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submitted 2 months ago by girlthing to c/transgender

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/23732655

This helped me procese some of my worries and fears, so I thought I'd share it here. Rather old article, but surprisingly good.

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submitted 2 months ago by girlthing to c/trans

This helped me procese some of my worries and fears, so I thought I'd share it here. Rather old article, but surprisingly good.

[-] girlthing 39 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

There are massive protests all over the US. AOC/Bernie drawing huge crowds. Republicans chanting "tax the rich".

Corporate media won't give it the coverage it deserves, and mainstream social media will bury it with their algorithms. Because they're all owned by the billionaires bowing to Trump.

They want you to feel like nobody's doing anything. Remember that.

[-] girlthing 36 points 2 months ago

Fun fact: the doctor in question was opposed to the death penalty, and proposed the guillotine thinking he could at least make it more humane. He deeply regretted this action and spent the rest of his life campaigning against it. His family was so ashamed that they changed their surname.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph-Ignace_Guillotin

[-] girlthing 20 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Pretty sure you still need a phone number for an account, though - the usernames are just for sharing your contact with other people.

Most peoples' phone numbers are easily linked to their identity. Which means the government knows who's using Signal.

Usernames are definitely an improvement, but this is a fundamental limitation in Signal's design.

[-] girlthing 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I wonder - what is the actual audience for approval rating polls?

The folks most affected by high prices or mass layoffs are probably struggling too much to have the time or inclination. Around 30% of the country didn't even show up for the election, they probably won't show up for these.

Who does that leave us with? Can we really assume that '47% approval' translates to '47% of all Americans approve'?

[-] girlthing 35 points 2 months ago

You know, I spent a lot of time today obsessing over how bad the world is getting, and wondering what the point of it all is.

This. It's this. I stick around for the weird motherfuckers who'll do shit like this, and share it on the internet.

If I must live through yet another apocaplyse, I want to do it with you.

[-] girlthing 23 points 2 months ago

Everyone go listen to Transgender Dysphoria Blues, it goes so fucking hard

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by girlthing to c/punk_rock@lemmy.ca
[-] girlthing 43 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Here is the song they're so triggered by. It's a fucking masterpiece, and I will be sorely disappointed if it doesn't go viral from hate-publicity:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QSmYxKIs3PI

(Sorry about the direct YouTube link; couldn't find a single working Piped instance. What's the MO these days?)

Couldn't find direct footage of the set either (outside of hate propaganda that I won't click on), but if anyone wants to go looking there are some details here (from her Linktree):
https://act.berniesanders.com/signup/rsvp-oligarchy-kenosha/?source=kpl

[-] girlthing 24 points 2 months ago

Hi, closeted trans girl here... just wanted to say that I really hope you keep going - because I want to come out into a world with people like you, who carried the same weight as me and still made it to age 30 and beyond. That's something I can only imagine in my best moments, so frankly you're already my hero just for making it that far <3

I'm not DMing because I doubt I have much more to offer than my words here, but if you send me one I'll probably get over myself and reply anyway :3 (may take a few days though, I'm the snail-mail type)

[-] girlthing 27 points 3 months ago

cool, now send a link to your source code so we can fork you

[-] girlthing 22 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Closeted trans person here. The fact that so many of you have dared to live as yourselves, and to keep fighting in the face of increasing odds, is the reason I'm still here.

Never underestimate just how much it means for the world that you exist, as you are.

[-] girlthing 34 points 3 months ago
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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by girlthing to c/politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world

Repost, since apparently a lot of people haven't internalized this: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21216426

Not aimed at this community in particular; just the overall trend in discussion on the Fediverse in general.

Maybe you were put off by the... unique site design, but consider that Greg Palast has been doing this kind of work and getting ignored since the 80s(!). He's talked about voter suppression since 2008 at least. He probably knows that looking 'professional' doesn't matter anymore, because MSM will never give him his due.

Lots of people consciously don't vote, for reasons you may disagree with. They are not the reason we lost this election. Please, let's stop eating our own allies alive.

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submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by girlthing to c/mtf

I've been closeted for years now. It's not safe for me to be/express who I really am, and I have no idea if or when I'll ever be able to develop into an actual person. I intend to survive anyway, if only for the hope that I might somehow, someday make existence a little more bearable for others.

I find that I'm a bit more motivated to keep going when I've watched/read/listened to stuff that reminds me why I even try. Stuff that's beautiful and/or believes that it's worth it. Stuff that reminds me that I'm not the only one to do this, that I'm connected to everyone who came before and will come after, and that we're not alone.

What helped you survive what you went through? What helps you now?

Can be anything really, as long as it's something I can get my hands on via the internet. Preferably stuff without too much of a time investment (neurodivergence means I effectively have very little productive time), but honestly, I just want to hear from you.

EDIT: thanks for the replies everyone, i'm only seeing them now, i appreciate it <3

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