[-] Sasha 7 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

It's been a hard 5 months, but I think the end is finally in sight. I've given up on seeking help from the medical system, I've been in the ER begging for help multiple times and all I ever got was a medical certificate.

Instead I'm working through my stuff one day at a time and relying on friends for help when I need it, it's hard but it's working. I'm having more and more good days, even if I'm still struggling.

Here are some wins:

  • I'm 5 days sober
  • I'm somehow maintaining a sleep routine
  • I'm in love with songwriting more than ever
  • I'm on top of my to-do list
  • I'm cooking and eating well(ish)
  • I've started putting weight back on (I think)
[-] Sasha 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Sorry for the anger, I'm just very upset about this because I'm constantly watching people's lives be ruined by a government that's at best ignoring their needs, and at worst literally sending violent thugs to assault them at home. I apologise for directing it at you, but Albo isn't someone you should support.

The Australia institute has some problems but they're pretty much on point with this one; they're generally accurate on facts, it's just that sometimes have weird takes on how to handle issues.

I can't agree he's doing the best he can, unless you mean he's doing well at ruining democracy and siding with corporate interests. He's not making the changes that are needed here and now, he's still part of a corrupt neoliberal system and hasn't made any moves to meaningfully move beyond it.
He could help people immediately: he could stop deporting marginalised communities, he could stop the states from criminalising protest, he could stop the AFB from assaulting immigrants or VicPol from putting trans journalists in the hospital and killing Aboriginal people in custody. He could do something about climate change instead of worsening it. He could end a number of human rights violations like offshore detention and the handling of youth in the criminal justice system. He could stop doing openly corrupt things like ramping up state surveillance of while hiding behind "it's to protect children" etc.

In the end, he's just another shitty politician with good rhetoric.

[-] Sasha 2 points 1 day ago

I see. You aren't interested in engaging with reality.

Labor has no good reason to open fossil fuel extraction projects years after we're meant to be beyond that. The fact that you're just deciding the story is fake is incredibly telling...

The salmon farming thing was indeed an election promise. It was also pure fucking evil, that's my entire point. Albo sentenced an entire species to extinction for politics. How do you not see the problem here?

America does own us! Because of spineless politicians who keep bending to their will. We don't have to be where we are now, we don't have to keep propping up a self justifying system of death. We should never act like any of this is even slightly okay. I don't understand how you aren't outraged at the fact that this is all happening for nothing more than greed.

The systems you're using to justify this aren't actually justifications, they're mechanisms fullfilling their intended purpose.

[-] Sasha 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yes, my entire point is obviously that we should just bend over and accept evil because someone else might be a bit worse. /s

Don't strawman me.

You can't go around giving people a free pass for being spineless and corrupt just because someone else is worse. That's literally the reason the system slides further and further right. It's not a bug, it's a feature.

Would I rather have Albo? Sure. Doesn't mean he isn't a turd who's actively making it worse under the guise of electoral reform and it sure doesn't mean we should accept it. Do you want a two party system? Because this is how we get one.

[-] Sasha 4 points 1 day ago

Why do people think criticising Labor for entirely valid reasons is a both sides are the same argument? It isn't, it's valid and necessary. Both sides do sometimes agree on things, but it isn't me saying they're the same... I never said they are the same, I never even mentioned the LNP.

Unwavering support for corrupt politicians needs to die because it actually does legitimise harm and makes corruption and incompetence seem less bad. You're literally trying to justify corruption because they're not the LNP.

[-] Sasha 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If you really don't think Albo is directly responsible for people dying, there's nothing I can say that will convince you. The shitty neoliberal system isn't a justification for inaction, it's a disgusting tumour that he's actively strengthening. You're assuming that he has to play the game, he doesn't, it's a choice. Giving him a pass on this because of a lame excuse isn't helping anyone, it's placid acceptance of objective evil.

I'll add this one specific thing though. Albo is actively making climate change worse and ensuring that the country continues to be reliant on fossil fuels.

[-] Sasha 7 points 1 day ago

Putting an election before lives is pathetic.

[-] Sasha 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

He can hide behind a veil of caution all he wants, it doesn't change the fact he's getting people killed and ruining lives for a lot of people. He isn't being patient anyway, he's actively making a lot of stuff significantly worse and betrayed even the most hardcore Labor supporters I know.

[-] Sasha 9 points 2 days ago

Why do that when he could filter his ideas through ungodly amounts of ketamine instead?

[-] Sasha 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yup, getting skills is just worthwhile pain. It's been hard trying to convince some of the younger tech interested people I know to put in the effort instead of going down the AI route, but I know exactly where that'll lead them. You don't get good at this stuff by succeeding, it's the endless failure.

[-] Sasha 15 points 3 days ago

I'm doubtful it'll be any worse than a century dominated by the US, they're all doing the same evil shit.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by Sasha to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

The rally in Melbourne hasn't gotten much coverage because of Sydney, but it is mentioned here. They claim 3000 attended but that's way off, it was easily 25-40,000 (some estimates I've seen go as high as 50k). The march stretched down most of Bourke St and I couldn't see the start or end of it.

300k was the organiser estimate for Sydney which is about 5-6% of the city.

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Max Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 months ago by Sasha to c/onehundredninetysix

This is Max, my brother's greyhound (hey bro if you're reading this). He was keeping me company today while I took some time to relax and recover from recent traumatic stuff, he's the goodest boy like that.

Not pictured are the two miniature poms who cuddled with me today as well.

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Sasha to c/trans

I was meant to record a segment for a radio program to discuss some of the unique implications that being trans can have for your mental health. We'd decided to talk a bit about how I'd ended up getting an ADHD diagnosis as a result of starting feminizing hormones, they'd made it significantly worse and I was struggling to keep up with daily life.

Now I've ended up having to put that recording off for a while because I was struggling with some pretty severe depression, but it seems like this is probably borderline personality disorder. I saw a few Reddit posts where some said they'd had noticed theirs get worse after starting hrt and I'm wondering if anyone here has experienced anything like this, or knows about research into it?

Could be any disorder or condition, it's all good to know about as there doesn't seem to be that much info out there beyond people's experiences, it could help others to hear yours. (I'll add mine to the comments)

I won't share any details on that program beyond what I get your consent for or anything reasonably vague such as "I spoke to x other people who've had similar experiences."

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Sasha to c/queer_defense_front

This article is from before the actions happened, I'm sharing this one because it's well written and touches on the points we consider most important: intersectionality and solidarity. Also we forgot to plan a post action media release for my city and got absolutely no media attention after the fact oops (except for community radio ♥️♥️♥️3CR❤️❤️❤️).

It's worth noting that this approach was so overwhelmingly successful that the rally in my city ended up being several times larger than anything we'd anticipated, 3000+ attendees at the peak. If you're looking at organising a radical campaign like this, use your contacts and ask your allies to mobilise, it's incredibly powerful stuff and builds power for their movements as well.

The discussion on mainstream queer activism being inadequate and toxic is very important and worth understanding in detail. You can't build a lasting movement or obtain liberation by throwing minorities under the bus and capitulating to oppressive patriarchal norms that reinforce harmful stereotypes and gender roles.

We've experienced this first hand. The day after the rally, an NGO announced their own action appropriating the name we chose and on the same day as a rally for refugees. They silenced all critiques, spat in the face of what we stood for and even claimed they organised one of the rallies in another city. They also have history of silencing the voices and efforts of trans people (especially from other marginalised groups) while platforming the politicians who pass legislation to suppress and erase us. It's been absolutely awful to deal with, but you cannot be complicit in it.

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Bring your friends! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 5 months ago by Sasha to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

If you're able to make it to the State Library on the 31st, please come and show your support. There are a lot of awful things happening to trans people and it's time we demand protection, the right to gender affirming care and an end to pink washing.

The 31st is the trans day of visibility, but we are now very visible and without protection that visibility is violence. We are done asking to be seen, we now demand to be safe.

(Mods pls remove if not allowed, I checked the guidelines and couldn't find anything disallowing it)

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Bus Stop Rule (self.onehundredninetysix)
submitted 7 months ago by Sasha to c/onehundredninetysix

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submitted 8 months ago by Sasha to c/196
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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by Sasha to c/buyitforlife@slrpnk.net

I basically listen to music constantly, and when I'm on holiday or riding my bike I generally use USB-C earbuds. I've had way too many wireless buds break and I'm sick of them, but these aren't fairing much better tbh.

Problem is that the cables always eventually stop working, often from my phone being in my pocket while I'm walking or cycling. I've been able to partly extend their life by keeping my phone in the thigh pocket on my cargo pants but it often just falls over and bends the cable more sharply than my hip pocket.

I'm looking for either a pair of highly durable earbuds either USB-C or 3.5mm with a USB-C DAC recommendation, or even better a DSP cable that I could use with IEMs with a 0.78mm connector.

I'm also open to any other suggestions at all.

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Arrested for disobeying rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by Sasha to c/196

Yep, I got arrested trying to block a coal ship in the world's largest coal port and I'm proud as fuck, give all your love to the protest organisers. I've talked about it a ton over in this thread (and a few others in similar communities). I was joined by a handful of other people, including a student doctor who is in this photo but hard to see, she's on my right in the shade. She's so damn brave and a huge inspiration.

This took place at the People's Blockade, an annual "protestival" organised by a group called Rising Tide.

I'm the (misgendered 😡) 27 year old in this article.

170 people then set a new record for the largest civil disobedience action in Australian history the following day, they're all incredibly brave people who have had enough.

We fought the government in court and won the right to protest against the fossil fuel corporations who are burning our children's futures. We also fight to secure the future jobs of the workers in these industries, demanding a 78% tax on current fossil fuel projects to help them in the transition to a renewable future.

It's been a long few days, I've just arrived home about half an hour ago. Goodnight.

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Eupho Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by Sasha to c/196

I was in an antique store and I found the anime section

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Mandorule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by Sasha to c/196

Bought a mandolin today and I can't put it down, I can't wait to write tons of pretty songs :3

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Lyrics Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 years ago by Sasha to c/196

Big Thief - Mary

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