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[-] TowardsTheFuture@lemmy.zip 139 points 6 days ago

“Guys how do we get people under 40 to stop making reservations without saying that out loud.”

[-] Donkter@lemmy.world 66 points 6 days ago

Or: "how do we discriminate who we give reservations to without any official policy."

[-] toofpic@lemmy.world 45 points 6 days ago

I am 40, and I still hate that. But I'm also really far from teenager shyness or "not knowing better", so I would just wait until they pick up and say how annoyed I am and how they can go f themselves with that practice. If several people would do that every day, they would reconsider how they take bookings.

[-] Chronographs@lemmy.zip 14 points 6 days ago

Pretty likely whoever’s taking reservations isn’t going to have any say in what’s on the website.

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[-] multifariace@lemmy.world 54 points 6 days ago

I was accustomed to google maps opening the phone and showing a number when I clicked on call. Yesterday it skipped that step and went straight to calling.

[-] Gerudo@lemm.ee 30 points 6 days ago
[-] multifariace@lemmy.world 40 points 6 days ago
[-] example@reddthat.com 14 points 6 days ago

how do you enable voicemail for outbound calls?

[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 11 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

So they are now totally disabling copying phone numbers, I discovered today (maybe on Google Search)

That should queue them up quite nicely to follow in Yelp's footsteps!

Yelp waits for a new business to receive a bunch of phone calls. Then they call the business owner and congratulate them on the 300 calls or however many customers made by tapping the phone number on Yelp. Then comes the extortion. Allegedly, that last part, according to a college professor. Who surely just had it out for Yelp which is why he would make that up 😉

heh, actually corroborated by Billion Dollar Bully (documentary). Need all the bullies we can get, good luck Google!

Edit: either pay Yelp for advertising or get deranked, is the deal

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[-] PolyLlamaRous@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago

Has anyone else ever had this happen? Is this just a joke made for clicks and likes? I saw this many years ago (and likely this exact one as it's from 2019) and I thought this isn't a thing. My thought now, this isn't a thing.

[-] primemagnus@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago

It’s a meme.

https://support.apple.com/en-ca/guide/facetime/fctm2cd42547/mac

You can generate a FT link but it must remain active and I doubt they have a number or email with a 16h active session running, pretty much daily. And advertise it on the net of all places where anyone can abuse it.

[-] GamingChairModel@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Browsers are configured to pass off tel: links by a designated handler. In Safari on Mac, the default handler is Facetime, or at least was, for a while.

On a mobile phone most browsers just open the phone/dialer app to handle tel: links. In Chrome, back when I had Google Voice, I had it configured to do Google Voice calls (including for a time, Google Hangouts as the interface for my Google Voice account).

[-] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 44 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

People just showing up on my screen has been my nightmare since The Jetsons.

[-] Fades@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago

The absolute tidal wave of anxiety that would crash over me if this happened... no thanks

[-] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 11 points 5 days ago
[-] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago
[-] Bahnd@lemmy.world 10 points 5 days ago
[-] TonyTonyChopper@mander.xyz 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)
[-] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 5 points 5 days ago

What even is an "American".

A being incapable of recognizing other beings that are not American as its equals.

[-] TheAlbatross 20 points 6 days ago

While that's a wild UX choice and shouldn't happen, people's aversion to making a phone call is stunningly ridiculous and shouldn't be enabled.

[-] KeefChief13@lemmy.world 108 points 6 days ago

Phone call is one thing facetime another.

[-] TheAlbatross 40 points 6 days ago

Yah I agree to that. Hell, if it was a virtual reservation system, even automatically calling without telling you that is what's gonna happen is egregious. The app should function as you expect it would.

[-] LeninsOvaries@lemmy.cafe 13 points 6 days ago

Yeah what if I'm naked and my tits are out? I don't wanna accidentally show the waiter my tits because an app decided to turn on my camera without asking

[-] Panamalt@sh.itjust.works 58 points 6 days ago

As someone who is autistic, has an ample dose of ADHD, and the hearing of a brick, talking on the phone is a literal, hellish nightmare. I can barely figure out social interaction when I can see your face, I can't pay attention to shit unless it's actively grabbing my focus, and on the best of days the phone is about as intelligible as the adults from Peanuts.

Fuck. Phone. Calls.

It's easy to take our experience of the world or how we feel about something and try to forcefully apply it to everyone else. This almost never works, and we just end up looking like a dumbass because people are messy and rarely fit in the same mold as us. Perhaps you feel that avoiding talking on the phone is ridiculous, but that is decidedly not universally true. Next time, maybe try and think through how other people might have a different experience and reason than you before passing such judgments.

[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Half the time the company requiring a phone call has absolutely shit quality. Idk wtf they do but it's like the person on the other end is trying to yell into the phone atop a mountain from 500ft away

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[-] kn33@lemmy.world 33 points 6 days ago

I dislike phone calls because once you say the words, they're out there and if you made a mistake you have to inconvenience someone to make a correction. It's such a hassle. If it's just a web form, I can re-read it as many times as I want to make sure it's right before I submit and I only inconvenience myself.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 25 points 6 days ago

Pretty sure the video part was the entire reason for the reaction. Also, if I wanted to call to make a reservation I would have. I use the website when I'm in a loud place, on the toilet, or other location that isn't appropriate for phone calls.

Plus a website lets me see what I chose instead of relying on the person on the other end getting it right, which has been pretty hit and miss for most things in my experience.

[-] Zikeji@programming.dev 23 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

"Peoples' aversion to walking is stunningly ridiculous and shouldn't be enabled."

Sounds different if we choose a different activity. Such a blanket statement is offensive and doesn't factor in disability.

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[-] Voyajer@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago

They're already on the restaurant's website, if they wanted to call they'd have done it directly.

[-] merc@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

It's more aversion to your device suddenly making a phone call that you didn't expect it to make.

Like, say you're trying to make this reservation while you're having a poop in a public restroom. You might have no problem calling to make a reservation when you're in a more appropriate environment and you have all the information at hand. But, you might not want to unexpectedly have to talk to them while you're grunting and pushing out a turd.

[-] forrgott@lemm.ee 6 points 5 days ago

"Waah! I don't understand why someone does something, therefore that person should be forced to do what I think makes sense!!!"

That's you.

[-] djsoren19 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I don't think it's necessarily aversion. I think people are fundamentally not learning how to have human conversations. It's kinda wild how often at my job I just have to fully take over a call and handfeed the person on the other end information, because if left to themselves they'll just kinda fumble around confused at the concept of asking the question they called to ask. If you don't know how to make a phone call, it's not surprising that you wouldn't ever want to.

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[-] Linktank@lemmy.today 15 points 6 days ago

You have to follow through with the call and tell them that you're not reserving specifically because of this situation.

[-] sangriaferret@sh.itjust.works 20 points 6 days ago

I assure the person that has to answer the call does not care.

[-] Linktank@lemmy.today 12 points 6 days ago

They certainly don't, and it isn't their job to care. It is only their job to pass that information along to the person who might pass it along to somebody who MIGHT care.

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[-] CrowAirbrush@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

I tried to make a reservation once, for a date with my wife.

The whole conversation was a mess of them being too damn busy, when we got there on the agreed date they had nothing in their agenda.

Never again. I'll get some movie tickets.

[-] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 10 points 5 days ago

You tried to make a diner reservation... once in your life? And then gave up and never went to a restaurant again?

I mean, that's fine, home food is best food.

But if you ever try to make a reservation again, try and call them before rush hour starts. I'm sure they'll appreciate that a lot, and won't "forget" to actually book you in.

[-] CrowAirbrush@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

They opened at 4pm, i tried calling before that but no one picked up.

It was fairly new at the time so it was always busy.

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