[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

Thank you 🫂 I’ll try this

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Thank you!! This is helpful, I’ll try this 🙏

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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by religion6614@sh.itjust.works to c/kindnesskommunityalt

It says “religion” but I put a name as “Logan” and now I will just use it to seek advice and stuff. I will stop trying to force my religion onto people. I have a lot to learn but I will learn as much as I can.

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

My girlfriend asked if it would make me happy, does that count?

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Thank you, I won’t do it then

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Oh my God, I didn’t realize how bad it was… Thanks so much

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago

thank you, how can I not be dismissive?

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago

I saw your post but you either deleted it or the mod did. Why do you feel this way? Could it be that she just wanted a friend and you behave like this? Do you need to talk?

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

I try to be kind to everyone but I’m also awful at boundaries, like I still used to stay with people who bullied me but now I’m better. I just like peace, I don’t want my gf to be upset at anyone.

Thank you 🙏

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Sometimes, when I reassure my girlfriend, I’ll say when someone is an asshole, “maybe he just X”, like “maybe he just had a bad day” or “maybe he’s not mean, he’s just upset” or “your dad has to take care of the family, so when he’s mean to you or mom, he’s stressed since he cares”.

Am I being rude for this?? Kind advice please. Or when her online friend said “IM GONNA KILL EVERYONE” I told her it was a joke and she shouldn’t say anything because it was probably him joking.

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Mine: crab rangoon!

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

Thank you so much!! She said she was willing to hear me out, so maybe God will call her.

[-] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

She is not “Christian Christian,” she is agnostic but believes in God. Thank you! She said she is willing to hear me out.

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