Unexpected pros/cons of transitioning (self.trans)

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Socially, medically, or otherwise.

Unexpected T pro: my cat loves aggressively head butting my facial scruff after a day or two of not shaving

Unexpected T con: my cat’s hair gets caught up in my facial hair any time I do this and it’s annoying to get it all out

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[-] onevia 34 points 7 months ago

Unexpected E pro: Crying now actually releases my overwhelm and sadness. No more does it make me feel worse. It's truly releasing.

Unexpected E con: I have to cry a lot. And I mean a lot.

[-] BeanGoblin 21 points 7 months ago

Seriously, I cry on like a daily basis now. It's almost annoying, lmao.

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