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[-] wendyz@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago

Thank you ❤️

[-] oftheair 6 points 1 month ago

[Sincere] Can you explain how? We've a lot of trauma from prople saying this and then acting counter to it, so an explanation would genuinely be helpful to us.

If you'd like to, no worries if not.

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 6 points 1 month ago

Oh, I’m so sorry 🫂

I care about your well-being, I’ll listen to your comments, and I’ll try to be there for you. I won’t say always but I can try to consistently be there often. This is a kindness community where people are kind to others.

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

I hope I explained well, sorry

[-] oftheair 5 points 1 month ago

No need to apologise, you did. Thanks! 🙂

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

Yay, no problem! How are you today?

[-] oftheair 6 points 1 month ago

Just about to go to sleep. Will answer later, but warning it might not be positive.

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

I’m sorry if I did something wrong the! Goodnight

[-] oftheair 5 points 1 month ago

No you have done nothing wrong, it's about our life, not about you. Just time for eeps. 🙂

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

Thanks!! Sleep well :) I will sleep too

[-] RicoPeru 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

you can post it later by the way!! it’s just no negative comments about others like “user @abc sucks!!!”

[-] oftheair 3 points 1 month ago

Thanks for clarifying!

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

So to be honest, pretty upset and angry. Those we live with that think of themselves as our family have been nothing but abusive since we returned back to them from elsewhere.

Yesterday they tried to shut us down merely for trying to counter their indoctrination of a child that lives here into believing cops are good.

We have been left without a bathroom because of unforseen circumstances, and one of them messed up our network setup and refused to fix it so we have had to run a long cable between the rooms (which works better than the previous setup anyway).

Now it is father's day here and we're done with their awfulness but they are going to expect praise or a card or something else they will become even more abusive, but we refuse this time. They have stoked our final ire on the fire that we carry within us.

They don't get to treat us this way for years, hating everything we are and trying to shape and control us into what they want us to be and expect to get away with it. Ever since we started showing thinking for ourselves and gaining our own personality they haven't let up, from since we were quite small too.

There is no connection there and we are tired of pretending there is. They don't get to do that kind of thing to us any more.

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

I’m so sorry this happened 🫂 That’s very, very horrible. They have no right to treat you that way, you don’t owe them anything at all.

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 month ago

Thank you, that's very kind and helpful of you to say! 🙂

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 3 points 1 month ago

Of course! Hope it gets better 😞

[-] oftheair 4 points 1 month ago

It won't, but we appreciate the well wishes. We need to figure out some way of escaping them.

[-] BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earth 3 points 1 month ago

I hope you can very soon!!

[-] oftheair 2 points 1 month ago
[-] jaiden@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

do you live with them? i’m sorry too :(

[-] oftheair 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Yes, unfortunately they are the cause of our inability to work etc to move out. They gave us several mental health conditions and forced us to stay at a job we no longer wanted to work at (when we still worked). They're truly awful but they refuse to get the help they needed and instead attack us, they're also very right wing, whilst we're not. So you might be able to see what the problem is.

[-] jaiden@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

that’s terrible :(( i’m so sorry

[-] oftheair 3 points 1 month ago

Thank you. We truly appreciate that.

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