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[-] MajorHavoc@lemmy.world 125 points 2 years ago

Yeah, this can be a generational cultural difference.

I mourned the death of my grandfather three separate times when my mother texted me "please call". Each time when I called back I learned something different:

  1. We had to change our lunch plans.
  2. There was an alarming local news article about driving conditions.
  3. My grandfather had died.
[-] Steeve@lemmy.ca 39 points 2 years ago

If these were all in the same day that's quite the series of events

[-] Urbanfox@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago

The last time my dad called was 16 years ago when my mum was bleeding out after surgery and we didn't know if she was going to make it.

Other than that, it's WhatsApp messages, and they're usually about the dog.

I would 100% think someone had died if my dad called.

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[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@sh.itjust.works 82 points 2 years ago

This is something that idk if I'll ever get used to about lemmy

It's a meme. It's a joke. It's deliberately blown out of proportion.

Y'all need to calm tf down.

[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 53 points 2 years ago

so.. instead of discussing this... we should what? Post lol in all our coments?

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[-] hazeebabee@slrpnk.net 25 points 2 years ago

Lol i kinda enjoy the weirdly serious discussions about shitposts. Its both absurd and oddly insightful at times.

Lemmys will follow any topic over the edge of a cliff :P

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[-] Prethoryn@lemmy.world 75 points 2 years ago
[-] orangeboats@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

This is probably family dependent. My family is similar to OP's, we usually text if we want to have casual conversations. Voice calls are limited to serious topics only... unless I text them "hey, let's have a call" or something like that first.

[-] snor10@lemm.ee 72 points 2 years ago

???

Why would she react like that to a phonecall?

[-] Royal_Bitch_Pudding@lemmy.world 101 points 2 years ago

Young people don't call unless it's serious business.

Why she reacted like that while also knowing her dad still calls people? No idea

[-] WaltJRimmer@lemmy.world 38 points 2 years ago

Not just young people. I've seen this kind of behavior in surprisingly old people such as Gen X and even Baby Boomers, but I've seen it in a LOT of millennials, the youngest of whom are now in their early thirties and the oldest are in their forties.

[-] Psyduck_world@lemmy.world 36 points 2 years ago

Not just young people. I am 48, and if I get a call from my mom I would’ve thought something happened to my dad.

[-] IonAddis@lemmy.world 29 points 2 years ago

Yep. Basically any generation that grew up with texting and chat kinda leans this way... so millennials and younger. But also some gen x.

Phone calls are for things that can't wait and need the other person to drop what they're doing, and things urgent like that tend to be medical or work stuff. Or things time sensitive in another way.

Demanding the other person stop what they're doing to attend to you immediately is considered kinda rude for minor topics when such an easy and less pushy alternative is available.

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[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 68 points 2 years ago

Because phonecalls are reserved for when you immediately with no delay need someone.

Asking about a show is not one of those cases.

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[-] EfreetSK@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

In our family it looks exactly like this, that's why I found it very funny :)

We usually just chat (or videochat) and when f.e. dad randomly calls me then it's some serious business. And for that brief moment my mind jumps to most catastrophic scenarios why he could be calling me. And I think it goes both ways because when I call dad the first question usually is "Hi, did something happen?"

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[-] obinice@lemmy.world 67 points 2 years ago

Nobody is actually this terrified of a phone call right? Besides the usual social anxiety anyway.

My father's phone doesn't even have internet, hell, they barely built a computer that could beat Nazi encryption back when he was born, he didn't even see his first computer in person until he was what, 50?

He struggles at testing, no way could he navigate a modern phone haha. So, phone calls are normal for us :-)

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[-] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 65 points 2 years ago

Are zoomers really like this?

[-] SkyeStarfall 57 points 2 years ago

Sorry if I don't think minor topics are worthy of the immediate attention needed for a phone call?

Phone calls are reserved for emergencies. Otherwise you're just demanding the instant attention of someone for nothing.

[-] Ataraxia@lemm.ee 31 points 2 years ago

I'm 40. I don't even answer the phone if it rings. If it's important they can leave a message.

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[-] mercury 17 points 2 years ago

I don't think all zoomers are, but a LOT of the people I know are TERRIFIED of phone calls. I was like that too, before I started applying for jobs and had to make like 3 calls a week.

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[-] Shave_MyBeever@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

Gen-x'r here who doesn't even have the phone app on my home screen.

Fuck phone calls!

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[-] AnanasMarko@lemmy.world 36 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

To me it feels texting takes longer. Call someone up and it's done in less than a minute. Why write some long ass message?

Most folks don't even bother writing back... Message seen? Best forget about it.

Edit: typo

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[-] adespoton@lemmy.ca 27 points 2 years ago

This comic strip is flawed… nobody who would react that way to a phone call would have their phone out of silent mode.

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[-] fne8w2ah@lemmy.world 27 points 2 years ago

So many people (myself included) text as the default method of phone communication.

[-] YashaB@lemmy.world 18 points 2 years ago

A phonecall is so much nicer, quicker and leaves a lot less room for misunderstanding.

I don't like shot-messages-communication, especially not when it's a delicate topic.

And yes, I'm old, and an extrovert.

[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 years ago

Disagree, I despise phone calls. Something about the data compression makes everything sound distorted and blown out, it's like nails on a chalkboard to me. It's fine for short, urgent messages, but until fidelity gets a lot better there's nothing I want to do less than talk over the phone for extended periods of time.

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[-] WolfyGamer29@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

As someone with an autism induced fear of phone calls, this comment section is really mean ;-;

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