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[-] theresa 10 points 2 days ago

Very quiet and sleepy! I'm usually very active socially but this week was just fall fatigue completely overwhelming me. I didn't have work this week which meant I slept 9-10 hours a day and stayed in bed until noon most days. Oh well. Fallow season, I guess. The good thing is that I don't feel that bad about it! I usually do. I installed tinder on Saturday and had two first dates this week, one terrible, one great (see my post). Other than that, life is very quiet right now. I'm waiting to hear back on a job, I'm waiting to hear back from my insurance, I'm waiting for my degree to end. I'm trying to be appreciative and thankful for this time. I have a roof over my head, I have enough money to live, I see people every day.

Oh, and I bought a cute new lamp that's made my room even more comfy :3

[-] dandelion 4 points 2 days ago

probably good you're getting sleep - seems like a lot of people are getting sick with the weather changes

glad you don't feel bad about sleeping, I can relate to that

hope you get the job and everything goes well!

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