That a person had to reject or be distressed by their natal anatomy or natural hormone levels in order to be trans. I'm Non-Binary, and therefore trans. People might think I'm a cis woman pretending to be trans since I am AFAB and I don't take hormones or desire any surgeries, but I'm still trans, because NonBinary is trans and I am not cis 🏳️⚧️
That hadn't occured to me as a cis dude. Thanks for pointing it out!
You're welcome :)
@SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world I wonder what the distain towards my comment is. Do you disagree with the assessment that NonBinary is trans or are you just downvoting everything I post in communities you aren't banned from?
First one is transphobic, second one is harassment. Both are bannable offenses here.
https://lemvotes.org/comment/lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/19334280
I thought that I had to be a binary women if I transitioned :3
Mood
The main misconception that stopped my egg cracking was that trans people "always knew" they had the wrong body, whereas I, clearly male (look, I've got a dick and everything) merely wanted really badly to be a girl. Totally different, ah well.
Also I was really strongly opposed to cosmetic stuff: surgeries, tattoos, piercings etc. Like, easily deal-breaker level. I always thought it was kind of a weird hangup and I should talk to someone about it, but I'd get panic attacks whenever I thought too hard about it so kind of let it be. Turns out the reason I was so obsessed with body modification was because I wanted to change mine and I was jealous of anyone else who could.
And just the general misogyny that comes from growing up in an almost exclusively male environment.
I had that too, I also just didn't know just how badly I wanted to be a girl until I met a really good friend who I learned was trans (and was also in the right state of mind not to immediately push her away), questioned my own gender, then experimented with she/her pronouns on myself and learned yup totally want to be a girl, really badly too. I also doubted myself a bit since I'd heard that you need dysphoria, but that didn't last long because I realized my chest dysphoria very soon after that.
I thought alllllll the trans people I ever knew about, just kinda luckily happened to be born looking that way? Nobody ever told me about like... transition stuff, hormones, etc lolll
I didn't think transition would help as much as it did. I didn't even know this much happiness was possible.
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