First post! Let's see if this community catches on (self.letsubsbemanipulated)

submitted 1 day ago by evthestrike to c/letsubsbemanipulated

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I recently met my amazing girlfriend who has been making me so happy as a sub! I hope she continues to train me to be a good boy/girl

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[-] oftheair 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Cool, glad you have found someone who makes you happy.

Now some questions about this community:

Will you be placing any safety guards to make sure people do not get the wrong idea about kink, and making sure anything uploaded here is 100% consensual, and the posters are out of subspace when posting?

Will you be making sure that any d-types looking for 'prey' here are vetted to make sure they are not abusive? It has happened before, and sadly likely will likely happen again.

As fellow kinksters we think such things are important.

Thanks for reading, and hopefully answering our questions.

[-] evthestrike 2 points 19 hours ago

I think maybe it’s not a great idea for me to be in charge of a community because I’m not confident in my abilities to moderate, and I’m not experienced in BDSM

I will go ahead and delete this community I think, but I hope I can find a fun space like this on Lemmy

I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my post

[-] oftheair 2 points 16 hours ago

If you are looking for a community to learn more about kink/BDSM and how to be safe in it then check out the one we run which is about education and safety etc:

!kink@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 1 day ago

communities should be created because either they are required to remove a signal from a general-content community or you have a ton of content to share.

if neither of those things are true, it shouldnt be created. you cant just 'field of dreams' it.

[-] evthestrike 2 points 19 hours ago

Those sound like some good guidelines. I think I’m not experienced enough to be able to moderate a community, especially with a potentially sensitive topic like this. I think It’s better if I delete this community

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LetSubsBeManipulated

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5 users here now

I missed the LetBoysBeManipulated subreddit, so here we are.

The subreddit description is: "LetBoysBeManipulated exists so we don't clog up r/LetGirlsHaveFun, and for a place for them to find prey, this place is for memes related to the femdom or malesub lifestyle."

I envision this community being more focused on subs in general and less specific to femdom or malesub, partly to fit in better on lemmy.blahaj.zone

Still a great place for doms to find prey! (I hope)

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