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Obviously there should be ways to accommodate different accessibility in systems much like buildings should include ramps and elevators. I'm not talking about that.
There's so many people I've met without auditory processing issues that still have this aversion to phone calls.
If you've met many, many people with this issue, maybe consider that it's an actual issue instead of completely dismissing it?
Why do people have to have a diagnosable thing wrong with them, like auditory processing issues, to have their feelings or experiences validated?
How do you know what the other person experiences? How do you know whether they have auditory problems or not? What right do you have to decide how someone else feels about something? Why do you get to decide how the world communicates?
This has nothing to do with talking on the phone. It's about recognizing that we don't get to have the corner market on the universe and learning to embrace the one thing that makes human beings interesting, our messiness. Even if that messiness is avoiding talking on the phone.
And yet, Universal Design is exactly how we should be approaching society, no matter what one person thinks about other people:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Universal_design