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submitted 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) by ada to c/main

Whilst this is not a local only post/community, it is primarily intended for blahaj lemmy members. Top level replies from non blahaj accounts will be removed.

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I want to take the moment to clarify the Blahaj Lemmy position on things, given recent events and the fallout that has followed. This will give people the chance to decide for themselves if blahaj zone lemmy is the right space for them, or if it doesn't meet their needs.

First and foremost, blahaj zone lemmy exists to give a space for queer folk to exist, with their needs explicitly protected as the highest priority, and with a particular focus on the needs of gender diverse folk. Most lemmy instances are not run by trans folk, and whilst many are still inclusive, they don't always prioritise our needs. Others barely consider trans folk, and react only to the most blatant of bigotry.

We are not a political instance, however political communities have a space here, as does any community that is actively protective of the needs of queer and gender diverse folk. Given the impact of politics on gender diverse folk, that means lots of dialogue and strong opinions exist, and as long as those opinions are honestly held, and not bigoted or exclusive, people are welcome to have and express those opinions here.

For what it's worth, I am a member of the Greens Party in Australia. I have no time for the middle ground politics of the Australian Labor party, let alone the right wing beliefs of the Australian Liberal party. Yet a community of queer Labor Party aligned folk would fit on blahaj lemmy, because the parties ideologies, are not explicitly anti queer. A community aligned with the Australian Liberal party likely would not have a place here, unless the goal of the community was to work at actively challenging the anti queer policies of the party.

That being said, political communities (or any other communities) that exist solely to target and take aim at other queer folk have no place here either. The goal of blahaj lemmy is queer inclusion, and a community whose sole goal is division, will be removed.

The downside to this is that as we assume good faith in members and we don't gatekeep or deny access to people because of their pronouns or gender identity, (even when those identities are challenging to many) it is possible for bad faith actors to take advantage of our inclusive policies. Unfortunately, that's just something we are going to have to navigate as it occurs, because I won't let bad faith folk push this instance to defaulting to exclusion or gatekeeping the validity of someone's identity. I will respect a trolls pronouns even as I ban them, because to not do so, normalises the idea that pronouns are something that are earned by good behaviour, or that other people have a say in the validity of another person's identity and pronouns.

So that's where we stand. Hopefully this will help people decide for themselves whether or not this is the right instance for them.

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submitted 2 hours ago by neuracnu to c/trailers

A contemporary reimagining of the beloved and respected novel of the same name where a professional assassin (Eddie Redmayne) is contracted by a French paramilitary dissident (Lashana Lynch) to kill French President Charles de Gaulle.

https://www.themoviedb.org/tv/222766-the-day-of-the-jackal

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Die! Die! Die! (cdn.masto.host)
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submitted 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) by ThisIsAManWhoKnowsHowToGling@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/196

cross-posted from: https://slrpnk.net/post/11787771

[alt text: Text that says, "People [say] 'I never see butterflies or lightning bugs in my yard. Their yard: (colon)". Below the text is a photo of a birds-eye view of a large house with an equally large yard. The lawn is covered in standard turfgrass (probably Kentucky bluegrass) that has been recently mowed.]

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Ruleclick (files.catbox.moe)
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Rule (lemmy.world)
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submitted 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) by abs_mess to c/196

Years later, I looked at my wedding party of six groomsmen and realized that every single one of them had, like me, grown up in a small Ohio town before leaving for Ohio State. To a man, all of them had found that couches coud satisfy them more than a women ever could, and that books are really just zipped HTML, and nobody really checks PGP signatures.

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submitted 9 hours ago by neuracnu to c/trailers

A town of people slowly go insane over increasing obsessions with spiral shapes: patterns in the clouds, everyday objects, hair, insects, skin.

Directed by Hiroshi Nagahama (Mushi-Shi. Detroit Metal City, Flowers of Evil). Music by Colin Stetson (Arrival, Hereditary, The Menu, Color Out of Space).

After four years of delays, the series will premiere on Adult Swim, Sept 28 2024.

https://www.themoviedb.org/tv/93241-uzumaki

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submitted 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) by Ranger to c/main

I keep getting an odd error message.

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submitted 12 hours ago by user224@lemmy.sdf.org to c/196

Probably dust particles and slight rotation while in the backpack.

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Pikemaid rule (lemmy.world)
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by Ironlily

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Bowling rule (programming.dev)
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Comments are: it's to be expected

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rule rot lingo (lemmy.world)
submitted 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) by TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world to c/196

The brain rot question probably doesn't mean anything, but here's my interpretation:

"Do you use degenerate/terminally online(goon cave munting) lingo(Carti) to try and be cool(baby gronk), infamous(Andrew Tate), and funny(Colleen Ballinger) to people that don't understand what you're talking about(Smurf, Shmlawg)?"

Something along those lines anyhow. The question might have made her question her whole existence. She also seems shocked about being a relic of a time where no one used or understood brain rot. Her gimmick isn't new anymore, so where does that leave her?

Thankfully, my brain rot of overthinking silly shit was always stale, so I don't have her problems 😊

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Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

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