[-] Sasha 3 points 1 day ago

Where I live, the socialist alternative aka SALT. They're rather abusive towards their members and are pretty broadly hated by every other group because they co-opt movements and turn any rally into a chance to sell things and make a profit. They're well known for being very manipulative and forceful with university students in particular. I've heard nothing but disgusting stories from the people who got out.

[-] Sasha 4 points 1 day ago

Oh haha, cool I saw myself. Yeah I tried getting some photos when we went down Bourke St, but it was so massive that it actually looks small. The crowd disappeared over the hill heading west and went around the corner back up Swanston. In the photos the crowd just blurs and looks like part of the road or something, so you can't get a good idea of the scale. I was really hoping for aerial footage, though tbf I haven't gone looking.

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) by Sasha to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

The rally in Melbourne hasn't gotten much coverage because of Sydney, but it is mentioned here. They claim 3000 attended but that's way off, it was easily 25-40,000 (some estimates I've seen go as high as 50k). The march stretched down most of Bourke St and I couldn't see the start or end of it.

300k was the organiser estimate for Sydney which is about 5-6% of the city.

[-] Sasha 3 points 1 day ago

I've been running from my problems by immersing myself in tech, I'm not sure if that makes me like it more or less but I've gotten very very good at what I do.

Last night I set up an event ticketing service so friends can come to an event I'm hosting without me having to schedule them or manage capacity. Then I cried myself to sleep. -2

But I also get to set up stuff for my collectives to use, like nextcloud and wordpress and it's awesome to be able to turn a grassroots bunch of ratbags into a semi-professional looking bunch of ratbags. +10

[-] Sasha 7 points 1 day ago

I used to fry a pan of frozen veggies with salt and thyme, but these days I'm often lucky enough to be able to get a lot of rescued food for free.

[-] Sasha 15 points 2 days ago

Eeeeeh careful when signing up at protests, you run the chance of getting into one of the culty and abusive groups who rely on naive newbies signing up on the spot. Then they take you away from your friends and family and all your money, I wish it didn't happen constantly but I literally just got home from a protest absolutely infested with them.

[-] Sasha 2 points 2 days ago

The speech is a chance to say everything you want to say, as long as it comes from the heart and celebrates their marriage, you'll do fine.

IMHO it's totally fine to joke about yourself, as long as you aren't generalising there's nothing anyone can say. Transitioning is your story, and you get to tell it how you want.

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Max Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 months ago by Sasha to c/onehundredninetysix

This is Max, my brother's greyhound (hey bro if you're reading this). He was keeping me company today while I took some time to relax and recover from recent traumatic stuff, he's the goodest boy like that.

Not pictured are the two miniature poms who cuddled with me today as well.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by Sasha to c/trans

I was meant to record a segment for a radio program to discuss some of the unique implications that being trans can have for your mental health. We'd decided to talk a bit about how I'd ended up getting an ADHD diagnosis as a result of starting feminizing hormones, they'd made it significantly worse and I was struggling to keep up with daily life.

Now I've ended up having to put that recording off for a while because I was struggling with some pretty severe depression, but it seems like this is probably borderline personality disorder. I saw a few Reddit posts where some said they'd had noticed theirs get worse after starting hrt and I'm wondering if anyone here has experienced anything like this, or knows about research into it?

Could be any disorder or condition, it's all good to know about as there doesn't seem to be that much info out there beyond people's experiences, it could help others to hear yours. (I'll add mine to the comments)

I won't share any details on that program beyond what I get your consent for or anything reasonably vague such as "I spoke to x other people who've had similar experiences."

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Sasha to c/queer_defense_front

This article is from before the actions happened, I'm sharing this one because it's well written and touches on the points we consider most important: intersectionality and solidarity. Also we forgot to plan a post action media release for my city and got absolutely no media attention after the fact oops (except for community radio ♥️♥️♥️3CR❤️❤️❤️).

It's worth noting that this approach was so overwhelmingly successful that the rally in my city ended up being several times larger than anything we'd anticipated, 3000+ attendees at the peak. If you're looking at organising a radical campaign like this, use your contacts and ask your allies to mobilise, it's incredibly powerful stuff and builds power for their movements as well.

The discussion on mainstream queer activism being inadequate and toxic is very important and worth understanding in detail. You can't build a lasting movement or obtain liberation by throwing minorities under the bus and capitulating to oppressive patriarchal norms that reinforce harmful stereotypes and gender roles.

We've experienced this first hand. The day after the rally, an NGO announced their own action appropriating the name we chose and on the same day as a rally for refugees. They silenced all critiques, spat in the face of what we stood for and even claimed they organised one of the rallies in another city. They also have history of silencing the voices and efforts of trans people (especially from other marginalised groups) while platforming the politicians who pass legislation to suppress and erase us. It's been absolutely awful to deal with, but you cannot be complicit in it.

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Bring your friends! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 months ago by Sasha to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

If you're able to make it to the State Library on the 31st, please come and show your support. There are a lot of awful things happening to trans people and it's time we demand protection, the right to gender affirming care and an end to pink washing.

The 31st is the trans day of visibility, but we are now very visible and without protection that visibility is violence. We are done asking to be seen, we now demand to be safe.

(Mods pls remove if not allowed, I checked the guidelines and couldn't find anything disallowing it)

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Bus Stop Rule (self.onehundredninetysix)
submitted 6 months ago by Sasha to c/onehundredninetysix

[-] Sasha 104 points 6 months ago

For the love of god, leave this community here and just create a new mod team instead. This community being on Blåhaj specifically is a big plus for a lot of us

[-] Sasha 98 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

1: I've taken the metro to get groceries loads of times

2: Trams

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submitted 7 months ago by Sasha to c/196
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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by Sasha to c/buyitforlife@slrpnk.net

I basically listen to music constantly, and when I'm on holiday or riding my bike I generally use USB-C earbuds. I've had way too many wireless buds break and I'm sick of them, but these aren't fairing much better tbh.

Problem is that the cables always eventually stop working, often from my phone being in my pocket while I'm walking or cycling. I've been able to partly extend their life by keeping my phone in the thigh pocket on my cargo pants but it often just falls over and bends the cable more sharply than my hip pocket.

I'm looking for either a pair of highly durable earbuds either USB-C or 3.5mm with a USB-C DAC recommendation, or even better a DSP cable that I could use with IEMs with a 0.78mm connector.

I'm also open to any other suggestions at all.

[-] Sasha 92 points 8 months ago

I'm an ordinary person, who less than a year ago sat around on a couch and cried about how powerless I was about all of this. Never forget that we give up our power by thinking we don't have any.

There is so much you can do, and you don't have to go anywhere close to the extremes I'm willing to.

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Arrested for disobeying rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by Sasha to c/196

Yep, I got arrested trying to block a coal ship in the world's largest coal port and I'm proud as fuck, give all your love to the protest organisers. I've talked about it a ton over in this thread (and a few others in similar communities). I was joined by a handful of other people, including a student doctor who is in this photo but hard to see, she's on my right in the shade. She's so damn brave and a huge inspiration.

This took place at the People's Blockade, an annual "protestival" organised by a group called Rising Tide.

I'm the (misgendered 😡) 27 year old in this article.

170 people then set a new record for the largest civil disobedience action in Australian history the following day, they're all incredibly brave people who have had enough.

We fought the government in court and won the right to protest against the fossil fuel corporations who are burning our children's futures. We also fight to secure the future jobs of the workers in these industries, demanding a 78% tax on current fossil fuel projects to help them in the transition to a renewable future.

It's been a long few days, I've just arrived home about half an hour ago. Goodnight.

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Eupho Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by Sasha to c/196

I was in an antique store and I found the anime section

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Mandorule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by Sasha to c/196

Bought a mandolin today and I can't put it down, I can't wait to write tons of pretty songs :3

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Lyrics Rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by Sasha to c/196

Big Thief - Mary

[-] Sasha 223 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Power move

I'd totally do this on purpose

[-] Sasha 95 points 2 years ago

How many more years of these news stories do I have to read before we actually do something about this?

I'm so fucking sick of this happening constantly.

[-] Sasha 169 points 2 years ago

That's a great salary even if divided between 10,000 people.

Fuck billionaires, leeches

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