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submitted 2 weeks ago by Irelephant@lemm.ee to c/fedimemes@feddit.uk

transcriptA picture of the Ben Affleck Smoking meme, with the caption "Me seeing people on reddit telling other people to go to lemmy.world"

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[-] drkt_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 193 points 2 weeks ago

Stop making good the enemy of perfect!

[-] DahGangalang@infosec.pub 68 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, anything to get them from reddit is good.

Plus, once they get a feel for Lemmy and the wider fediverse, they can then migrate their account elsewhere.

[-] lurch@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago

Some of them maybe, but a lot are super toxic and I just hope they stay on reddit and make each other suffer rather than the good ppl on lemmy.

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 32 points 2 weeks ago

That’s a moderation issue, and if we can’t handle it here, Lemmy is doomed regardless.

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[-] Irelephant@lemm.ee 32 points 2 weeks ago

Anywhere but:

  • lemmy[.]ml
  • lemmygrad[.]ml
  • lemmy[.]world
  • he xbea r[.]net
[-] Omega_Man@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago

Now explain why to the masses.

[-] noodlejetski@lemm.ee 37 points 2 weeks ago
  • tankies
  • tankies
  • centralisation
  • tankies
[-] FundMECFSResearch 29 points 2 weeks ago

tankies => historical revisionism and genocide denial.

I don’t really care if they are authoritarian communists, I care that they deny or try to embellish massive human rights absuses and human suffering.

[-] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

To expand:

On .ml, you'll likely end up being banned for "bigotry" if you dare criticize certain authoritarian regimes. The mods and admins cannot handle any sort of dissent, so censorship is quite heavy there. You'll even get banned from unrelated communities. It's the least toxic of the "Big Three" tankie instances, but still not a great place to be. There's also the issue of overcentralization since it's such a large instance, as getting an unwarranted ban can block off access to a good chunk of communities.

Grad is .ml but more extremist. They're widely defederated for good reason, as their users are pretty horrible to anyone they consider a shitlib. I can't say much about them from personal experience as they've been defederated with my instance for as long as I've been here, but many have alts on .ml where they do engage in shitty behaviour.

Hexbear is by far the worst. Take grad, and turn the hostility up to 11. If you say the wrong thing, it may end up posted in their "dunk tank" where they'll then proceed to harass you as a group for days or longer, even taking it to DMs. They do not federate with other instances to participate in good faith, they federate in order to push their agenda and "dismantle Western propaganda". And by that, they actually mean flooding threads with oversized emotes and graphic pictures of pigs shitting on their own testicles when they decide to brigade. They're also widely defederated for good reason, and most threads involving defederating with them have plenty of examples of their awful conduct outside of their instance. Many have alts on other instances to bypass said defederation though.

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[-] psyop@crazypeople.online 13 points 2 weeks ago

Because most Americans can't handle any other worldview and have no identity beyond mindless nationalism.

[-] monogram@feddit.nl 29 points 2 weeks ago

Tankies simply partake in a different nationalism: Russian or Chinese

[-] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 11 points 1 week ago

Lmao spend one minute on meanehileongrad and say that again.

[-] gregs_gumption@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago
[-] Omega_Man@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

What the heck does this have to do with choosing a social media platform, comrade?

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[-] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

So like the big servers that everyone's on, gotcha

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[-] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 70 points 1 week ago

The cold truth is that to onboard people in greater numbers you need a default instance recommendation. You just do. You absolutely cannot ask potential new users (many of which will - hopefully - be casual and not so tech savvy) to sit down and undertake a multi hour research project into finding an appropriate small instance for them. You cannot reasonably expect people to look into uptime, funding and defederation lists to make an informed decision about where to register. You just need them through the door and posting and commenting and voting.

Making a new account somewhere else is super easy and painless once they're already here. We just need to get them here.

[-] monogram@feddit.nl 1 points 6 days ago

I found it pretty easy: pick an instance of your country. Support local instances!!

[-] MummysLittleBloodSlut 9 points 1 week ago

Just tell them to go to your favourite instance. Easy.

[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

It's too bad there isn't a way to just have one location for everyone to create an account, like a lemmy.com, and then the last step during account creationg is to select your preferred instance for the account, maybe from like a drop down list that has a small blurb about the rules and expectations for that instance and a list of top 10 hosted communities, and maybe even a random choice option, and then you can go back to that main area to switch your instance later if need be.

[-] dev_null@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When I first found Lemmy, it was through https://join-lemmy.org/ which is similar to what you are describing.

Though it recommended me to join lemmy.ml, and apparently it's a controversial one, so I don't know if that worked out well...

[-] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago

That's how I got in! Lemm.ee does just fine.

But yea, perhaps we could chat to the heads of lemmy.world to maybe pin an announcement to help other instances and help decentralisation. I wouldn't be surprised if they would agree to do that for the greater good.

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[-] Sheldan@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't see the issue with recommending a generic instance, if your intend is to convert the generic user. It certainly is a better experience than saying 'ok, so choose what you like from this list of instances' and they don't even know the implications or what that means.

The overcomplication of Lemmy is an issue, and this behavior tries to avoid that.

[-] Irelephant@lemm.ee 13 points 1 week ago

Recommending generic instances is good, but please don't recommend that generic instance.

[-] tetris11@feddit.uk 10 points 1 week ago

Eh why not, might mellow them out a little

[-] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 28 points 1 week ago
[-] Irelephant@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

Can we recommend another generic instance? .world has a few problems plaguing it right now.

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[-] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 25 points 2 weeks ago

Well it is lemmy.world, so it makes sense that it should contain everyone in the world /j

[-] squirrel@discuss.tchncs.de 16 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] Hazelnutcookiez 25 points 1 week ago

a generic instance is what most users need to actually make the move, if they like it or understand it better later they might choose a different insurance later, if not who cares they can still interact with others.

[-] demesisx@infosec.pub 24 points 1 week ago

Makes sense.

Lemmy.world is filled with censorship and genocide apologists. It’s basically an exact clone of Reddit’s culture of smug libs that look down their noses at other poor people while working tirelessly against their own best interest by supporting corrupt oligarchs that weaponize identity politics as a highly effective dog whistle.

[-] Auntievenim@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Hey! I'll have you know I was onboarded from reddit because I can't possibly be asked to understand federation much less the preferred instance or any of the politics of this place before arriving. I saw an easy way in and I took it, because my anti-genocide tirades got me banned from reddit and so far haven't from here. Idk how to control which part of lemmy I'm in much less the one I come from. I am not, however, a "lemmy.world-er" I just live here

[-] demesisx@infosec.pub 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Welcome!

Now that the election is over and the shitlibs on world can pretend that Trump is the only demagogue to blame for the ongoing genocide, you might be fine.

If I were you, I’d switch before you share your opinion somewhere that kescusay@lemmy.world or jordanlund@lemmy.world can censor or even ban you.

I’ve seen people banned and their comments removed for having the audacity to question the official braindead Reddit hivemind lib narrative (pro-DNC no matter how demonstrably corrupt they get because “have you seen the other guys?”, anti-Single-Payer, conveniently pro-Ukraine while hypocritically anti-Palestine).

It’s pretty easy to switch nowadays.

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[-] BrutallyHonestPOS@lemm.ee 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

lemmy.world does not allow the use of vpn to post. vpn is basic internet hygiene. do not go to lemmy.world if you care about that, our you will not be able to post.

you can join any federated instance instead.

one day later edit: i took my information from this post of a lemmy.world admin: https://lemmy.world/comment/12079632

I was made aware that users are able to post on lemmy.world while using a vpn. maybe their stance has changed?

aside from that, try to avoid joining the biggest instance and join smaller, federated instances instead. this reduces load and avoids centralization.

[-] sus@programming.dev 10 points 1 week ago

vpn is basic internet hygiene

according to vpn companies

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[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 week ago

What do you want them to do? Select an instance at random, to spread them out?

[-] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"Lemmy is great, you can choose whatever instance you want! But fuck you if you choose that one."

[-] Irelephant@lemm.ee 10 points 1 week ago

No, don't recommend that one. I don't care if you're on LW, its just not a great idea to recommend it to newcomers.

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[-] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 13 points 1 week ago

I was forced to go to Lemmy after the post-inauguration bloodbath, but Ive liked it a lot, more than Reddit in many ways. I was getting really tired of the bots, puns, Russian Propganda, novelty accounts, TROLLS, etc.

OTOH, I feel like I can speak much more freely on Lemmy. Even before I got permabanned, Reddits Free Speech mission had become non-existent.

The downside of Lemmy is that some of my favorite subs don't have an equivalent on Lemmy. For instance, the Reddit guitar subs are very active, but the few Lemmy guitar forums are nearly empty, with posts that are days, weeks, months, and even years, apart. I tried Googling "Lemmy Guitar" for ideas, and literally every link was about Motorhead.

So I welcome more quality Reddit immigrants, as long as all the Trolls stay over there.

[-] Apple87sagan@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Help build the guitar community, tell the people on reddit to come here instead. I will do the same.

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[-] Triasha@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

I registered with blahaj first but I couldn't. Log in after a couple of months and never found a solution.

I came to Lemmy on my own but felt forced I to .World.

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[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 9 points 1 week ago

Part of the problem is that there isn't a really good onboarding process that doesn't involve getting people to join smaller instances.

Based on dev comments, they seem happy with Lemmy staying small, so there isn't an organization pushing for an equal distribution of new members.

[-] LunarEwok@feddit.uk 8 points 1 week ago

First post on Lemmy! and oh my word… never seen such an eclectic mix of flavours of people, positions and politics in a long time.

This decentralised thing could actually be a good thing: pulls people away from bubbles and echo chambers!

Just remember to play nice :)

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