Not sure, if you're actually looking for an explanation or rather just want to rant and/or hope for dating tips, but maybe still helpful to be aware of:

With your specific expectations, you're somewhere to the far left or far right, whichever way you want to read it.
For example, this graph could be applied to alcohol consumption, with 0 on the left and lots on the right. Then you're on the far left.

The Y-axis shows how many people exist in that range. There's some median alcohol consumption, which is going to be in the center of this diagram, where most people are. At 0 alcohol consumption, there's very few people, because it's an extreme.

Obviously, this simplifies a lot. In a real survey, there's probably actually somewhat of a bump at 0 alcohol, because certain religions prohibit consumption.
But yeah, in general, you're hoping for relatively many extremes, so the number of people that match that are quite low. You will naturally get magnitudes more romantic interest from Average Joes, because there's just magnitudes more of them.

As somebody else already said, try to find groups that naturally attract folks from the extremes that you look for, like outdoor sports groups.
Online dating, as problematic as it is, can also be rather good at finding very specific extremes.

I suspect what you're finding is that the kind of men who make amorous advances aren't the kind of men you're interested in, and the kind of men you're interested in don't make amorous advances. Have you tried amorously approaching a man who you're interested in?

unhealthy, cigarette, alcohol, junk food men sounds like an unsuccessful clone of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

The outdoorsy athletic healthy men are too busy exercising at the gym to hit on you.

How are these guys supposed to know that without approaching you?

There are more of them that are single than healthy men. Finding your person takes time and effort, but it is worth it.

We want to ruin your life too.

Cause healthy good man already had woman

You should give drugs a try though. They’re pretty great.

Maybe try joining a running club or something more suited to what you’re looking for.

Maybe you're putting out junk food vibes? Like you have an aura of dorito dust and Marlboro smoke?

I don't know. Are you a beer?

Submissive om is a dead theory. I do not seek out anyone unless there is some indication of interest. In a truly egalitarian world, you are invited to someone's home. You do not show up unannounced or unsolicited.

Because that's the majority of us. Gotta do something fun when every day is a nightmare.

In my experience most guys who work out, eat clean and get lots of exercise are super conscious of not being "That guy" at their gym, running spots or wherever they go to get their workout on. They also dont tend to have to do a lot of work to meet women outside of that environment. If a guy is handsome, employed and is generally polite and friendly available women will make the advance because as you have found, theres a lot of (even if they are very nice people) guys that well... arent.

Hang around healthy men more.

Have you seen my cigs? I left them somewhere between the burger and the vodka bottle. And maybe you'll find my weed while you are looking? Oh, by the way, can I have your number?

Join a group that gets together to share your interests.

Where's OP in the comments?

How symmetrical is your face?

Edit: Sorry, was I being superficial?