[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

I can definitely increase my caloric intake a little bit. To be honest, I usually hit 1700+ since I'm not super strict. But I think I just need to be a lot more focused I suppose. It's so hard to lose weight at this point.

[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

Thanks for your help! I ended up picking monotherapy and going on the matrix subreddit to double check my plans for DIY HRT.

[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

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[-] captainjaneway 3 points 4 months ago

That's fair. I can try giving them a call, but most of my experience on UHC phone trees end up frustrating and unhelpful.

[-] captainjaneway 3 points 4 months ago

Sorry that I'm late to the party. My egg cracked last month. 31 MTF and I'm also figuring things out. My wife is also cis and she's also struggling to support me. I've been all over the emotional map these days. I have a daughter, but she's only a baby so maybe that's a bit easier to deal with. I'm not really through this journey so I'm not much help in terms of advice, but you're definitely not alone.

[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

There should only be 12 jurors (maybe you've already done this). People should have to wait in a queue to join a jury of 12. Once you have 12 you all vote within 30 seconds. Everyone should see the results. If a jury is a hung jury, it ends up back in the queue. Majority wins. Users can only appeal once.

Basically it should mimic jury duty a little more closely. Right now, it just feels like you're doing a survey.

[-] captainjaneway 3 points 4 months ago

<3 Thanks. It's helping that I can start doing some things to help alleviate the dysphoria :) I have things to look forward to for now.

[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

I want Animal Crossing but I don't have a switch 😭

I've definitely given Sims and Terraria a few plays. The Sims is fun for designing and house design which I love.

In general, I struggle with the 2D aesthetic since it's usually 8/16bit and I don't "see" myself as the character usually. But I should give it another try.

[-] captainjaneway 2 points 4 months ago

I do love Satisfactory for that reason. I love the femme/androgynous character design. I mostly spend time trying to build a perfectly efficient forge but I run out of patience after I get the coal stage - which I realize is super early in the game lol

[-] captainjaneway 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah I'm definitely struggling internally but I've been ok. I really want more kids and IVF is expensive. We are considering freezing my sperm, but it's expensive and I'm not exactly wealthy. I'm not poor, but I am a little strapped these days. I don't know what to do about it but I feel a bit stuck. My life plan is to have 2-3 kids. My wife wants more kids as well. She's nervous about the costs of IVF and she's afraid IVF might not work which would start to get even more costly. It's all very new to both of us so it's hard to just suddenly turn around and change our life plans drastically. I only came out to her a month ago or so.

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