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submitted 2 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

i'm extremely mentally ill, with bad mood swings. i'm disordered. i exaggerate everything. i lie a lot and feel like i can't stop, like an addiction. i'm trying to stop. that's why i'm telling the truth right now.

my imagination feels better than reality sometimes. i lied once about being in a coma from a plane crash and got berated for it by my school social worker because i obviously lied, but it was a form of expression to me.

my feelings for my girlfriend and past relationships were never pure love. they were obsession. i got attached too quickly and my feelings became an attachment/obsession i'm trying to work on. i have a fear of abandonment. my love for them isn't pure it feels like, it's mixed with mud.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/kindnesskommunityalt

my “friends” would often pretend to like me while talking behind my back and later threatening me to my face, yelling at me, and saying rude things like that i should die because i tried to start a conversation with them. i later found out they were only pretending to like me and they “pitied me so they were just trying to be nice because they’re nice people”.

they also hated that i was autistic and would constantly bully people different like autistic people and furries.

the person who bullied autistic people and furries also tried to get me to pass a ball, got mad when it flew over my head, and in a rage, tried to throw it at my head.

this person constantly goes into rages. they get angry very easily to the point of raging and become very violent, insulting me, threatening me, and trying to hurt me, i believe.

is this average bullying behavior? that’s all, i’m just curious.

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was this average bullying behavior? (self.nostupidquestions)
submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

my "friends" would often pretend to like me while talking behind my back and later threatening me to my face, yelling at me, and saying rude things like that i should die because i tried to start a conversation with them. i later found out they were only pretending to like me and they "pitied me so they were just trying to be nice because they're nice people".

they also hated that i was autistic and would constantly bully people different like autistic people and furries.

the person who bullied autistic people and furries also tried to get me to pass a ball, got mad when it flew over my head, and in a rage, tried to throw it at my head.

this person constantly goes into rages. they get angry very easily to the point of raging and become very violent, insulting me, threatening me, and trying to hurt me, i believe.

is this average bullying behavior? that's all, i'm just curious.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

maybe not exactly, but there was this one girl that bullied me for my various conditions, including my autism, and called me multiple slurs. she bullied and "abused" me every day. one time, she got mad because i couldn't pass a volleyball to her that went over my head. she told me i was bad at volleyball, that my only existence was to suck, and told me to stand still. she then proceeded to violently try to throw the ball at my head and body multiple times, each time failing or me dodging.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

it honestly grosses me out and pisses me off, i’ve been severely bullied for my disorders. that’s it, just wanted to rant for a bit.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

there, i said it.

it sounds mean to say, but going off of what "dave" has told me, i really don't like how his dad sounds. his dad is very homophobic and transphobic.

there was one incident when we were 17 where dave's dad had to sign a form and it said "gender:" with the options "male", "female", and "non-binary". he freaked out.

he also forbade us to hang out at a youth center because he saw two teenage girls hugging and assumed they were in a lesbian relationship.

he got mad at dave for saying hi to a girl from his school because she had bright pink hair and he assumed she was a lesbian because of the hair (apparently, he guessed right but still.)

in fifth grade, i remember dave had a crush on me and he told dave not to associate with me because i was "ugly" and "he could find better friends".

i wonder how he would feel about ME, his son's best friend, if he ever found out i was a lesbian/bi. he already doesn't like me and thinks i'm in love with dave, he's gonna hate me a lot more when he finds out i'm in a wlw relationship.

whenever dave's dad sees me, though, he has the nerve to say hi and smile.

just wanted to share this.

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'tis i... (self.lesbians)
submitted 3 weeks ago by drbollocks to c/lesbians

dunno if any of y'all remember me, but i'm drbollocks. you may call me charlotte. i was struggling with my mental health but i eventually got better and wanted to come back to lemmy, which i kinda forgot about, to share the news :)

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submitted 4 months ago by drbollocks to c/bipolardisorder@lemmy.world

currently i take abilify 2mg and it’s helping!! yay me!! 🎉

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submitted 4 months ago by drbollocks to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

im so goooddd!!!! :DD

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i love you all ❤️ thank you (self.goodoffmychest)
submitted 4 months ago by drbollocks to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

thank you, my handsome boyfriend ❤️

thank you, my family 💕

thank you, strangers 🧡

thank you, friends 💛

my life has been so great because of you. i think this is my time. my own self-preservation instincts kicked in, that’s the only reason im not dead yet.

i love you, i love you. thank you, thank you, thank you thank you thank you 🙏 😊 ❤️

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submitted 4 months ago by drbollocks to c/genealogy@lemmy.world

people move around a lot. plus, i heard a lot of french people have taken ancestry dna tests and have gotten most of it in england and northwestern europe. i’ve also heard that in france, most dna testing like this is illegal.

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submitted 4 months ago by drbollocks to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[-] drbollocks 8 points 5 months ago

this reads like hostility, not sarcasm. I hope you don’t have to see her a lot.

[-] drbollocks 13 points 5 months ago

she tells me people hate me but never tell me because i’m autistic.

oh someone doesn’t like me? it’s because i’m retarded.

someone’s nice to me? they’re faking it.

you’re leaving me for them? please stay with me.

[-] drbollocks 22 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

learning how to make videogames, learning to program a site, drawing, etc.

[-] drbollocks 10 points 6 months ago

if u don’t get the ok from your partner, do not pursue other ppl while dating them please 🙏

[-] drbollocks 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.

sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first

“They mostly just type like this.

Hello

I’m fine, what about you?

Sorry, I can’t hang out. I don’t want my boyfriend to be upset.”

[-] drbollocks 16 points 6 months ago

thank you ❤️

[-] drbollocks 8 points 6 months ago

thanks ❤️ ig cuz it’s so recent and i still harbor some old feelings, i feel like he can change

[-] drbollocks 9 points 6 months ago

i also notice that although he’s bi, he’d only talk about hot men (especially fictional), wouldn’t mention me to other people, and would talk to me about his crushes as if we were just good friends. he would also try to make moves with some of them, presumably not telling them about me

[-] drbollocks 9 points 7 months ago

mine was a good ex, we were quite assholes in middle school but we’re on good terms and she’s nice now.

but considering shes straight, i probably don’t have a chance anyway

[-] drbollocks 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

thanks so much, i blocked him because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. he told me to ditch my bf for him and didn’t care that i didn’t have feelings for him. in fact, he didn’t care much about my personality or identity so long as i was his girlfriend. that’s all he saw, nothing else outside of that.

and even though he wanted me to “take my time”, he was convinced i was his future wife despite only having known me for about a week all because i was pretty and nice to him.

he also didn’t actually care whether or not i liked him, he just wanted me to say yes regardless. i feel like since that was his first time, he’d have sex with me, force me into doing it if i said no, and then break up and badmouth me.

[-] drbollocks 8 points 7 months ago

literally 1984

[-] drbollocks 13 points 7 months ago

“achew~ 🇬🇧 ☕️”

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