My only transition regrets are not doing things sooner, either for financial reasons or because I was afraid of coming out to family.
I feel like I should have found other trans people to talk with irl earlier. I don't think I was fully ready until recently tho.
I wish I had taken the social aspect of my transition a little slower. I wish I had come out to fewer people at a time, and waited until I was more confident in myself to come out to my family.
I struggled with the loss of perceived queerness when I was dating men, which was a bit of a shock given that I had just worked through a lot to accept my attraction to men, and to learn to love and celebrate my queerness.
Suddenly being seen as straight, and having my queerness be largely invisible to people really shook me.
Not starting 20 years earlier.
Finally coming out, just as anti-trans attacks in the US are on the rise. Past that, I am happier than ever :).
No, absolutely none.
General trans community.
Rules:
Follow all blahaj.zone rules
All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on