[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Thank you for spreading holiday cheer!

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Was just thinking about this again, these numbers are broken out by procedure not by individual. So if someone gets more than one surgery they would be counted twice in the total

So it may be the case that most men just get the breast reduction, and women are more likely to get multiple procedures. So the total ratio of individuals might be a bit closer than 15x, but yeah women definitely face way more pressure to undertake way more changes

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago

It’s actually gnu/ussy

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Yes, masculine insecurity, which is when you are overly preoccupied with seeming, as the previous poster pointed out, like a “big boy”. Masculinity, just so you know, is definitionally not restricted to men, but is a broad collection of traits that can apply to all genders. As you can easily observe, many women go to great lengths to avoid any association with masculinity. How could they possibly be concerned with this in the first place, if that state was inherently unavailable to them?

Many women, contrarily, seek to amplify their presentation of masculinity. Many masculine traits are especially sought after by those in positions of authority, cultivated as a means to maintain that authority. After all, power, competition, and control are a few of many quintessentially masculine traits. Your former CEO presented as “cutthroat” because of her masculine insecurity, in fact.

You will find that masculine insecurity is abundant in all executive suites, regardless of anyone’s gender

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 45 points 4 days ago

You make a good point, so I wanted to check the numbers

In 2019, 24,123 male patients underwent the procedure in the United States, accounting for a 19% increase since 2000

Just pulled from wikipedia.

I then found a more detailed listing from “American Society for Plastic Surgeons” that says 2024 had about 28.5k (~26.5k from gyno surgery performed exclusively on males, and another 2k from “breast reduction”, the latter of which was also performed on 75k females)

Interestingly, an additional 91 males had breast implants removed, while over 1800 received them. I believe this figure represents pectoral implants (fake chest muscles) and is not related to top surgery for trans women.

Some other notable cosmetic surgeries for males in 2024: Liposuction (21k), rhinoplasty (7k), facelift (6k), tummy tuck (4k), cheek implants (2.3k) and chin augmentation (1.2k). 79 males received butt implants!

All in, 99k males in the US received cosmetic surgery in 2024, along with 1.5 million females

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

It always comes down to that sweet sweet masculine insecurity

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Wow this looks incredible actually! Definitely giving it a go, thank you

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 51 points 6 days ago

I will take this opportunity to recommend Crosscode, one of the best action RPGs of all time according to 90% of people who play it.

But yeah even amazing games like that fly under people’s radar in the huge deluge of games. I wish it were easier for good games to find their audience

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Belt Squats (lemmy.world)

About a month ago I posted excitedly that my gym had installed a new plate loaded belt squat machine.

I was eager to program it in, and now finally having had the chance to use it, wow!

It’s very comfortable, once you find a good angle. At first, my instinct was to sit very far back and upright to make it more like a hack squat motion. This provided a great quad stimulus, but the belt actually applied a ton of unwanted pressure to the inner thighs, and my training partner and I both ended up with big bruises on our adductors lol.

So the following week, we stepped forward, and angled our torsos to mimic a traditional squat posture. Despite this, the belt continues to dramatically reduce pressure on the back compared to a barbell squat, which is great. The belt and pulley also has much more room between your legs, so it glides freely without causing any bruising.

After finding my flow with the machine, I Iove it!

I’m someone who prides myself on being able to bring sets of heavy barbel squats to failure, but it has its downsides. For one, it’s just very mentally demanding, and there is a fear factor to overcome. Setting the weight down on the safeties after concentric failure is highly technical and while I believe it’s worth learning and practicing, it’s something I hesitate to teach others.

But the belt squat? Forget about it lol, you got one more! Take every heavy set to failure with no fear in your heart. The machine is also very easy to spot- you basically just stand opposite the person and deadlift the plates up. With that in mind, it’s actually also an amazing machine to do some super maximal eccentrics as an intensity variation. Once you hit failure, have your spotter minimally help you out of the hole, then do another super slow eccentric.

In that manner, it has several big advantages over a leg press/hack squat. I really haven’t found a way to meaningfully help someone out of the hole in a leg press. The belt squat also allows for complete freedom of motion, so it should work well for every body type.

All in all, 10/10! Very excited to progress with it for the rest of this program. It can also be used for many other exercises, such as RDLs, rows, shrugs, and more. I’ve taken to using it for standing calf press, which looks quite odd but is very effective. Since this is not an advertisement I don’t want to name the machine, but I will mention the plates travel directly up and down a tower, and it has a 1:1 weight ratio throughout the range of motion. Many other machines use a large lever to move the weight with a variable force curve, so I can’t comment on that style

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 130 points 11 months ago

lol. They can’t hear the difference even with the most expensive equipment. The resultant signal from decompressing a FLAC phase cancels with the original signal if you invert it. Meaning they are indeed 100% identical. Lossless, dare I say.

Literally all it does as a file format is merge data that is identical in the left and right channel, so as not to store that information twice. You can see this for yourself by trying to compress tracks that have totally different/identical L and R channels, and seeing how much they compress if at all

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

I started seeing cakes appear on people’s usernames, and I realized that it’s been a full year now since the great debacle through which many of us discovered lemmy.

Seeing them all start to pop up at once has made me a bit nostalgic. Memmy was such an exciting and important project during that time, I believe for many people it is the reason they stuck with lemmy in the long term.

So, cheers to the devs, and to anyone who still checks on this community from time to time when memmy crosses their mind.

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 133 points 2 years ago

Three main reasons

Firstly, it does make you sweat more, which reduces your weight (temporarily). It’s common for people in sports that require a weigh-in to do this and also partially dehydrate themselves before they are weighed to make their weight class.

Secondly, it’s done by people trying to lose weight in general who have heard about the first group and incorrectly believe inducing sweat this way will speed up their weight loss. The exact opposite is true: by intentionally overheating yourself, you actually reduce the effectiveness of your workout, making your fitness goals harder to achieve in the long run. There are tons of myths like this that seem intuitive but hold a lot of people back.

Thirdly, people are just self-conscious sometimes and cover up their body

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So, I noticed that a couple of my image uploads made using Voyager now just show a “?” graphic. Looking around this community, I’m seeing a lot of other people’s posts are like that too.

In other apps and via browser, the images are also missing. Is anyone else experiencing this/do we know what’s happening?

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

I noticed while scrolling All that whenever these posts are displayed, the app lags out significantly, but then returns to normal a few seconds after they’re off screen.

I suspect it’s actually just the top one because it’s a gif. Running latest test test flight version

[-] Carnelian@lemmy.world 123 points 2 years ago

I actually saw that happen in real time, did we confirm it was an admin action?

All the pixels came in at the same time

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

Behavior started a few updates ago for me. If I go to answer a text or check any other app, when I come back to Memmy the app won’t let me click on posts for 10-20 seconds

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

Lemmy.world was experiencing authentication issues yesterday, making it difficult to comment and vote.

These issues were resolved some hours ago when lemmy.world updated to 18.02, but you may still be experiencing issues with your account on third party apps such as memmy.

If so, everything will start working normally if you remove your account from the app and add it again! Possibly just reinstalling will also achieve the same thing, but I haven’t tested that personally.

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

It feels weird having it there in big bold letters all the time. I sometimes want to show someone a post or talk about lemmy in general, but I’m apprehensive about them learning my account name.

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

In Apollo, there was this really interesting feature that let you disable the gestures for voting/replying/etc. If you did so, then you could use the entire screen to navigate between posts instead of needing to swipe all the way from the side.

I struggle with a repetitive stress injury and this feature helped me a lot! I managed to grab a screenshot of the exact setting before Apollo shut down. It would be awesome if something similar could be implemented in Memmy

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I’ve been sleeping on the same one for a few years but it’s become really lumpy. I don’t mind spending a little money, but are the modern “high tech” pillows really worth it?

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submitted 2 years ago by Carnelian@lemmy.world to c/memmy@lemmy.ml

I noticed I can save posts from the app but don’t see where to view the posts I’ve saved

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