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I'm trans femme, considering hrt. By a long way, most reports of what it's like say: within the first week I felt different emotionally /in my mind. Feelings seem to vary from calmer, to the author feeling more herself. This initial euphoric feeling is reported to fade over time, usually.

I just wondered how it would feel for a cis man if he were to take it for a week. I understand that if you stopped after a week there would not be any long term effects at all. So I'd be surprised if it hadn't been tried!

Why do I wonder this? I suppose I'm wondering if it feels good for everyone. I'm scared of taking it. But I'm scared of living with the constant doubt. Most gender affirming actions I've taken have been very helpful, really made me feel more myself. But if hrt makes everyone feel better, at least at first, I wouldn't be able to know whether it would be right for me by trialling it (and thereby judge whether it might be worth all the downsides that come along with the positives or not).

Any experience shared is v welcome!


Edit: Thanks everyone for interesting info! I wanted to add here at top that in no way am I saying a person's reaction to hormones has any effect on their gender. I'm not looking to "test" my trans-ness by trying hrt. Just interested to learn more about the range of responses. Many thanks all 🙂

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[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 21 points 4 days ago

I mean half of cis men are afraid of eating vegetables because they think it will estrogenize them. I would be beyond surprised if any cis men have tried a week of HRT

Closest I can find: supplement huckster/wannabe vampire Bryan Johnson takes 8mg per week of some particular type of “non-feminizing estradiol” which he claims doesn’t affect him in any perceptible way but made rats live 16% longer in some study.

But I just don’t know if we’re gonna be able to track down exactly what we’re looking for. My 2c, everyone I know who takes it had an amazing experience and totally transformed in a positive way, and not just physically. But it is a serious decision, so I get doing as much research as possible first. Wishing you the best of luck!

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago
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