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[-] SkyeStarfall 24 points 2 years ago

So why call in the first place? And how will I ever know what the call was about? Unless you text, of course, so why not just do that in the first place?

You may not intent for it to be a demand, but unless you have your phone on silent, it will keep ringing and making noise until you do something about it. It demands an action, and tries to get your attention as much as possible.

Which is why it's designated to emergencies. This makes calling more useful as well, because now you know calls are more important, and can actually treat them with more urgency. Otherwise you're just gonna end up ignoring what may be an actual emergency, because you treat every phone call the same.

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 21 points 2 years ago

Gen X here, only had a smartphone 5 years as before I was avoiding it. Typing is painful. Just answer the phone and we'll get that query sorted in less time than I would take to type the initial question. Don't be a big baby about it.

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 years ago

Did you know, as with most things, typing on a phone is a skill that improves with use. Get with the times, don't be a big baby about it

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 8 points 2 years ago

Did you know that brain plasticity decreases with age? It means learning new skills becomes progressively harder and harder and harder.

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 years ago

You specifically chose not to use smart phones until 5 years ago by your own admission, and are actively refusing to attempt to learn the new skill, get out of here with your brain plasticity argument. You're doing this to yourself and ridiculing others

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Like avoiding mobile phones for as long as I could was doing something to myself rather than doing something for myself. Also, I ain't getting out of here with my brain plasticity argument because if I am going to be mindful of PTSD and autism and all the other conditions that I am going to be mindful of then people can be mindful of my ageing brain and more recently the very real brain fog that can be the result of Covid (my memory has gone to shit since I had it.)

As I have said elsewhere if there's a genuinely good reason for not phoning then I won't but the one condition I'm not respecting is a chronic fear that one day they might do something that is convenient to someone else.

[-] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago

Man that's a lot of excuses to not type.

Btw, are you viewing Lemmy on mobile? I have a sneaking suspicion you've typed these entire comments on a phone.

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago
[-] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Why is humanity like this? Can we just agree that different people like to do different things?

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

Fair, I got a little triggered lol

[-] Ataraxia@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago

I hate typing too but having to answer a phone call triggers PTSD. NOPE.

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 12 points 2 years ago

If it's genuine PTSD then you have my every sympathy and I hope that you can get some peace from it.

Nobody I'm calling have anything worse than lazyitis.

[-] PersnickityPenguin@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

That's a microaggression!

You triggered half of Lemmy users.

[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 4 points 2 years ago

lol exactly why my phone is on silent

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