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More men should wear skirts and dresses. With right style even masculine men can look good with such clothes.
And long hair. Long hair is so beautiful and sexy that everyone should grow long hair despite of the gender.
I agree. Gender stereotypes suck. I feel like lots of men would love skirts if it was socially acceptable for them to wear them in more places. They're way better than shorts when it's hot.
Long hair is nice on young people. I was nice with long hair, I looked like Jean Michel Jarre on his Equinoxe album.
Make that hair gray.
Ugh.
As a bald man... Fuck your long hair encouragement! (Out of spite, and envy)
I run in circles where dudes semiregularly wear kilts.
I've sat in a circle with other dudes where they were comparing brands of utility kilts. Lol
There are folks out there that wear them. It's just not super fashionable in a lot of circles. Unfortunately.
I also have a toddler. So yes.. I run in circles quite often.
Lmfao
i remember reading that in the medieval age, most noble men had long hair because it was a sign of wealth and such
Fortunately for you, Scotland exists
FREEEDOOOOM!!
... for gender expression
Is also where everything goes down the drain and social pressure starts to crush people.
My younger me would’ve stated that everyone should wear hoodies, jeans and short hair.
I get what are you trying to tell, but when i talked about everyone getting long hair, i mostly meant men, and how they should be more open to it. Its fine if people want to have long or short hair, but for men specifically, long hair is considered gay in my country, which is unfortunally homophobic, and ive heard stories about boys being bullied and even beaten in schools just because of long hair.
So it turns out kind of opposite. Men are socially pressured into having short hair, and generally "not being gay" in homophobic way.
Yeah, it’s really just about that exact wording and not accidentally ending up with dictating the opposite of what is the current issue. Every style should be allowed. I’m not very hopeful we actually could get there some day.
My nephew gets excluded from the boys toilet by schoolmates because he has long hair 🤦
There's a man's skirt sitting in my Etsy favorites for so long. It's scary to pioneer something like this but it's so tempting at the same time.
Do it do it do it do it do it do it
I think you should do it
Buy it and start small! Debut it for friends indoors, get the validation and confidence and slowly start working your way up to wearing it outdoors :3
friends? 😿
100%, long hair for all!
Sad bad genetics noises :(
I've thought about it sometimes, But when my hair starts to reach about 4-5 cm in length, i start getting itchy, sweaty, hair gets fatty and i start shedding scales like crazy...
Refrain from washing your hair everyday
i think that's a phase. my hair got fatty when it was 4-5 cm long as well, but that stopped somehow when it got even longer. i guess the body just takes some time to adapt or sth.
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Don't be so rude. Lots of people ignore lots of things! We're all learning.
Do some research about your hair and scalp type and what products they need in order to thrive. For me that was the key to better quality hair and no more irritated scalp :))
*I don't know why the downvote? This is long hair on some people. My hair grows up, not down. Less perm, but I joke I'd look like Bob Ross. More similar is Seth Rogan, Jeff Goldblum (pre-jurassic era)... or like a hobbit.