i started doing this to... objects and sometimes people.
calling myself the classic good girl just feels wrong and unfitting... for now.
sometimes i dooo say "oh you did that so well for me" to myself and i stop, say "ohgosh no not rn" and laugh it off-
It genuinely does help to pep talk yourself.
I had major depression for a while... stupid little motivational post it notes around the apartment did actually help.
Also, remember that dogs also need regular food, water, walks, and baths, even when they don't want them.
... treating yourself like your own tamagotchi is maybe slightly dissociative, but, i'd rather see people who are a bit odd, but taking care of themselves, as opposed to people not taking care of themselves.
Hang in there peeps... the longer you do, the more free e-headpats and scritches I can provide, lol.
stupid little motivational post it notes around the apartment did actually help.
I obviously don't know who you are, but I'm genuinely proud of you. That's really cool. :)
unironically i started doing this and it does help. it feels so weird telling myself what a good girl im being, but i think the hurt little girl inside really needs it.
This is how I talk to my weed plants and it's been working great so far
I give all of mine names too! They’re very cool plants and I’m convinced that they like it, even if I can’t consume what they give me…
I'm not sure if I'll be able to either. I've had to take a long break from weed products for the last little while because they started making me very physically uncomfortable. Most of the times I've tried recently I've had a rapid heart rate and a tight feeling in my stomach/abdomen, and it's just not as enjoyable as it used to be, and didn't seem worth spending money on if I don't even know whether im going to enjoy the experience anymore. I'm growing a high CBD and a high CBG strains though, so I'm hoping I'll be able to find some way to recapture the magic again. If not, at least I've had fun growing them and I'll get to pass on their products to my friends and loved ones.
I started hunting down heirlooms/landraces and doing my own breeding work. I hear from the people who get the end results from me that it’s some of the best they’ve ever had, so I have to assume I’m doing well growing them…
good girl ;)
Brings me tears and a bit of sadness if I do. Maybe because I want to be praised ૮₍ ´ ꒳ `₎ა
oh sweet girl sounds like you really need it. youre doing so good just trying i know its hard.
um hai uh I would also like to be praised
good girl asking for what you want. its so hard sometimes just to ask. youre doing so good keep being honest about your desires :3
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i have no idea what this means lol. ive never seen it before. can you explain?
It's blushing. Some fediverse apps don't render it right sometimes. I don't really keysmash and it's a surprisingly difficult emotion to convey.
Maybe blushing ////// between two eyes >< ?
(This is a totally normal conversation to have around a good girl)
It's a face that blushes :3
Yeah it took me a long time to stop bursting into tears if someone told me I was pretty.
It’s been scientifically proven than self talk slowly seeps into our actual beliefs. Positive or negative, over time you will start to believe the things you say to yourself.
I honestly didn’t believe it for a while until I tried it just to say I did and now I’m highkey the baddest bitch around.
Can confirm! I’ve massively reframed how I’ve seen myself over the last few years, it’s been great.
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