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New Flag Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 weeks ago by SuperNovaStar to c/onehundredninetysix

For those who haven't seen it before, the flag pictured is the Queerian flag! Queerians are primarily or exclusively attracted to other queer people. This can be an identity all it's own or a modifier (i.e. queerian bisexual).

For me, I guess it comes with the territory of being nonbinary. It's just hard to imagine someone who isn't queer understanding the weirdness of my relationship to gender. Even though I tend to refer to myself as a woman, I would legitimately have an easier time being attracted to a gay man than a straight one. It doesn't really make sense to me, but at least there's a word for it 🤷‍♀️

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[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 15 points 3 weeks ago

Those are some nice colors!

[-] SuperNovaStar 7 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

💖💜🤍💝

[-] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 3 weeks ago

I really like these original flag designs, chevron is not something I usually see in country flags

[-] Sasha 10 points 3 weeks ago

Oh wow you just described exactly the same experience as me lol. Maybe it is an enby thing

[-] SuperNovaStar 17 points 3 weeks ago

I did have a friend once describe themselves as "if you think I'm attractive, you're gay"

Honestly it's a vibe

[-] Sasha 21 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 weeks ago

with my ex fiance it was easy for me to find other bisexuals because for whatever reason, almost everyone who was into her vibe was SUPER bi

[-] Arkhive 8 points 3 weeks ago

Ooo! I like this! I’m trans femme and nonbinary and often use T4T to describe myself because I think I could really only be with people that “get it”. While it’s largely true, there are people that probably wouldn’t consider themselves trans, but are queer in the way that makes them “get it” that I would be perfectly comfortable with. “Queerian” seems to sort of broaden the trans umbrella in a helpful way, while also shifting the focus away from binary trans folk, who, while of course valid in their desires for binary transition, aren’t really queer in the way I mess with.

[-] SuperNovaStar 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

As originally described, "Queerian" wouldn't be exclusive to only genderqueer people, but it's an obscure enough label as it is that I don't think that having an additional nuance to explain changes anything 😅

A term that was specifically created to describe attraction to non-cis people, especially nonbinary and genderqueer people, would be Ceterosexual. https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Ceterosexual#%3A%7E%3Atext=3+References-%2CEtymology%2Cinto+the+male%2Ffemale+binary.

[-] Arkhive 2 points 3 weeks ago

Very cool! Thanks for sharing!!

[-] glitchdx@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

That's a dope as fuck flag and I want to add it to my patches.

[-] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago

holy shit gwen

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