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this post was submitted on 11 Aug 2026
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the posts duplicate when you send it, it looks like they dont go out, and you press the send button again. usually after the first press, the post is already sent.
No, something's wrong...
This never happened before and now normal actions like commenting and upvoting get stuck, I have to retry them multiple times.
What's happening? Should I message the mod team? Did I mess up my Lemmy account. Please help ๐ญ
you may want to post on the Blahaj Meta community about this.
Also these posts don't load?? I have to click retry many times? Am I banned?
And I have like 4 deleted duplicate posts on my profile now, because Lemmy doesn't allow you to delete posts...just perfect
I'm having that problem rn too. I sometimes have to refresh posts bc they won't load. Seems unrelated to ur account.
The instance is probably having issues rn.
It seems like it. I got a message from Ada, the whole instance is having trouble.
My anxiety got the better of me ๐
It seems like the issue that we're sharing with comment threads not loading the first time is likely a known issue that hasn't been fixed yet? I'm going to ping Ada abt this in the issue thread to see if she's aware there's still a problem.
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/46024498
Damn it. I was having so much fun on Lemmy ๐ญ
Now I'm almost considering making a new account on a different instance. I broke something
Blahaj is a small instance administered by a single Australian trans woman as an act of community service. Things go wrong with the instance sometimes, and it takes time sometimes for a fix because there's not a big team on call monitoring.
When blahaj doesn't load, or is slow, its normal it happens from time to time. It's not you, though I do have that worry too sometimes.