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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by 2ugly2live@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

They put out this shelf and I want it, but I don't want to seem strange? It would make a nice plant shelf, but it's not something I can scurry away with, so people would see me while I carried it. Is that a bad thing to do?

EDIT: Never mind. Someone beat me to it. 😭

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[-] toofpic@lemmy.world 104 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I do that all the time. A thing is a thing, and it can be your thing now. I only try to ask myself two things:

  1. Do I really need that?
  2. Is it in a good condition? I have a lot of used stuff at home, so if I took something half-broken, it would look like a dumpster already.

Sidenote: I live in Denmark, where people overconsume, and then get rid of stuff which is still in good condition.

[-] cabbage@piefed.social 9 points 9 months ago

I recently moved to Denmark. A lot of my stuff is from the trash, including a huge old school full wood dinner table, TV, and my stereo system (works as a charm, sounds amazing). I also picked up an amazing old cast iron frying pan.

I make sure to check the big thrash (storeskrald) regularly. Things pop up there that I would never have afforded myself if I had to pay for it.

I think Denmark/Copenhagen is a bit crazy in this regard though.

[-] toofpic@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

About the craziness - yes absolutely. In most other places, you use a thing until nobody would use it, or sell it online. And here, people are just: "nah.."
Well, better for us. I also have a shitton of good stuff, including half of my clothes (I'm lucky to have size M, so a lot of stuff fits). Second hand stores look weird now: "Whoa, you need to pay for that?"

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 56 points 9 months ago

If I put something by the road, instead of in the bin, it is because I want someone to take it. Yes take it. If you are unsure, go up and let them know you want it,I can say with absolute confidence, they will say to take it.

[-] HakFoo@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 9 months ago

I put out one of those big plastic storage units with like 30 little drawers recently, figuring although 2 were missing, someone could still use it. I stood it next to the dustbin, on trash day where it would be optimally visible for anyone who wanted to scrounge it.

The bloody HOA took a picture and sent a nastygram.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I have no HOA, I need no HOA,and want no HOA. I do not care if my neighbor puts his car on blocks. City code enforcement will eventually move on any outrageous lack of upkeep.

[-] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago

Brb, dropping the kids off

[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Once I was moving house and we set an old couch out on the sidewalk. It was very large and heavy so we were concerned that no one would take it. But we lived in a poorer area where most everything got taken, and sure enough it did disappear.

A few more days went by and we continued packing to move. The big day finally arrived and I went out that morning to greet the mover truck and found that whoever took the couch had come back and returned it during the night! I was like “you can’t do that!” LOL

[-] circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org 37 points 9 months ago

"One man's trash is another man's treasure" exists exactly for this, I think.

[-] SoGrumpy@lemmy.ml 9 points 9 months ago

Except in Germany. Anything put outside for refuse collection is considered property of the town or city.

Taking something from the pile is punished as theft, and if caught, you will be fined.

[-] toofpic@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

I was thinking that I could as well live in Germany, until this moment. Seriously.

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 23 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

this is quite literally how I get all of my furniture, extending the lifespan of consumer goods is a good thing.

now you know for next time!

[-] nutsack@lemmy.world 18 points 9 months ago

its very normal to to do this in southeast asia

[-] DMBFFF@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

If you're sure they don't want it, take it.

If you aren't sure, ask, if if they are there, and if they aren't there, take it and ask later if they wanted it (return it if they did).

There's no shame in re-using good or even repairable stuff: indeed, be proud.

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

It wouldn't be weird, but talk to your neighbour first.

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 16 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

It's only weird if the person who threw it away makes it weird by getting upset and calling the cops, which is their legal right for some damn reason.

I don't mind people picking through my trash; just as long as they don't make a mess throwing garbage out of the can and leaving it all over the place.

[-] Cagi@lemmy.ca 15 points 9 months ago

There's a well established tradition of hand-me-down furniture being put out in alleys in East Vancouver. When you move and have no furniture, you can just tour the alleys and come away with a coffee table and a sofa or a couple of chairs. Did it a few times. You gotta know how to check for bed bugs though.

[-] lettruthout@lemmy.world 12 points 9 months ago

In my neighborhood taking stuff left at the curb is the norm. Sometimes we‘ll leave a sign to clarify something is free. There have been times when I’ve taken something, used it for a while, then put it back out in the curb for someone else to enjoy.

[-] Pandantic@midwest.social 3 points 9 months ago

I’ve put at least 10 pieces of furniture out on the curb in the last 4 months and they’ve all been taken. It makes me glad that someone can use it.

[-] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 12 points 9 months ago

The free pile is always available.

[-] mike_wooskey@lemmy.thewooskeys.com 8 points 9 months ago

It may or.may not be weird depending on the situstion, your neighbor's personality, your relationship with your neighbor, etc.

But weird != wrong.

[-] N0body@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 9 months ago

Why is that weird? I put things out hoping someone will grab it, so i don’t have to risk the city not taking it.

[-] DaGeek247@fedia.io 7 points 9 months ago

Lmao, not at all. Check it for bugs, but trash is fair game. I live in a college town and there is good furniture out every semester if you like the look of it.

It's technically illegal, but if cops aren't pursuing stolen cars, they damn sure won't care about trash bring stolen.

And, based on your edit, I'm not the only person who agrees.

[-] brygphilomena@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

People around me put things out early with the expectation and hope someone will come and take it.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 6 points 9 months ago

Just go and ask

[-] Kalkaline@leminal.space 6 points 9 months ago

I got a decent table saw this way. I don't mind picking up something that someone else doesn't want and I might one day use.

[-] badlotus@lemm.ee 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

My neighborhood has bulk trash pickup monthly. Most of the bulk trash gets put out the week prior to pickup day. The majority of this trash doesn’t make it to the dump! People with trailers come by and pick up anything remotely usable. I like to think they are reusing/upcycling this stuff but I really don’t know. I see this as a huge win because it keeps stuff out of the dump but it does feel very dystopian to see a junk economy like something from Fallout.

I’m in the USA btw. Others have pointed out that some countries have different laws regarding ownership of trash. Don’t get in trouble with law enforcement, get to know your neighbors better! It’s not trash if they give it to you.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 5 points 9 months ago

If I have a bulky item to discard, I call 311 or use the My311 app to arrange city pickup, and put it by the curb the day before. It's my hope that none will still be there by the time the truck arrives. Because that means it's being used by someone, which is better for everyone. If it's a neighbor, that's cool too.

[-] psion1369@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Where I live, there are people who make a decent amount of cash by grabbing whatever metal they can find out of the trash and taking it to scrapyards. There are a couple of trucks that swing past my house a few times the night before and the day of trash pickup. And myself, I grabbed two bikes by just knocking on the door and asking.

[-] stringere@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

We have scheduled bulk item pickups in pur city. The night before you will usually see at least a couple trucks driving around tossing any scrap metal they find in the bed.

Got a scooter, bike, and eliptical from a neighbor the same way.

[-] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 3 points 9 months ago

Assuming you aren't a hoarder, and you properly clean it... well, yes, its weird by the modern standards of our consumeristic society, but in actuality no, this is recycling.

Landfills are full of things that, had they not been placed in a landfill, could likely have been repurposed and reused by someone, somewhere.

[-] OpenStars@discuss.online 3 points 9 months ago

That's how I got almost all of my furniture:-). Granted, I didn't do it in a "next door neighbor" setting, but rather apartment where it's more acceptable. Oh well now you know:-).

[-] CrimeDad@lemmy.crimedad.work 3 points 9 months ago

We have a big trash day once a month in my town and I always keep an eye out for something good. Recently I picked up a nice, sturdy, homemade cart with big casters in good condition.

[-] MTK@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

One persons trash is another persons treasure.

There is a reason why this is a universal saying.

If it's up for grabs, grab it

[-] tonyn@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago

I actually love it when people take things I put by the curb. I would much rather someone get use out of it than have it end up in a landfill.

[-] sgt_hulka@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 9 months ago

I put trash on the curb knowing the kids next door will pick it up and use it. They love to score new stuff, and I love seeing an old bicycle or chair getting new love.

[-] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

You already know the saying about one man's trash. Just use that if they ask about it.

[-] unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz 3 points 9 months ago

Homie. I wish you better luck in future recycling adventures. I think you might meet cool like minded people along the way.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Next time just go take it. No one will care. They might even help you lol

[-] Steve@startrek.website 3 points 9 months ago

I did it this morning

[-] jeffhykin@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago
[-] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 9 months ago

You can politely ask them about it. Maybe there's a good reason they threw it out. Maybe it's infested, or broken.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

I’m pretty sure that’s ok. Now if it was someone’s underwear or hair…that is another story.

[-] Artemis@lemmy.ml 2 points 9 months ago

I happily took an awesome nursing chair from my next door neighbour's curbside...the only awkward part will be putting it to the curb myself one day in the very near future 😂

[-] Hikermick@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Something is wrong with anyone that would look down on you for it

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