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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 6 days ago) by CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al

Women only community, see full rules below

Welcome to WomensStuff! We are here for all things women. Examples include...

  1. Fashion, style, make up
  2. Feminism, patriarchy
  3. Friendly chit chat with other women.

Rules...

  1. Women only... trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn't allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (eg non binary) is welcome
  2. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Please see our twinned community !dadforaminute@lemmy.world They're WomensStuff's official male cheerleaders, and great for when you need dad advice or hugs... They're also a great way for male posters to support women.

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[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

I am a guy and saw a general question about what tea folks recommend. I love tea and dont think my gender would get in the way of that discussion, but I understand that this is supposed to be a community with just women.

Do you recommend I stay out of discussions like that? There really isn't anyone talking about tea on Lemmy and I yearn for it.

No worries either way.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Hi Pebbles thanks so much for your honesty! It's really appreciated. We are women only so you can't participate. I'd suggest starting a thread on tea in !casualconversation@lemm.ee or !ask@lemm.ee you'll get lots of replies there.

[-] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago
[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 5 hours ago

Np have a good weekend

[-] Hansae@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 3 weeks ago

I'm a guy and this'll be my only comment here but am wishing you the best! Always nice to see spaces for women.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 12 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks mate! I'm so happy to see these supportive comments from men I didn't expect it! Really appreciated

Same! Best wishes with this new community @CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al!

[-] Elevator7009sAlt@ani.social 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Awhile ago, someone made a post listing communities targeted at women. All of the communities are now dead, since the poster listed only kbin.social communities and kbin.social went down. I did continue a community listed there at !otomegames@ani.social, but I do not know about if the other communities have been recreated on other instances. However, the reason I bring this up is because I think it might be useful to have a similar post here. Grow the Fediverse and all that.

Disclaimer: am woman

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 10 points 3 weeks ago

Good idea, women should support other women

[-] Elevator7009sAlt@ani.social 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Alright, went looking for active versions of the communities listed in that post.

I also submit some communities for interests traditionally considered feminine, though I realize not all women would participate in these and other genders participate too. All are active unless mentioned otherwise.

If women post about these things here I highly encourage them to crosspost to the hobby community too. I am definitely not the only woman who isn't following this community. I don't plan to engage here aside from these two comments. (Nothing against you or other women, I don't hold "there is no patriarchy" beliefs, but this community does allow discussion on more depressing topics than I want to engage with on my online funtime, such as patriarchy and probably sexism.) I hope this proves a fruitful and fun place for the women who do subscribe to the community :) good luck!

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 4 days ago

!Witchesvspatriarchy@lemmy.ca is under new management. It's a really positive and interesting group of posters with an interest in witchcraft, supporting women and feminism.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 4 points 2 weeks ago

That's a great list thanks ๐Ÿ˜Š

[-] YarrMatey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 weeks ago

Would this be welcome too: women venting about their partners, talking about medical problems/conditions women have (even sex-related), birth control, bras and how they fit, parenthood, etc.? Just getting a feel for the place.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 9 points 3 weeks ago

100% whatever women want to talk about is ok (although obviously no hating on groups, we're trans inclusive etc). Women's voices on all topics are welcome ๐Ÿ˜Š

[-] fracture@beehaw.org 8 points 3 weeks ago

do you mind men participating as long as they don't center the space on themselves, or do you not want them to participate at all?

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 12 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for asking, it's really decent of you. For now it's women only (although I really value positive men like you)

[-] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 weeks ago

Good luck with this community, it looks really promising!

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 6 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks Blaze! Love supportive men โค๏ธ

Does this extend to reading/joining the community without posting liking etc. As well or is reading okay?

I know one can't really enforce this but I would like to respect it if you say men shouldnt be here and read.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 8 points 3 weeks ago

I'm honestly blown away by you asking, it's really respectful. You're welcome to read, only if women did ask for it to be more locked down, that might change. But liking and reading is fine ๐Ÿ™‚

[-] fracture@beehaw.org 5 points 3 weeks ago

of course, thank you for the kind answer ๐Ÿ˜ hope to see things take off here

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 6 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks mate... feel free to spread the word!

[-] dandelion 4 points 2 weeks ago

I wonder if an /r/AskWomen type community would work for a place for men who wish to participate?

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 4 points 2 weeks ago

It's definitely worth a go... if it doesn't work out it doesn't really matter. Do you know anyone that would set one up?

[-] Didros@beehaw.org 4 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Strawberry 19 points 3 weeks ago

Gender is literally the point

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