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[-] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 34 points 3 days ago

Hello community, this thread is going in places a community shouldn't go. Remember to hate the argument, not the user. There are also people that said things on the fence that seemed to be making up arguments or trying to start arguments. I temp banned you.

I didn't catch them all, feel free to report if it bugs you. I'll take a look.

[-] peteypete420@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 days ago

I appreciate the work you put into this. Thanks.

[-] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 days ago

This is a great community, so it's easy. You guys usually self-police, and in a funny way. The sculpture guy further down cracked my shit up while softening the conversation.

[-] tobebannedbygaymods@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 days ago

Insert pokemon catch them all joke here

[-] Quexotic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

This thread reminds me of this scene...

Ignore the trolls. Lol.

[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 257 points 4 days ago

Maybe the dude was just... you know.

Poor.

Came from an environment that was usually a mess, chaotic, disordered, and he was genuienly impressed by how simple things, in order, can give a significant sense of safety and stability.

Maybe he'd never seen that before, maybe he had no model of a tidy and peaceful living space.

The same scenario could happen with anyone, of any sex or gender.

Man, broad societal levels of narcissism are just off the fucking charts these days... its the literal opposite of solidarity, of empathy.

[-] EggInDisguise 88 points 4 days ago

Growing up my house was always trashed. Parents with depression and full time jobs don't leave much time and energy for cleaning up, and there's only so much children without guidance can do.

So once I had my own defined space, it was basically minimalist to expedite cleaning. I didn't start getting more stuff, even clothes, until my partner moved in.

[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 4 days ago

Me growing up, it wasn't quite that bad for myself, but some of my neighbors were from... way more fucked up families.

They had basically this exact same 'Wow.' moment, just... coming over, and seeing that... order was possible, things could be put basically back in place after use, etc.

They had no previous concept of it.

I remember going over to one of their houses once and literally stepping in dogshit, inside.

They just... forgot to let the dog out, I guess. Regularly enough that this was annoying but basically normal.

[-] EggInDisguise 24 points 4 days ago

Depression is a bitch, and that makes you not want to clean. Then the grossness makes you more depressed.

Never ending loop.

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[-] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 66 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Or maybe he was just being nice? I can't imagine being invited to friend's new house and not giving compliments unless im like worried about them moving into an unsafe situation.

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[-] the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

How dare you compliment your host? What are you a "gracious guest"? How disgusting.

Seriously, what does she think she is accomplishing here besides broadcasting her misandry?

[-] iuseasahibtw@ani.social 10 points 2 days ago

Oh you like waffles? So you hate pancakes and support cakecide?

This is why people just don’t compliment strangers anymore or engage in any sort of polite conversation.

Everyone is looking for irl or online gatcha moments for that sweet hit of online dopamine.

It’s sick.

[-] quips@slrpnk.net 5 points 2 days ago

100% due to chronic internet use. You use that shit too much it warps your perspective

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[-] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 153 points 4 days ago

I keep seeing this content that’s “men are so stupid and inferior and awful” and it’s grating on me.

Like, yes, there’s definitely a strong toxic subset of men, but most of use are just… normal?

I’m in my mid 30s, when the women aren’t around we’re mostly talking about kids (those who have them), hockey, finances, house stuff, and weird health issues. Depending on the group, how stupid politics/government shit is lately.

I don’t know. It feels like the toxicity that came for incels is coming at women hard these last few years. Reddit really pushes this stuff lately.

[-] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 118 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I keep seeing this content that’s “men are so stupid and inferior and awful” and it’s grating on me.

That's because it's troll bait. Just like all generations have a bigger than wanted set of shitty people. I don't feel like I can take this shit down because it's not breaking any rules. You all can help by not falling for the bait though.

[-] protist@retrofed.com 48 points 4 days ago

Definitely this. It circulates widely because it generates outrage, even though the number of people who actually believe this is miniscule. This is the same technique right-wing media uses

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[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 51 points 3 days ago

Like yes, i want a mommy to take care of me but that and me appreciating your house is not related 💀

[-] davidagain@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I thought "wow, she's worth avoiding".

Then I thought "oh no, people are going to overgeneralise the heck outta both this person and her nasty comments and the comments are gonna be a shitshow of stereotypes and crap gender war shit". I was not even a little bit wrong. There are definitely exceptions, but I think the most noise is being made by that stuff.

[-] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 104 points 4 days ago

Art on the wall? Rugs? I'm from Eastern Europe, best I can do is rugs on the wall

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[-] Shamber@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

3.5 million views? Why? Is this person supposed to be famous or something? And for what an absolute unnecessarly condescending nasty tweet? What am I missing here?!

[-] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I'm so used to Lemmy viewcounts that I sometimes forget how big X/Twitter is.

[-] Quexotic@infosec.pub 59 points 4 days ago

Rage bait is rage bait.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 53 points 4 days ago

Generally true though. Society robs us of all joy on purpose. Can't have shit as a man, because that looks kind of gay.

I'm getting all the stuff society does not want me to.

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 39 points 3 days ago

What robs us of joy is caring about other people’s expectations for us. We are free when we stop worrying about what people think.

[-] trackball_fetish@lemmy.wtf 16 points 3 days ago

Man you can stop worrying about people but that sure won't stop them from treating you like shit

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[-] MiddleAgesModem@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

What the hell are you talking about? You can't have a rug or society will call you gay?

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[-] SayJess 87 points 4 days ago

Thanks! I’ve put a bit of work into the place lately

Pretty difficult to say, I know.

[-] EggInDisguise 31 points 4 days ago

But then we wouldn't have rage bait for engagement.

[-] Squatcher@piefed.social 43 points 3 days ago

A real charmer here lol

[-] chrislowles@lemmy.zip 49 points 4 days ago

"Yeah I don't get it, I just don't get invited to anything anymore" - this person, on occasion, probably

[-] NoTagBacks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 54 points 4 days ago

God, this shit pisses me off so fucking much because it's this bullshit-ass pop-philosophy that liberals have settled into that pushes away young men and perpetuates the patriarchal bullshit in the world. "tHeY'rE jUsT pUnChInG uP" NOBODY SHOULD BE PUNCHING ANYBODY. The problem is the fucking system, not who is doing the punching. Libs get so wrapped up in anything but the system that they make the problem worse. Like the popularization of the term "mansplaining". Oh neat, so now the problem women face about being seen as competent is about men. Because, of course, feminism didn't come about to improve the treatment of women, but to point out who the bad people are. The would you rather for women about running across a bear or a random man is about how man worse than bear, not that women feel so egregiously unsafe in their daily lives. Libs are so far up their own ass, they'd rather create another fucking problem than actually engage in being part of the solution. Libs will see one problem and be like "but what if it could be two problem?" Libs see women get mistreated for no reason then go "men should suffer, too", then pat themselves on the back because now everyone hates everyone, no matter the gender[bullshit-ass heart emojis].

Fuck the patriarchy.

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[-] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Thanks for helping trump get elected.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 40 points 4 days ago

I cannot imagine anyone jumping to that conclusion, this has to be a joke. Like, when I first saw the house of my now husband, the front door opened to a big empty room and my first words were "oh, this is wonderful, it's so empty it looks like a ballroom, you could have a big party here!'. Like, sure, he cannot decorate and defers to me on home renovations now because he always likes what I design (I design, he has veto power) but how is that dysfunctional? He was just fine with the open space, it worked and a house is for the people who live there. And a big empty space is such a flex in a way, like look - I have more house than I need. Guys aren't waiting around hoping someone comes and fills that up, they are enjoying the space, right?

If someone compliments your home, I just can't see getting mad about it.

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[-] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 26 points 3 days ago

My place looks like a laboratory. I'm still on the original primer on the walls. Blow me.

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[-] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 51 points 4 days ago

Just remember that nothing online is real and this 45 year old Chinese/indian/russian/israeli man masquerading as a woman to induce social discord won’t be able to affect you!

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[-] SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 49 points 4 days ago

this is tumblr level insufferable.

[-] Zannsolo@lemmy.world 19 points 3 days ago

Had nice paintings on the wall, spotless place, no clutter, clean bed all before I got married. No paintings,dirty (not gross ) tons of clutter w/wife and kids.

[-] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

People like that would vote republican if they where men.

[-] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 days ago

Consider that the original tweeter is a shitlord and that their entire anecdote is made up to generate "engagement", and don't worry about it ever again.

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