[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago

The property is (was) specific to convex polyhedrons.

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 months ago

I'm in Australia, so it's different here, but for me, I just want to get louder and prouder.

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 months ago

You may be misremembering. That episode ended up with the trans woman being assaulted, and had a whole run of situational jokes about how she liked typically manly pursuits.

It got so many complaints the episode was pulled, which was the trigger that let him go mask off with his transphobia.

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 4 months ago

My surgeon did follicle removal during the surgery from the underside of the skin. The goal of hair removal wasn't perfection, but just to reduce the amount of time he had to spend on hair removal during surgery.

That being said, I understand not all surgeons do the same...

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 months ago

That isn't what I'm asking for, I'm asking for the censure to be updated with evidence from the instance itself.

I haven't updated anything in fediseer for probably close to a year. And if you look at the size of our censure list, I'm unlikely to be adding verifiable evidence for all of those sites, if for no other reason than I don't want to visit most of them.

Yet whatever my reasons, the fact I've posted it without evidence is something you should use when deciding how much trust to place in my censure, though I think the real trigger should be the number of censures.

That should be what gets you to look at the instance and decide for yourself whether you agree with the censures. If you can't find evidence to confirm them, or if you don't agree with them, you don't take any action.

I don't trust you, because you have said the same thing about me

And to be honest, I don't even know what you said. The posts were made 2 years ago, are now permanently deleted, and were removed by a moderator on an instance that doesn't exist anymore. I'll remove the ban

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

t would be fine if you said "He was kind of pushy about trying to make his point and although he clearly wasn't coming from any hostile place,

He was repeatedly and deliberately gatekeeping people's identities. I don't know how to make that any clearer to you.

Whether or not any given person is a troll, it's not an excuse to make people's identities a reward for good behaviour.

If you decide that taking away peoples identities "because they're a troll" is ok, then you're telling the gender diverse people around you that you don't see them for who they are, and that you're just pretending to accept them as long as they behave in ways you find appropriate. Normalising the idea that we can decide other peoples identities is literally the goal of trolls, and so when you see a troll and decide that's a good reason to invalidate people, you're feeding the troll, and hurting the gender diverse folk around you.

I will respect a trolls identity, even as I ban them, because opening the door to deciding which identities are valid does nothing but hurt vulnerable people.

This was all explained to PJ, several times, and he doubled down. And tripled down. Whilst explicitly denying people's identities.

He was coming from a hostile place, and refused to leave it, even when it was explained to him.

I mean... aren't you positioning yourself as the arbiter of other folks' validity and identity?

The fact that you're equating the creation of protective rules in explicitly safe spaces as being morally identical to gatekeeping other folks identities makes me doubt your intentions. If you genuinely believe they're the same thing, you've got a lot of work to do. And if you don't believe they're the same thing, but are comparing them to win an internet discussion, then you're the one stirring up drama...

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

I had a very different experience unfortunately. It turns out that I had quite a bit of internal scarring, so dilation was never pleasant for me. It wasn't hard to do, but it didn't feel comfortable. Sort of like stretching a piercing. It was tense and uncomfortable.

Still, despite that, it was a life changing experience, and I'd do it again every time if I had the choice!

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

If this actually stands a chance of taking off, I'll honestly take what I can get to normalise HDR images

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

Thanks for the heads up. Restarted the UI and it's working again now!

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 6 months ago

Women are around twice as likely to attempt suicide than men in western countries, but men are more likely to succeed by a large margin. It's scary

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 14 points 6 months ago

5 years ago, you contacted someone you met when you were both adults, which was presumably years before that? And her parents were mad at you? I'm not sure how her parents opinion on this matters to anyone but her parents?

[-] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 6 months ago

Look at the account I'm replying to you from :)

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