[-] dipshit 5 points 1 month ago

I have doubts of how possible it is to accidentally fake being trans. Back in my darker days when I hug out with terrible people (and also was one) I had friends who attempted to do just that to "infiltrate trans groups" and for almost every one of them it backfired and they ended up coming out as trans in one way or another.

So I think it's more likely to fake being cis than to fake being trans.

[-] dipshit 11 points 1 month ago

Obviously not gay, just two girls who really like each other. Not gay whatsoever ๐Ÿ˜

[-] dipshit 6 points 1 month ago

NGL I'm kind of going to miss being able to go to the Beach shirtless once they grow in. Will be totally worth it though to be my authentic self ๐Ÿ˜Š

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submitted 1 month ago by dipshit to c/asktransgender

Want to know some of the weird and wrong things you believed back then. I used to believe a lot of dumb things, some of them were dumb in a funny way, others in a hurtful right wing way, but many of those things were wrong and pretty dumb looking back.

[-] dipshit 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Congratulations, I hope you have a speedy recovery.

[-] dipshit 30 points 1 month ago

I remember this guy. I remember giving him way too much praise back when I was a stupid right wing bigot. I regret that deeply, he is a horrible person and this just goes to show it even more.

[-] dipshit 33 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I just don't want to, I don't like skirts and dresses as weird as it sounds. I'm very tomboyish and prefer wearing more masculine outfits, I prefer pants over skirts or dresses, and shorts during the warmer weather.

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submitted 1 month ago by dipshit to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.ca
[-] dipshit 7 points 1 month ago

I probably would've done the exact same thing.

[-] dipshit 5 points 1 month ago

My week is okay. I've been hanging out with some friends I met at a pride event, they seem really nice. Two of them are NonBinary. I haven't met someone who's NonBinary before but they seem like really nice people so far. I hope we can be good friends.

[-] dipshit 17 points 2 months ago

I think it has been reclaimed by the community, though I'm doubtful that the old man with a MAGA hat who called me a dyke is aware of that or using it in that kind of way (yes he was literally wearing a MAGA hat).

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by dipshit to c/mtf

I know that it's an awful and homophobic slur but it made me feel weirdly validated to be called a slur that's usually only used on women (lesbians). I don't know, it's weird. Part of me is upset that they called me a homophobic slur but a part of me is also euphoric for being referred to, even indirectly as a woman. Does anyone else relate to this experience?

(By the way I'm a transfem lesbian.)

[-] dipshit 6 points 2 months ago

Yup they're your typical transphobic bigot who's mad that someone actually stands up against them and won't tolerate them. It's important to challenge these types of people so that the mask can slip off and they reveal themselves for who they really are.

[-] dipshit 20 points 2 months ago

I'm little more than a month into HRT, it feels like forever though. Sometimes I wonder if it's even working. I get my blood tested so I know my estrogen levels are good, but damn it just takes forever ๐Ÿ˜ข

[-] dipshit 11 points 2 months ago

I wouldn't describe it as authoritarian. That implies unjust use of authority. Their harshness towards transphobes is justified and necessary, because transphobes are an existential threat towards trans people, and queer people as a whole. It's not authoritarian, it's protective.

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Farewell lemm.ee (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by dipshit to c/trans

Despite its challenges lemm.ee will forever hold a special place inside my heart. When I signed up to lemm.ee I was younger, more aggressive. Less mature. I did many things to hurt people, I didn't realize that it was because I myself was hurting inside, it took me far longer to realize that. And even though it was communities on lemmy.blahaj.zone who helped me find myself. I still feel that I owe some of it to this instance who gave me a home here when no one else would've. Thank you to everyone here who tolerated the rude and aggressive young man I used to be, so I could finally come out as the woman I always was, so I could realize the pain I always had but never knew I had. And for that I want to say thanks to lemm.ee. lemm.ee wasn't just a server, it was a community. I hope I can have new and joyful experiences on lemmy.blahaj.zone, but no place will feel more like home to me than this place. Farewell lemm.ee. You will be missed.

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