1239
Healthy work/life balance (startrek.website)
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] Mac@mander.xyz 153 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

How to sleep:

Step 1. No phone/TV/screens in the bedroom
Step 2. No screens 30 min before going to bed
Step 3. Go to bed at the same time each night
Step 4. Set yourself up to actually get enough sleep

Try this for 6 weeks and then if you seriously still cant sleep discuss with a doctor.

[-] Deuces@lemmy.world 93 points 11 months ago

You're missing the only one that actually works for me. Get up at roughly the same time every morning. I won't do it, but I should.

[-] Assman@sh.itjust.works 20 points 11 months ago

There are alarm apps that can be set up to require taking a picture of a specific thing to turn the alarm off. I used one in college, where I had to take a picture of my toilet. Ten years later I still wake up around 6am every day with no alarm.

[-] frokie@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

I think you were being used to train AI dude

[-] Assman@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

If so that ai has a vast depth of knowledge of what toilets look like

[-] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

But only on toilets.

[-] sock@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

my body forces me up around 6-7 for some reason and i wake up periodically throughout the night

its a blessing when i want to be productive early because of things i didnt do the night before

but its a curse when i just want some sleep for once.

sometimes i sleep the whole night no problems and feel NICE in the morning but im usually ludicrously baked (more than usual) when that happens.

[-] Bluefold@sh.itjust.works 22 points 11 months ago

It seems obvious but also: don't drink anything with caffeine before bed and don't eat a good couple of hours before sleep too.

I've had many friends who'd have a tea before going to sleep to 'calm' them without realising most have quite a lot still. Or guzzling down a soda too.

[-] dustyData@lemmy.world 21 points 11 months ago

My mom at 9:30pm having a cup of coffee, complaining that she can't sleep without her pills.

[-] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

You shouldn't have caffeine within 10 hours of sleep actually.

[-] tryptaminev@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

That seems a bit much. Then you shouldn't have a coffee after 10am. Most people are perfectly fine with having coffee in the afternoon.

[-] Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago
[-] CluckN@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago
[-] slumlordthanatos@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago
  1. Invest in a decent mattress.

They say that there's two things you don't skimp on: shoes, and your bed. You're gonna spend half of your life in one, and the other half laying on the other.

I bought a nice mattress a couple of years ago during a clearance sale, and I would've paid full price for it even now. Best investment I've ever made, and I've had zero sleep issues since then.

[-] Railing5132@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

Expand that to: "stuff that keeps you separated from the ground". Tires fall in that category. If you live where it snows and don't have good mass transit, get snow tires, and otherwise rotate, inflate and take care of your tires, and they'll take care of you.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 12 points 11 months ago

I don't even need to do the no screens part. I try to read on my tablet before bed and end up passing out 15 minutes into it. It takes me months to finish books.

[-] pthaloblue@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

Someone gave me the advice of actually not reading before bed, because your body will associate reading with sleep and make it more difficult at other times.

I don't exactly follow it, but reading is definitely effective at putting me to sleep

[-] LemmysMum@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

How to sleep:

  1. Go to bed when tired.
  2. Masturbate.
[-] franklin@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Moderate exercise for 20 minutes daily is also important for sleep regulation.

Although I will preface all this advice with the fact that if your natural circadian rhythm does not line up with the time you sleep your quality of sleep will always remain degraded.

[-] Ibaudia@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Consistent sleep is the #1 sleep-related correlate of academic performance, even more so than duration or quality! Sleeping at the same time every night is incredibly important.

[-] xintrik@lemm.ee 4 points 11 months ago

I sleep from 12-5:30 every night and feel so much better than a solid but inconsistent 8 hours.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 11 months ago

thing is, this is basically just saying "just sleep bro", i can't do any of these things.

if i go without screens i will go mad from boredom, if i go to bed the same time each night i will lie awake in bed until i go mad with boredom or get up because fuck that noise, and what does "set yourself up to get enough sleep" even mean? that's terribly vague.

i have yet to find anything that lets me get even vaguely consistently good sleep, i've tried all the things people say to do and it does NOTHING if it's even feasible in the first place.

[-] morrowind@lemmy.ml 22 points 11 months ago

Dude if you can't go without screens for 30 min you might have other problems.

But try reading books instead. Should be enough to stop you going mad (hopefully) without messing with your sleep.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 11 months ago

yeah no shit i've been waiting a year now to start getting diagnosed for autism/adhd

as for books: finding a book that doesn't bore me to bits is an arse, all the good stuff is digital.

[-] ChexMax@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

Boring you is the point... If it's an interesting book, it'll keep you awake. The point isn't to have a good time, it's to fall asleep.

[-] wildginger@lemmy.myserv.one 11 points 11 months ago

Screens give off blue light, which your body uses to measure "daytime." If you cant do screen free activities before bed, install a color corrector that shifts your devices outputs to red dominant light ~1-2 hours before you would like to sleep.

Break the habit of doing non sleep things in the afternoon in your bed. If the only thing you do in bed is sleep, it trains your brain to start internal sleep processes when you get into the sleep spot.

If you havent tried it before, try exercising 1-3 hours before you want to sleep. Can be simple like a walk or jog, or quick and short reps of jumping jacks, crunches, and stretches. Whatever works. The workout helps burn off energy and other hormones that keep you up, tuckers you out a bit, and very very lightly damages muscles which gives your body a "reason" to sleep. You do most of your healing asleep.

Sleepless rest is better than no rest at all. Lying awake for 2 hours and then sleeping for 4 does more for your body than just sleeping for 4 hours. Sleep is king, but even if you arent asleep, resting still helps your body recover. If you cannot sleep, try not to stress about not sleeping, because at least you are getting rest.

On your off days and free time, there is no shame in midday napping. Often, people try not to nap out of fear it will spoil their sleep. Sometimes, those naps help you catch up on sleep to get you back into a healthy sleep schedule. And, again, any rest is better than none.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 11 months ago

of course i've been using night filters on my screens, as i said i've tried EVERYTHING to get better sleep and nothing works.

as for naps, those are even more impossible to achieve. the like.. 5 times? i've managed to take a nap i've just ended up sleeping for several hours which only serves to further fuck up the sleep schedule.

[-] emptiestplace@lemmy.ml 12 points 11 months ago

You seem determined to fail.

[-] creditCrazy@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

What's happening with you when you get bored we tell people to stop using screens and coffee specifically because boredom is the goal you might need some medical attention if you can't sleep when bord

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 11 months ago

what does boredom have to do with going to sleep? you need to be tired, not bored. if i'm sufficiently tired no amount of entertainment will keep me awake and if i'm not tired them being bored is just going to make my thoughts spin in circles and make me restless.

[-] LetKCater2U@sh.itjust.works 4 points 11 months ago

I know you got downvoted, but I do have autism and adhd and I feel this in my bones. It’s the opposite of neurotypicals— we actually need the stimulation in order to get to sleep.

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 11 months ago

yeah, people just don't even realize they're being ableist unfortunately, as always neurodivergency is not taken seriously.

[-] NABDad@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

I was about 45 when I found this:

Sleep with Me Podcast

Bedtime stories that bore you to sleep. It doesn't work for everyone, but it changed my life.

[-] PsychedSy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

Get sick and put on a shitload of meds, half of which are literal poison.

[-] rckclmbr@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I can't drink coffee after like 2pm either. Sugar or other carbs before bed can also impact my sleep quality

[-] WashedOver@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Same here on the carbs. I notice when I eat after 6pm it's going to affect me with either a not great sleep and the need for bathroom break(s) through the night. Low intake of sugar throughout the day I sleep much better and more soundly.

When I did Atkins many years ago, it was some of the best sleep I ever had. It was like I was a teenager again that could sleep all day and night.

this post was submitted on 30 Oct 2023
1239 points (100.0% liked)

memes

10002 readers
2233 users here now

Community rules

1. Be civilNo trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour

2. No politicsThis is non-politics community. For political memes please go to !politicalmemes@lemmy.world

3. No recent repostsCheck for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month

4. No botsNo bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins

5. No Spam/AdsNo advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live.

Sister communities

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS