[-] Filetternavn 7 points 4 hours ago

Yes, it is possible, as per your linked resource, however it would be up to the server maintainers if they feel it is reasonable to do. Note that federation is not supported over Tor, so federation would go over the clearnet via the original instance. This is not an issue, because the only thing that would be useful for Tor is hiding the client connection IP address, which would be handled under this configuration.

[-] Filetternavn 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I read Suicide Notes. It's an extremely heavy book with about every trigger possible buried in it, just as a warning. I'm not going to say what exactly it covers from the LGBTQ+ spectrum, but it really let me see into a different world. Someone else's world. It's a fiction, but it's not a fantasy; it feels like living someone's real life. It's incredibly moving, but it is very depressing (the name is a good indicator), so keep that in mind before deciding to read it. I learned a lot from it, including things about myself. I'd highly recommend it if you're willing to get really sad about it; I feel it was very cathartic for me, and it's a great portal into the queer experience.

Also, there is a sequel called Every Star That Falls. I'll be reading that at some point, but likely not especially soon.

[-] Filetternavn 2 points 14 hours ago

Just finished Kiss Her Once for Me. I absolutely loved it and would highly recommend it, but only if you're willing to read a lesbian romance. It's very queer in general, it has nonbinary characters, trans characters, bis, lesbians, polygamy and monogomy, and demisexuality. It's a fiction, and it is certainly a romance novel, but if that might be interesting to you, it's a wonderful queer book! It also deals with some of the issues many of us queer folk have with family and acceptance, but those aren't the central points of the story; it's part of being queer, and I think that those aspects add a lot to the story by being only small parts (kind of like acknowledging our problems in a healthy way without focusing on them too much that it becomes depressing). I'll update you with more as I get to them!

[-] Filetternavn 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If you're looking specifically for trans activism, The Transexual Menace came back and already organized a protest at Stonewall last week or so, and they have plans to organize a lot more across the US. They're US based, so I suppose it may not be helpful if you aren't in the US

[-] Filetternavn 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I also just got back into reading, and was curious about the same thing!

I HIGHLY recommend Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe. That's the book that sparked my trans realization, and it's incredibly well illustrated with a wonderful story of eir life (it's a memoir); I've read it 3 times. I actually just bought 5 other queer books, but I have yet to read them:

  • Kiss Her Once for Me by Alison Cochrun
  • How We Fight For Our Lives by Saeed Jones
  • Suicide Notes by Michael Thomas Ford
  • Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg
  • The Stonewall Reader by New York Public Library

I can update this comment when I finish reading a book to give my thoughts on them if you'd like!

[-] Filetternavn 3 points 3 days ago

Well, the hardening, just as with Tor Browser, does break some sites. It comes preinstalled with NoScript and uBlock Origin, the former of which you will either have to learn how to use or disable, depending on your wants for privacy. While it doesn't include some of the anti-features of base Firefox, it is still based on Firefox so it will have similar performance for similar tasks.

Personally, I use Mullvad for most of my browsing, and Firefox for a few specific things (like staying logged into site long-term and such).

It's available as a flatpak via Flathub for an easy installation, otherwise you can check https://mullvad.net/en/browser/linux for distro-specific installation instructions.

[-] Filetternavn 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I use Mullvad Browser. It's maintained in coordination with the Tor Project, and is essentially the Tor Browser with Tor itself stripped out. Same browser fingerprinting protections, however, among other things.

EDIT: I'd like to clarify that this has nothing to do with my trust in Mozilla or Firefox itself, especially not concerning recent panics about benign changes. I still use Firefox on the side, it just does not have fingerprinting protections by default, and hardening it manually leads to minor differences between user configurations (even with Arkenfox if that's still around) that is solved by Mullvad Browser for me. I use Mullvad Browser for my main browsing, and Firefox for specific exceptions. Firefox itself is fine, and no, Mozilla is not burning it to the ground.

[-] Filetternavn 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah, I personally went the DIY route. I started my transition in August of last year, and started HRT January of this year. I had predicted things were going to get bad pretty fast, so I have avoided being 'official' for the time being until I can figure out what to do. I, personally, would like procedures in the future, and the unfortunate reality of that is the fact that my insurance requires a letter from someone actively prescribing and monitoring the progress of HRT for 12 or more months consecutively to cover any of those services, so if I'm gonna have to make a choice in the future of if I'm going to set myself back for years to avoid the potential consequences of being 'official', or go to a provider for a prescription so that I can get the necessary letters. Right now, I'm just biding my time while I see how things go (though that won't stop me from activism).

[-] Filetternavn 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

If you're in the US, here's a big list of resources that could help you figure out where you want to go! There are multiple provider finders for gender-affirming care, therapy, financial assistance, and all sorts of stuff. I do recommend seeing a therapist (like a LICSW)! Not only is therapy wonderfully helpful in finding out who you are, but if you're looking for some types of care further down the line, insurance may require a letter from a qualified professional (sometimes even 2 different ones depending on what you want; I have a therapist and a psychiatrist so I go to them). Getting things documented and tracked would be to your benefit if you ever need a letter.

I wish you luck on your journey!

EDIT: Gender Justice League is based in Washington State, so there will be many resources specific to Washington, but there are also national resources listed that you can search through!

[-] Filetternavn 34 points 4 days ago

This was already posted here, and the original post has a paywall bypass link

[-] Filetternavn 40 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

virt-manager is my go-to. There's also Gnome Boxes, but I've never used it myself. virt-manager is the best I've tried, personally. Both use KVM, so they should be much more resource efficient

[-] Filetternavn 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think this conclusion is incredibly naïve given the dramatically increased bioavailability and significantly decreased side effects that sublingual administration has over oral estradiol. Flooding the liver through oral administration results in strain that is significantly reduced by sublingual administration, and the increased bioavailability alone accounted for comparable testosterone suppression without an anti-androgen at the same daily dosage. So on top of the decrease in liver damage by moving away from oral administration, this approach also does not account for the side effects of the anti-androgen. The miniscule sample size doesn't do any favors to this study, either. The supposed "alarming excursions of serum estradiol" is solved simply by adjusting the dosage and spreading it out into more frequent doses throughout the day. It seems they did split the dosage into 4 doses for sublingual administration, but they are providing the same daily dosage despite significantly increased bioavailability of the sublingual route (which also accounts for the testosterone suppression). Additionally, a dosage of only 2mg of estradiol daily via oral administration is quite low for trans women.

I have a lot of problems with the conclusions of this study.

I'd like to link to a much more complete analysis of the sublingual route of administration for estradiol that analyzes a wide variety of sources (including the one linked in this post) for those interested in a more accurate picture of the benefits and shortcomings of sublingual administration:

An Exploration of Sublingual Estradiol as an Alternative to Oral Estradiol in Transfeminine People

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