[-] EmilyIsTrans 4 points 1 day ago

I don't have access to anymore information than you do. Presumably either the NYT did or the cops found it themselves

[-] EmilyIsTrans 19 points 1 day ago

I've experienced both sides, and there is definitely a different quality to the attraction and horny-ness. It's hard to put my finger on or describe in a way that isn't a cliche like "aggressive" and "raw". It's less romantic? It fills your mind a little, it's impulsive, it doesn't have the same yearning. At least for me.

For what it's worth I prefer my attraction and sex now as a woman. Not to act as an internet doctor, but I definitely felt a bit like you when my testosterone was too low. All women have testosterone and having the wrong amount can affect sexual desire - it might be worth having yours checked.

[-] EmilyIsTrans 3 points 1 day ago

I don't know how it works in NY, but where I am, for charges like "hate crime" it would be the police. You would report some initial incident and the cops would decide whether to press charges and what charges to press (from experience with my brother)

[-] EmilyIsTrans 12 points 2 days ago

It's a criminal complaint by the Manhattan District Attorney’s Office, not the NYT.

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[-] EmilyIsTrans 22 points 3 days ago

I'm personally of the belief that you are largely the sum of your experiences, so yeah a total loss of memories would mean I am by some definition "dead". That said, you could easily argue by that same logic that the "me" of a year, month, or even minute ago is also "dead", since she lacks the experiences that makes me who I am now. I don't even dispute that that much tbh.

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[-] EmilyIsTrans 99 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

This isnt just a win for Labor, this is a historic landslide after the already historic landslide in 2022. The Liberals could hold as few as 40/150 seats in the house after today, and Labor as many as 90. This could be their greatest victory since the Second World War, and the Liberals (who, to clarify, are conservative) smallest representation since their formation. There was something like a 5% swing away from the Liberals. Likewise, this result appears to have elected the most independents to parliament in decades.

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Increasingly, authoritarians are likening ‘genderism’ to ‘communism’ and ‘totalitarianism’

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[-] EmilyIsTrans 113 points 6 months ago

Fifth, they could simply write checks to Treasury that help us finance global public goods.

You have to be fucking kidding me.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/18893269

I have recently become involved in the "Trans Housing Network" which was started by xilliah@beehaw.org. I am in the midst of restructuring this into a broader "Trans Solidarity Network", a network of mutual aid communities across the United States. Due in large part to a rapidly evolving political situation in the US trans people are going to have to rely more and more on community to provide aid to them. The government of the US cannot be trusted to provide that aid. Trans people in deep red states may need to escape from them, many of whom do not have the resources to do so on their own. Trans people arriving in blue states will need help finding their feet and accessing care in their communities.

In that vein I am interested in building communities of trans people in localities across the US. You do not have to have anything to be a part of a mutual aid organization. Mutual aid means the community coming together and providing for each other. It means support networks without hierarchy, where your action has a direct impact on the lives of others.

Those with means are important here. Cisgender people can also be part of our mutual aid communities. We need people with a spare room, people with cars, people who can invest a few hours of their week checking in on their community members and giving food and emotional support to those that need it. Don't bother if you're close-minded or you're not open to being corrected on transphobic behavior. We are creating these networks to liberate trans people and protect them from violence. It goes without saying that transphobic people are not welcome, and that a level of scrutiny will be applied to new comers.

This whole thing is an entirely new project that I have been working on since the results of the election were declared. I am following principles of mutual organization and assistance. This is not a charity organization by any means. It is a way for trans people and allies to come together in light of extraordinary circumstances and help each other to be safe and healthy and secure.

The plan I have is (eventually) for communities to be relatively cut off from each other, and to be based around region. Right now in our earliest stages people from all over will be brought together, and as numbers grow will be divided into smaller regional groups. Keeping people geographically close to each other in touch and building networks of communication that extend longer distances. Financial contributions would be person to person, not person to entity to person. If you have money and want to contribute the best way to do so is by joining yourself and becoming a part of this network. I do not have interest in making a formal non-profit or charity organization. This is about private individuals helping each other when the government will not help us (or actively tries to harm us). I am looking for ways that international aid can be provided as well. If you live outside the US you can join the broader mutual aid network but what we need most of all is those who can provide direct assistance.

I am also looking for people who have experience with mutual aid, people who have experience with self-hosted technology, and people who are connected with groups on other social media to promote and spread word about this solidarity network. We need diverse skillsets to provide support to those who need it. Nothing is categorically unhelpful in a mutual aid group.

If you are interested in joining my efforts (which are very early on in terms of development) please message me on Matrix @ladyautumn:chat.blahaj.zone or email me at TransSolidarityNetwork@proton.me.

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[-] EmilyIsTrans 123 points 11 months ago

This message was prepared ahead of time, along with one for Kamala Harris. I am sorry that this is the one we had to post. We will be monitoring the community closely over the next few days to redirect anyone in need to appropriate resources.

[-] EmilyIsTrans 225 points 1 year ago

Bofa deez nuts

[-] EmilyIsTrans 94 points 2 years ago

Naming your chatbot Arya(n) is a red flag

[-] EmilyIsTrans 81 points 2 years ago

Cool party, stand for a lot of good things, including sex workers. I think they're called "reason" now

[-] EmilyIsTrans 197 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Their teachable moment is that plagiarism has consequences, and they earned that lesson entirely by themselves.

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