[-] transhetwarrior 17 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

The r-slur is targeted at intellectually disabled people. It's not something for you to reclaim. When people call non-intellectually disabled autistic people that, the insult is that they're comparing them to intellectually disabed people.

[-] transhetwarrior 11 points 1 week ago

God I can't wait to not have periods anymore

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[-] transhetwarrior 24 points 2 weeks ago

I've had people misgender me and try to convince me not to transition and then go claim to be trans allies because they don't call people slurs and will say that killing trans people is bad if asked

[-] transhetwarrior 27 points 1 month ago

Woman testosterone man elevated never vagina

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Vagina Man (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] transhetwarrior 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

anyway apparently the wikipedia page for okra is marked red Okra

[-] transhetwarrior 12 points 1 month ago

Don't like it. I know a lot of people who got marked red because of some personal drama, or for things they used to believe but no longer do, and they keep getting accused of being transphobic with no other reason than being marked red on shinigami eyes. Plus I don't agree with the guidelines on what counts as transphobic, like it says afab transfem is a transphobic troll identity that should be marked red, but afab transfem and amab transmasc are actual identities used by intersex people who have a more complicated relationship with their asab

[-] transhetwarrior 22 points 1 month ago

It's not about "maturity" or "protecting kids", they don't want anyone to transition. They just focus on youth because it's easier to take human rights away from people who have less rights already.

[-] transhetwarrior 27 points 1 month ago

So. I was raised by a domestic violence lawyer. She was always really passionate about her job, about fighting abuse.

When I was in middle school, I was abused myself. A teacher. I knew what was happening. I knew what they said to do about - tell a trusted adult. They would know what to do.

My mother, the domestic violence lawyer, always so passionate about stopping abuse. She didn't believe me. I was just a dumb kid, and kids make things up all the time.

I realized there's not much a kid can do to protect themself. "Tell a trusted adult" is the solution, not because adults are more responsible, but because they actually have fucking rights. If an adult has a bad job, they can get up and quit. If I tried to walk away from school, I'd be beaten.

None of the adults wanted to listen to me, so what could I do? Jack fucking shit. I had that teacher for three years until I moved on to high school. I still have the trauma.

Treat kids like people. I don't want to hear any of this shit about how stupid they are. They know more about their own life experience than you do. Listen to them

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Remember being 15 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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I used to keep some spare panties around for periods but I don't have to do that anymore cause I got briefs

[-] transhetwarrior 13 points 1 month ago

The guy that called me a slur exploding outwards into little bits as soon as I tell him I don't "accept the social institution of race"

[-] transhetwarrior 31 points 1 month ago

It's like. Most people know on some level that racism is bad. And they don't want to be bad, so they don't want to consider that they could be racist, cause in their eyes that would make them bad people. Like there's some binary between the evil racist people and the good, not racist, normal people. But the thing is, racism is built into our entire society, our culture, everything. Everyone will learn some racist beliefs just living in this world. You have to confront that. But you can't do that if you're to obsessed with this "but I'm not a bad person" shit

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submitted 1 month ago by transhetwarrior to c/poc@beehaw.org

Trying to discuss race with white people is like talking to a brick wall. I just tried to talk about racism and got fucking ganged up on by white people swearing that you can only be racist if you intend to be so they aren't racist as long as they mean well. It's so fucking entitled when white people start lecturing poc about what's really racist. God.

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I submitted the paperwork a while ago but it seems there's a pretty big delay

[-] transhetwarrior 10 points 1 month ago

Key points include classifying "transgender ideology" as pornography, banning porn and making it a sex offense, introducing the death penalty for sex offenders. All those together....

[-] transhetwarrior 9 points 1 month ago

Atheists what if you were a batter and about to hit the home run but then the pitcher accidentally threw a christian baby at you would you hit it and get the home run

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