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[-] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 95 points 2 days ago

Once I was volunteering at Pride London, making sure people don't jump the barriers to the parade, and someone begins to approach me.
An absolutely gorgeous woman, I mean it was as if the greatest of all models just happened to walk towards me. She comes in close, my heart racing, places her mouth to my ear and says, "I was born with a dick." AND THEN JUST WALKS OFF!!!

Never saw her again. I was shocked, speechless, didn't even have time to grab her number.

This happened 19 years ago and I still think about it to this day... She could've been my Lola :(

[-] hildegarde 77 points 2 days ago

omw to type removed by moderator 287 times

[-] birdwing 43 points 2 days ago

Based and queerpilled

[-] cori 45 points 2 days ago

wth is happening in this comment section lol

[-] verdare@piefed.blahaj.zone 40 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It’s pretty amusing strolling into the comments section fashionably late and seeing a bunch of people standing around a chalk outline of where the body used to be.

[-] Jessvj93@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

This, but coming back to the crater where a Discord server used to be after some Drama hits.

[-] pewgar_seemsimandroid 2 points 1 day ago

is this a virtual democracy reference?

Somebody crashing out at the existence of trans people again? lmao why are they always so pathetic?

[-] antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

He's some guy with a long-term drug addiction and mental illnesses that he doesn't want to take meds for (he made a thread about it like yesterday). The crashout doesn't seem to be caused by transphobia, as far as I see, he has posted weird stuff all over the place for random reasons.

Oh wow that's crazy. I was just guessing based on context, that's way weirder than I could have thought of.

[-] antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago

Oh wow that’s crazy.

Sadly, literally :(

Truly one of those "Please don't Post when you're going through stuff," moments it seems. Hope they get help... dang.

[-] Sammy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 days ago

That Kenny kid... He ain't right 👇

[-] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

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[-] Sanguine@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 days ago

What a wild ride in these comments

[-] regdog@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I am glad I got off the ride

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