 points 1 year ago

I did not know this was a trans space, tbh. Thank you for entertaining us cishets!

[-] Silentiea@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

The blahaj is ours now, we dibs'd it. Get your own shark. (You can play with ours too but you have to be nice.)

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[-] cuchilloc@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

Me too, I just lurk every trans friendly sub to find a switch waifu. Yuzu not dead!

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[-] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago

Skill issue

[-] Beer_Raccoon@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

There are dozens of us!

[-] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 18 points 1 year ago

That's what a queer in a closet would say

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm furry in a way that's similar to trans, but it has nothing to do with my gender, though there is a lot of relatable overlaps concerning inward identity vs outward appearance.

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[-] RIP_Cheems@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

Wait, we need to be gay to be here?

[-] Nurgle@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago

Cis is the “opposite” of trans, like gay is the “opposite” of straight. That said it wouldn’t hurt to be a little gayer.

[-] TheFriar@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

🫡 I will find some gay shit to do tout de suite

[-] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago

I'm doing crimes, is that enough for the "be gay, do crimes" part?

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[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

That’s ok, we accept you.

[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 year ago

I feel exposed now...

[-] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Cis? Like in Navy CIS? /jk

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[-] LinkOpensChest_wav 10 points 1 year ago

You're no son of mine!

[-] yessikg 9 points 1 year ago

Same and those cat outfits are adorable

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