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[-] Almonds@mander.xyz 72 points 5 months ago

Anti-trans bills are failing in places like Montana, because our trans legislators are real people (not made-up perverts) who are able to articulate how these bills affect them, as real people, to their colleages on both sides of the aisle.

Zooey Zephyr made such an incredible case last year when she talked about the impact on parents rights if she was no longer able to walk her child to school. Because, yes, she's a transgender woman, but she's a loving parent who is deeply involved in her child's life. In fact, she had introduced her child to her colleages during certain work events. So every one of those asshats who drove that bill forward understood they would be hurting more than the "buzz word" out-group if they voted for it.

Sometimes I wish I lived in her district just so I could vote for her, because nothing makes these Montana red hats madder than realizing they might lose freedoms and she capitalized so perfectly on that.

Sorry, little bit of ramble lol. I think I'm just having a good day and want to have some kind of hope despite the impenetrable dark clouds hanging over us

[-] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 37 points 5 months ago

There are for sure bright spots, and Zooey Zephyr’s work is definitely one of them!

I do try to not drown in all the bad news, I’m just particularly upset about the closure of the trans clinic at the Los Angeles Children’s Hospital recently. So many kids depended on it, and we’re not even in a red state! The people who are supposed to step up are just immediately buckling when a stiff breeze blows.

We will get through this, because it’s not actually possible to stop trans people from existing. But not all of us will get through it. Decades ago I was a trans kid with zero support who tried to kill myself, and I’m basically only here by stupid luck. It’s gut wrenching that even the ‘safe’ areas are fine throwing kids into dealing with that rather than put up any resistance to MAGA.

And yeah, the irony of typing up such a dark comment immediately after saying I do try to focus on the bright spots isn’t lost on me, lol.

[-] Smorty 31 points 5 months ago

left person peeps r WAAAAAAY too common. ;(

[-] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

They claim trans issues are “not important enough” for the average person to care yet these stupid laws keep getting passed.

[-] festnt@sh.itjust.works 9 points 5 months ago

yeah, it's like "we don't mind you, but we will try to make your life as bad as possible!"

[-] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 months ago

Very true :c

[-] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 14 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Trans people aren't sensitive but a good majority of my trans friends back in the early 00's were genuinely fucking crazy, never figured out what the correlation on that one was.

Good times though, one group, we would go traipsing around town until one of them got ridiculously hammered and got in a fight. Last I heard of that particular one, she got arrested for throwing a Molotov in someone's yard for some reason

[-] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 27 points 5 months ago

Not to project too much onto your friends, but based around my own experiences of being a trans teen/young adult at the time it would not surprise me at all if the ‘fucking crazy’ was PTSD.

Not ragging on you for framing it like that or anything even if it was from PTSD; I have PTSD and can be fucking crazy sometimes too, lol. Growing up in the 80s and 90s while trans messed with a lot of heads, mine included.

[-] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

"Why are you ~~geh~~ trans?"

Anyway, good luck to us all in these dark times.

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